Chapter 330 Why Do You Like to Share Your Daily Life?

But after all, she believed in Ning Youguang's professional ability.

Therefore, after being silent for a while, she sincerely said to Ning Youguang, "Mr. Ning, I'm sorry, I still don't quite understand what you said, but I believe in your professional ability. My cousin would like to ask for your help." , so much trouble.”

She paused slightly, "As for the issue of the original family you mentioned, if you need the cooperation of my aunt and uncle, you can just tell me and I will do their ideological work."

"Okay." Ning Youguang smiled softly, "I don't need you to guard my side for the time being, why don't you call Weiwei to find out where she is and ask her to accompany you around our school. There is a ginkgo grove in the school that is beautiful now."

"Okay." Ms. Wang smiled, with gratitude in her eyes, "I will trouble you here, the time is almost up, we will come over."

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When Ning Youguang returned to the office again, he saw Xiaotian swiping his phone.

She chuckled and asked, "How is it? Are you feeling better?"

"It's much better." Xiaotian swiped his phone for a while before raising his head, "I feel better when my cousin is gone, but I get annoyed when I hear her talking."

Ning Youguang smiled lightly, "Is there a lot of pressure recently?"

Xiaotian lowered her head again and was silent for a long time before she asked Ning Youguang, "Have you read my news online?"

"I've seen it." Ning Youguang said.

"I knew it." Xiaotian sneered, "You must think I'm ridiculous, right?"

Ning Youguang slowly shook his head, "It's nothing ridiculous."

Xiaotian was slightly taken aback, "Are you sure?"

"I'm very sure." Ning Youguang's clear eyes seemed to penetrate Xiaotian's black sunglasses and land on her eyes.

Such a clear gaze made the latter turn his head uncomfortably, trying to dodge.

Ning Youguang's attitude didn't change at all because of her dodging and evasion, and he still looked at her quietly.

After dodging for a while, Xiaotian turned his head again, and his eyes fell on Ning Youguang's face again.

She could feel that the professor in front of her, who was even more beautiful than a female star, and looked very young, was really not lying.

"Why?" She asked puzzled, "Is it because you are a psychiatrist?"

Ning Youguang said, "You can understand it this way."

"So, you also think I'm sick?" Xiaotian felt uncomfortable again.

Ning Youguang took a sip of water indifferently, "Why do you think I don't think you're ridiculous because I think you're sick?"

"Isn't it?" The rising of inner discomfort caused thorns to stand on Xiaotian's body.

"This is your point of view, not mine." Ning Youguang said softly, "And your self-righteous point of view makes me uncomfortable again."

The expression on Xiaotian's face paused.

Ning Youguang laughed, "You can ask me why I don't think you are ridiculous."

Xiaotian was silent.

Ning Youguang said, "Many times, we habitually like to use our own thoughts to interpret other people's words, and we often interpret wrongly. During this process, many people like to insist that their interpretation is correct. Therefore, As a result, many of us feel that we are not understood or understand others in our daily life. It is actually very simple to solve this contradiction of mutual incomprehension, that is, whenever we feel uncomfortable emotions, we might as well be patient. Come on, go and ask the other party—'What do you mean by this sentence?', so that we can effectively prevent us from getting along badly because we don't understand each other."

After listening carefully, Xiaotian asked, "Why don't you think I'm ridiculous?"

Ning Youguang said, "You must have a reason for doing what you think is right. No one will do what they think is wrong."

Xiaotian said, "Yes, I am right. Why do they say I am wrong and laugh at me? There are so many fake famous brands, so why can't I wear them? So many Internet celebrities and celebrities have their own designs, I What's wrong with setting up personal settings? Why do they treat me so harshly, I don't believe they live without lying..."

Ning Youguang quietly and patiently listened to Xiaotian venting his anger.

After she finished talking, she asked softly, "Are you feeling better?"

Xiaotian pursed his lips and nodded.

Ning Youguang said, "I'm in a better mood, let's talk about the topic we talked about halfway before."

"What topic?" Xiaotian asked puzzled.

"It's the one we wish we had a better life for ourselves."

"Aren't we finished?"

"No." Ning Youguang shook his head, "The things we discussed before are all external conditions. If a person wants to live a good life, in addition to external conditions, there are also internal conditions that need to be met. Do you know what this internal condition is? ?"

"Loved?" Xiaotian replied.

"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "Inside, we all need love, respect, care, recognition, companionship, etc. Among these needs, some can be allowed to be unsatisfied, and we can live better if we have them; There are others that must be satisfied in order to live."

Xiaotian said, "If you don't have these, you have to have money."

Ning Youguang smiled, "As Xibao said in Yi Shu's book, 'If you don't give me a lot of love, then give me a lot of money?'."

Xiaotian said, "Isn't it? Don't all the girls think so?"

"Then do you think Xibao is really happy? Can money really solve all problems and make us live happily?"

Xiaotian nodded and shook his head.

Ning Youguang said, "We can see from Xibao that when we are poor in material things, we think that if we get rich one day, then all problems will be solved. Besides, I don’t need anything, but in fact, when people really have money, they will find that many problems cannot be solved. Happiness is not only about money. If this is the case, then all the rich people in this world Everyone is very happy, but is it true?"

Xiaotian shook his head, "No."

Ning Youguang smiled lightly.

"Let's talk about something else."

"What topic?"

"How about we discuss why so many people like to share their lives online these days?"

Xiaotian said, "Does this still need to be discussed? Isn't this what people do now?"

Ning Youguang said, "Yes, since the day when social media came into existence, everyone has had such a tacit understanding that they like to post their happy life, and less or no content that they are unhappy with. Therefore, every time we When I browse Weibo, Xiaohongshu, etc., all I see is the beauty of others, but what is the truth of life? Everyone keeps showing their beautiful life on the Internet, what is the superficial reason?” 1314