Chapter 359: To Understand Others, You First Understand Yourself

Jincheng, Xia's family.

Xia Fei with a big belly leaned on the sofa, and said to Ning Youguang with an anxious face, "Pregnancy really hurts the hairline."

"Yes, I see." Ning Youguang sat on the side eating snacks.

What she ate was Jincheng's famous dim sum - Longjing tea cake.

The whole body of the tea cake is green, and the pastry has distinct layers. A scent of Longjing tea wraps the broken egg yolk. When you take a bite, the pastry is delicate, and the fresh and strong aroma of Longjing tea is refreshing.

The crispy and soft taste, the aroma of Longjing tea in the mouth, refreshing but not greasy, is the taste that Ning Youguang has never tired of eating since he was a child.

Therefore, every time she returns to Jincheng, her aunt will carefully prepare it for her.

"..." Xia Fei gritted her teeth angrily, "Can you help me read the hair problem first before eating some snacks?"

"No." Ning Youguang said, "Anyway, after you give birth, your hair will grow back, so let's spend a little more money now."

"Fuck you." Xia Fei stretched out her foot and kicked her, "I wonder if you will be as calm as you are now when you are at the scene of a head-washing crime after you get pregnant."

"No." Ning Youguang said indifferently.

"that is……"

"I said that when I was pregnant, my hair loss would not be as serious as your hair loss."

Xia Fei originally felt that her heart was a little more balanced, but she was so annoyed by her complete words that she fell on her back.

She picked up the pillow next to her and threw it at her, "You can talk big after you give birth."

"Take it easy." Ning Youguang dodged sideways and said with a light smile, "It's not honest to be pregnant, be careful about prenatal education."

Then, she said, "I'm not talking big words, I'm talking about accurate predictions."

Xia Fei was so frightened that she quickly lowered her head and gently touched her stomach.

He pretended to say through his belly and the baby in his stomach, "I'm sorry, baby, mom didn't mean to say foul language on purpose, you must not learn it."

After coaxing the baby in her belly several times, she looked at Ning Youguang again, her brows were erected, "Who made you mad at me!"

"Yes, I'm angry with you." Ning Youguang finished the Longjing tea cake in his hand, and then picked up the teacup to drink tea, with an elegant and picturesque posture.

But Xia Fei choked to death.

After a while, she asked again, "Why are you so determined that you won't lose your hair so badly during pregnancy? Do you have any secrets?"

Ning Youguang smiled, "I told you earlier that pregnancy would cause hair loss, so I haven't prepared myself for it yet."

"How did I know that it would be so serious." Xia Fei was speechless, "Grandpa prescribed me some therapeutic prescriptions, but they didn't work for me."

Ning Youguang continued drinking tea, "Oh."

Seeing her indifferent look, Xia Fei became anxious, "Tell me quickly, is there anything you can do to help me fix things."

Ning Youguang smiled slyly, "Yes."

"What is it?" Xia Fei was excited.

"Go to bed before ten o'clock every night." Ning Youguang looked serious.

"..." Xia Fei was like a discouraged quail, "What kind of secret is this!"

"Why don't you count?" Ning Youguang raised his eyebrows, "How many mothers are like you? You are not honest when you are pregnant, and you go to bed after twelve o'clock every night. Be careful when your son is born, it will be twelve o'clock every night." Go to bed after midnight, and then you will have fun."

Xia Fei was slightly taken aback, "You can tell that it's your son?"

"Yeah." Ning Youguang said, "Grandpa also said he was a son?"

Xia Fei nodded mournfully, "Yes, grandpa came out when I was just pregnant."

She wanted a fragrant and soft daughter, and did not expect the birth of a boy.

Then, she asked, "I'm going to bed late now, will my son also like to go to bed late?"

"There is a high probability that this is the case." Ning Youguang said, "It's not 100% sure."

"Then I'd better adjust my schedule." Xia Fei thought about going to bed after twelve o'clock every night after the birth of the cub in her stomach, and she felt that she would go crazy by then.

"It's good to be enlightened." Ning Youguang was delighted to see her make a change.

Xia Fei asked melancholy again, "Yes, is there really nothing I can do about my hair loss?"

Ning Youguang nodded, "Yes."

"What is it?" Xia Fei looked suspicious.

"Let me share a little secret with you." Ning Youguang put down the teacup in his hand, and seeing Xia Fei's face of suspicion grow stronger, he quickly assured him, "It's the real secret."

"Tell me." Xia Fei pricked up her ears seriously.

"Every time you wash your hair, don't use shampoo directly to the scalp, then use water and white vinegar to massage the roots of the hair, and then wash the hair with shampoo." Ning Youguang said.

"Really?" Xia Fei couldn't believe it, "Is it that simple?!

"You'll know if it works until you try it." Ning Youguang smiled.

"Okay." Xia Fei touched her forehead, "I'll try it when I get back tonight."

After talking about the issues she was most concerned about, Xia Fei finally cared about the other party, "Why didn't you bring hours back this time for the New Year?"

Ning Youguang said, "We're not married, so of course we won't bring him back for the New Year."

"Now I don't shy away from this, he spent the New Year at our house last year." Xia Fei curled her lips, "You just have the heart to let him celebrate the New Year in the capital alone?"

"There's nothing wrong with celebrating the New Year alone." Ning Youguang said, "The New Year itself is not something to celebrate."

"What fallacy are you talking about?!" Xia Fei didn't understand.

"Because the arrival of the New Year also means that everyone is one year closer to death." Ning Youguang sighed.

"..." Xia Fei was stunned, but after thinking about it, she felt that what she said was quite right.

But once she agrees with her words, she will not be able to raise expectations and happiness for this New Year at all.

It's just melancholy and trouble.

In the end, she could only sigh, "Don't say such things during the New Year, you will be beaten."

It's so inauspicious.

"I know." Ning Youguang nodded, "The vast majority of people in this world just like to live so deceiving themselves."

"You're right." Xia Fei almost worshiped Ning Youguang.

The two chatted a few more words.

Xia Fei talked about her husband, "Sometimes I feel that I don't understand him very well, especially after we have been together for a long time, I found that there are many things in him that I didn't see before."

"Of course." Ning Youguang said, "Human nature is complicated and changeable. If you keep looking at him with your inherent cognition, it will definitely not work."

Xia Fei nodded, "You're right, I still have to think about it, don't be framed by solidified concepts."

She added, "It's not easy, because it's too easy for people to fall into the inherent cognition. Do you have any good suggestions for me in this regard?"

Ning Youguang said, "If you really want to know him, and think that knowing him is good for both of you, then my suggestion to you is that you'd better get to know yourself first, because each of us Seeing the feelings of others is part of what we understand and want to see." 1314

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