Chapter 368 Past and Present

Since it will not harm your own interests, and is a master with real background and strength, even a smart person knows to regard her as his own side, and don't stand on her opposite side.

"That's right." Kim So-yeon sneered.

After a while, she taunted softly again, "The daughter-in-law of this family, the second child of the Li family, they turned their faces so quickly. They didn't look at the surname Zhuang before, but now they see that she has the trump card of Ning Youguang." , just thinking about the face and sticking it, really where there is a fragrance of flowers, there are them."

"Isn't she Zhuang Yijing capable and able to curry favor with Miss Shangning?"

Jin Jiayi was also thinking in her heart that she had to say hello to Miss Ning and the upstart Zhuang again later.

Seeing that her aunt was not listening to her seriously, Jin Suyan turned to look at her boyfriend next to her, only to find that he was also looking at Zhuang Yijing.

A handsome and three-dimensional face, with a deep expression on his face that she couldn't see through.

She smiled and said, "Ah Wei, don't those women look funny?"

Xu Wei lowered his head and took a sip of wine, "Really?"

The expression on his face lightened a little.

Jin Suyan didn't notice the subtle expression change on his face, and continued to smile coquettishly, "Yes."

Xu Wei turned his head and glanced at her, there were many things in his eyes that she couldn't understand.

Kim So-yeon felt weird when he saw it, but she couldn't figure out why.

...

After all the Bai Fumei left.

Zhuang Yijing smiled and said to Ning Youguang, "Thanks to you, I'm afraid I will have endless appointments in the future."

Ning Youguang pursed his lips and smiled, "If you like it, go, and if you don't like it, push it away."

"That's the only way to go." Zhuang Yijing said lazily, "It's not like they don't have to go to work, and I spend all day in social situations. I have money, looks and leisure. I'm as busy as I am. The cattle workers of the production team can't mix with them at all."

Ning Youguang laughed out loud, "Everyone has their own way of life, there is no need to force it."

Zhuang Yijing also smiled, "Indeed, although they don't seem to have to go to work, I really don't envy them at all. I can't live a day like the life they live. It's a headache to think about it. How can they live a lifetime? ?”

She didn't understand very much.

Ning Youguang said, "It's better for you to be a rich woman and concentrate on mining to give full play to your strengths."

Zhuang Yijing laughed loudly, "I just like making money, and getting money is the motivation for me to work until twelve o'clock every day."

Ning Youguang nodded, and after a while, he said softly, "It's actually not easy for them."

Zhuang Yijing was slightly stunned, "What's difficult for them? Eating, drinking, and shopping every day, everyone can live it."

"Eat, drink, buy, buy, and buy. Although everyone can do it, the results obtained by each person are different from the goals they want to achieve." Ning Youguang said slowly, "The most real happiness in life has never come from eating and drinking. You get it from the superficial desire to wear and buy, but from the satisfaction of restraint, self-discipline, diligence, and the completion of today's affairs, you are happier than they actually live."

"You're right, but I don't know if they're happy or not, and I don't care." Zhuang Yijing curled her lips, with disdain on her face, "I just don't understand that they live in such a shallow way, but still It's funny to look down on my hard-working workaholic, what's so great about them in front of me? Apart from having a good background, what else can compare to me?"

She went on to say, "Today they invited me to participate in their activities because they saw that I have a good relationship with you. When did I, Zhuang Yijing, be treated seriously by these young ladies before?"

Ning Youguang gently touched the top of Zhuang Yijing's head, and said with a smile, "Baby is wronged, be good, don't be angry."

"I'm not angry. I know what I am. I don't care what they think of me." Zhuang Yijing couldn't control the corners of his mouth, "I'm not as elegant or noble as them, but I rely on myself With their brains and hands fighting the world, they are much more confident than their lives, and it is not certain who despises whom."

Ning Youguang smiled and looked at Zhuang Yijing with a proud face, "You are outstanding and can create more value for society than them, so I say you are more happy than them."

Zhuang Yijing boasted that he was okay, but he felt a little embarrassed to be praised by Ning Youguang.

She laughed for a while, and then said softly, "They are not useless, at least they are versatile, they can sing, dance, drink tea, taste wine, ride horses, ski, golf, and they are all very good."

Ning Youguang said, "Yeah, that's why I said it's not easy for them. Although they don't work, it doesn't mean they don't work hard. It's just that the direction of their hard work and the things involved are different from ours, but the hard work is similar. "

Zhuang Yijing rubbed his chin, "From what you said, it seems that it is really not easy for them. They know so much, and it really takes a lot of time and hard work to learn."

Ning Youguang nodded, "That's it."

Seeing her delicate and peaceful face, Zhuang Yijing suddenly asked curiously, "How did you guys live before?"

"Us?" Ning Youguang was taken aback.

"That's right." Zhuang Yijing said, "You are a young lady just like them. The way you grew up and the things you learned should be similar, right?"

Ning Youguang turned his eyes slightly, thought for a while and said, "I'm a little different from them. My parents divorced early, and my childhood was relatively free. My grandfather, aunt, and uncle are very accepting. I was the one who went to interest classes since I was a child." I can do whatever I want, so I didn’t work as hard as they did to learn so many things, and my childhood was much easier than theirs.”

"Is that so?" Zhuang Yijing asked in surprise, "I just said, why are you, Miss, so different?"

Then, she laughed again, "I'm just curious about the difference between the growth process of a celebrity daughter and ordinary people like us. It seems that I asked the wrong person."

Ning Youguang pursed his lips and smiled but did not speak.

But I thought in my heart that my friend actually asked the wrong person.

As a model among the famous ladies in Jincheng in her previous life, she is too aware of the process of growing up and learning from these famous ladies.

That's why she can understand their difficulties.

Thinking of this, Ning Youguang inevitably recalled some things in his previous life before he was a minor in his mind.

At that time, although she lived with her parents since she was a child, the relationship between her parents was so bad that her grandparents were afraid that they would teach the children badly, so they forcibly intervened in her education.

Under the control of her grandparents, she inevitably lived the life that a so-called "Miss Qianjin" should live.

She started learning ballet at the age of four, cello, sketching, and oil painting at the age of six, tea ceremony and incense ceremony at the age of ten, and figure skating and horse riding when she was older.

It may also be because her grandparents were too disappointed and dissatisfied with her parents, so that her tutoring was very strict.

There are many rules and etiquette, speech and behavior, various aspects, ranging from academic performance, various certificates, going out for entertainment and attending activities, to knocking on the door and entering the door, sitting and standing.

Grandma said, "Miss Qianjin must have a decent appearance and figure, as well as good knowledge."

Therefore, she was never allowed to drink and eat snacks, and her test scores at school were strictly controlled.

She remembers that when she was a child, she was often told by her grandma that there was something wrong with eating, sitting, walking and talking.

When her parents divorced, the relatives and elders around her always showed a kind of pity and confidence when they saw her.

And she will find that this probably stems from her inferiority complex, which is another personality that she has conceived since she was a child in a family environment where her parents have a bad relationship.

Therefore, she has long felt that being alive is a very tiring and painful thing, even if she is surrounded by bodyguards, nannies, and drivers.

Even though Zhuang Yijing was her good friend, she had to be fair, like Ms. Li, they looked down on her and thought she was an upstart, but it wasn't because they were arrogant and malicious for no reason.

Because upbringing is a habit that everyone cultivates from childhood, from the details of a person's speech, manners, and even gestures...all of these require the combination of various conditions to develop, and it is difficult for people to change in a short time, and it is also difficult for people to shorten It takes time to learn.

In her previous life, she had grown up like this.

Indeed, just as my grandparents expected, she has become a beautiful junior who is highly praised by the elders in the circle, and she is often published in magazines, and her excellent articles are also left on the forum.

She has received a lot of compliments, no matter what occasion she attends, she is exquisite and lovely, and her grandparents and aunts also value her very much, but she is not happy.

Even if a lot of daily life is said now, many people will complain more than Versailles, but she really just feels lonely more and more, feeling like a clown, like a marionette.

She went to too many social occasions, and she felt extremely boring.

In the childhood of her previous life, the most interesting thing in her memory was that a tutor took her to raise sunflowers.

From her previous life to this life, she didn't like socializing.

Fortunately in this life, she was able to choose her own way of life.

But in her previous life, she was always unable to refuse the requests and expectations of her family, so she had no choice but to accept the many social activities they expected her to attend.

At that time, as long as she agreed in principle to her family's attendance at social events, she was required to make no mistakes in the social arena.

She distorted her own wishes, endured the torment in her heart, and finished the task well time and time again.

Fortunately, she has a fairly smart mind, and she can receive countless praises and applause every time, making her family feel satisfied and gratified, but she only feels hypocrisy.

She deeply remembers that when she was twelve years old in her previous life, once she interrupted in public, she was severely cleaned up by her grandma when she got home, which was ridiculous and sad, she didn't understand.

But from that day on, she no longer likes to talk, and the more lively the occasion, the less she likes to talk.

During those few years abroad, she began to experience the happy time. Even if she was wandering abroad alone, she was very leisurely and content, without restraint, and had more freedom.

Later, when she started to get in touch with psychology and began to grow herself, she knew how to reject others, how to heal herself, and how rare life is.

As a human being, she must not base her happiness and expectations on others, otherwise she will never get the happiness and happiness she wants.

Only then did I slowly adjust my deformed life to the correct path.

Thus, she began to experience real happiness and freedom.

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"Sister, you're too modest. If you were an ordinary person, what would I be? A beggar?" Although Zhuang Jianxian was playing games, it didn't prevent him from being distracted and listening to the conversation between the elder sister and the fairy sister.

"That's right." Zhuang Siqi also put away the phone, "As long as you know how to make money, you can beat all the skills they know, okay?"

"Yes!" Zhuang Jianxian said proudly, "And even if they look down on us for being unelegant and lacking connotation, so what? It doesn't prevent them from kneeling and licking you at all."

Zhuang Siqi agreed with his brother's words very much, "Yes, you are much better than them, there is no need to wonder how they lived when they were young, the most important thing in life is to look forward, and the one who laughs last is the king!"

"You told us." Zhuang Jianxian moved closer to Zhuang Yijing and said with a smile, "You work so hard not to be 10% stronger than others, but to be 1000% stronger. Because it is useless for you to be stronger than others, really What is useful is that you are much stronger than others. Standing on the top of the mountain, you can be the top of the mountain, and you can see all the small mountains. You are standing on the first floor, and someone scolds you, and you are very angry when you hear it. You are standing on the 10th floor, and someone scolds you You, you can't hear clearly, you think someone is greeting you. You are standing on the 100th floor, and someone scolds you, and you can't see or hear you at all. Have that time, do things right, and run all the way! Until they You can't even see your back, you have to use 1% of your life to beat 99% of the bullies."

"Congratulations, you have perfectly used your strength to slap these celebrities in the face." Zhuang Siqi clapped his hands happily.

Zhuang Yijing was amused by the words of the dealer's twins, "Thank you, you think of me so well."

Ning Youguang looked at his best friend who couldn't hide his happiness even though his expression was respectful and indifferent, and then praised him, "You are really good. It is really good that one person can learn many skills, but what I admire the most is that you can You are the one who brings a skill to the limit.”

"Don't give me ecstasy soup!" Zhuang Yijing put on a pretty face, "I'll be proud."

She said, "Pride makes people lag behind, and humility makes people progress. What I am doing now is still far from my goal, so you can't blow rainbow farts on me so quickly. At that time, I will fall proudly and never What should I do if I try my best?"

"OKOKOK." The three people on the field immediately said obediently, "We are not exaggerating, you work hard, and we are waiting to hug your thigh."

Zhuang Yijing didn't hold back, and smiled again. 1314

This chapter briefly explains the experience of childhood and youth in the previous life.