Chapter 1602 How to Relieve Worries
Jin Ling still likes Feng Yiping to talk about things other than work, so he sat down with a smile and said, "Talk about it,"
"Now, I understand more and more how depressed and angry Cao Cao was when he was doing short songs."
"Ah," Jin Ling was stunned. She really didn't have much accomplishments in this aspect. "If you speak human language, don't act like a scholar or poet."
Well, Prime Minister Cao, a great hero of the generation, was suddenly lumped into the group of "sluts" by this ignorant guy.
"In your opinion, is it better for a person to be successful or not to be successful?" Feng Yiping asked a very obvious question.
"This," but Jin Ling thought about it seriously for a while. With Feng Yiping's IQ, even if he was just drunk, he would not ask her a question that could be answered without thinking.
"Although success may bring some inconveniences, it should still be successful no matter what,"
She was more concerned about why Feng Yiping asked this question, "Why did you suddenly think of asking this?"
"Yeah, naturally it's better to be successful. The more successful the better," he could see this clearly by comparing his past life.
The current sense of satisfaction, strength, general recognition and praise from all walks of life, care and love, admiration and respect... all these, many, many, are beyond what he, as a pseudo-middle class person, could experience.
"But why do I feel that the more successful I am, the more restricted I will be?"
"Restricted?" Jin Ling was stunned. Are you still very restricted? I do not know how? "Tell me specifically, what are they?"
"For example, if I was just a little kid, if I could be favored by a beautiful woman like you, I wouldn't be as pushy and insincere as I am now. I'd be afraid that I would take you to check out a room at all costs on the spot, and have a good time first. Fan, cook the uncooked rice into cooked rice, and I will hurry up and reheat it a few times before talking,"
Jin Ling really didn't expect that he would actually say such words, "Hahaha," she didn't cover her mouth, she laughed happily, leaning forward and back, bold and heroic.
She liked hearing these words very much. She regarded them as love words similar to those spoken by Feng Yiping. This was the first time that she heard his most sincere evaluation of herself from Feng Yiping. It turns out that sister still has such a great love for you. attraction.
She reached out and patted Feng Yiping's face, her eyes full of amorous feelings, "Just admit it,"
Feng Yiping blocked it for a moment, "Hey, we are discussing a problem, don't take advantage of it,"
Jin Ling was quite familiar with his sudden change of expression, "Haha, what's the point of this? If you want, we don't need to rent a room now, just go to your house upstairs."
Feng Yiping was speechless. Isn't this exacerbating my frustration?
"If I were just an inconspicuous little person, at least I would have no scruples when facing all kinds of beauties admiring me. But look at me now, even you don't dare to face me,"
This is also the most depressing part for him. If I weren't as eye-catching as I am now, why would I need to be as persistent as Liu Xiahui? Regardless of Jin Ling, Fang Yingzhi, Xiang Xiaofang, Zheng Jiayi, Hu Junting, Mayer, Marika..., eat them all first, how comfortable, how refreshing...
"How many things are there in life? It's like morning dew. It's more miserable in the past." Feng Yiping said another sentence that Jin Ling seemed to understand but didn't understand. "It's as clear as the moon. When can I shed it?"
But his problem was not when he could touch her, but that he didn't dare to touch her despite the fact that the moon-like beauty was right in front of him.
Every time I think about this, it is really a source of worry that cannot be cut off.
Jin Ling seemed to be able to understand every one of these words, but when added together, he had no idea what they meant.
But who said she had high emotional intelligence? Considering the previous context and looking at Feng Yiping's current appearance, she could naturally guess what he meant.
"So, man, man." Seeing that he was considering such a problem seriously, Jin Ling felt that it was enough.
"What's the point? Men, there are two sayings that are good. Isn't it important to get drunk and lie on the knees of a beautiful woman, so as to wake up and take over the world? Beauty and career are the two sides we pursue. In other words, many times, it is precisely because of the The desire for beautiful women gives us the motivation to pursue career success."
"You know, the starting point for your pursuit of career success is not beauty. The reason for starting a successful career is not to build a big harem." After understanding Feng Yiping's depression, Jin Ling suppressed a smile and said seriously Give him a detailed analysis.
"If you were only aiming for this goal, I believe you would not achieve the level of success you have now,"
"But, now that I have achieved this level of success, why can't I build a big harem at the same time?" Feng Yiping seized on this point and insisted.
"How much do you mind this?" Jin Ling rolled her eyes at him, "Why can't this be done? Don't you know the reason very well?"
"The more successful people like you are, the more cautious you must be when it comes to personal issues, because you can't afford to have any problems in this regard,"
"You don't want too many people in the big harem. As long as there are one or two people with different ambitions, you will be completely out of control."
"Are you willing to accept someone taking a large sum of money from you in various names, such as compensation for loss of youth, or worse, sharing half of your family property in the name of de facto marriage or children?"
This is a very real problem, and it is something Feng Yiping has to consider now. Otherwise, he will be eaten up very quickly.
"Just coming here twice, not to mention your reputation in society and whether it will affect your business, we will pretend that it will not cause any adverse effects, but this is not much comfort,"
"Because of your success and your career, I'm afraid it will fall apart soon. Because you can't come up with so much cash, you can only sell the company's equity. This will bring another more fatal result."
"How many talented people are willing to watch helplessly as the results of their hard work are handed over to others because of the boss's incompetence and lust? At that point, how many capable employees will follow them wholeheartedly? Are you struggling?"
"Without the help of capable people, no matter how capable you are, in this era of increasingly sophisticated division of labor, what great things can you accomplish?"
"As a result, you will find that your so-called success is just a flash in the pan. It may not be as bright as a flash in the pan. It is just like a castle made of sand on the beach. It rises quickly and falls faster."
Jin Ling can always hit the nail on the head when it comes to other people's problems, especially Feng Yiping's.
"Don't say you may not encounter such a problem. You know very well that if you accept one after another, from a probability perspective, this will definitely happen, right?"
Feng Yiping also admitted that Jin Ling was right, but this did not alleviate his depression. There were so many beautiful women who were interested in him, and now he was definitely qualified to pursue them, but they could only look at them but not eat them. Sometimes in the dead of night, when Xiong When desire dominates everything, it will make him feel as if his courage has been broken and bile is flowing out. His whole being is filled with pain from the inside out.
"So, if you want to maintain your current success and ultimately realize your pursuit, you have to exercise restraint," Jin Ling said.
"Of course, if you are just an inconspicuous little person, and you encounter such an advantage, you will definitely take advantage of it. Anyway, if you have too many things that others can take advantage of, there is nothing to worry about."
"Of course, this also has a prerequisite, that is, you must be shameless. Can you go all out to be shameless?"
Does a guy who always takes advantage of beautiful women from all walks of life have to lose face?
"If I were a beauty of your level, I would be completely shameless," Feng Yiping told the truth.
"Haha, have you ever thought about a question? If you are an inconspicuous little person, how could I fall in love with you? Am I blind? Not only are you shameless, but you also have nothing. Why should I treat you so badly? How can I book a room with you and let you daydream?"
Jin Ling spoke this section very freely. Who asked you to scold yourself?
This is what makes Feng Yiping depressed (at least some book friends are depressed). When he fails, no beautiful women will pay attention to him. But if he succeeds, he has to actively reject those beauties who express his deep concern. For men, people There is no greater pain in the world than this.
"Isn't there a way to get the best of both worlds?" he asked again.
Seeing his reluctance, Jin Ling was a little annoyed, "You, you, I didn't expect you to be so persistent on this issue,"
Then he felt a little happy again, "I think you've had a hard time here. It doesn't matter. I'm right here. How about we go upstairs now?"
Feng Yiping once again blocked the hand she extended to his face, "We are discussing a problem, be serious, don't drive too often, be careful of a car accident."
Jin Ling now naturally knew the meaning of many of his unique nouns, "Did I understand it wrong? Isn't what we are discussing now about driving a topic?"
Feng Yiping surrendered, "Please, can you not base your happiness on my frustration?"
"Okay, let's go back to the topic," Jin Ling immediately felt that using the word "zhengti" here seemed to be not the main topic, so he put it another way, "Back to the discussion just now,"
"Let's talk about another question. If you fall in love with someone you meet and accept someone you meet, how many beauties do you think there will be who are doing double business online and will be infatuated with such a guy?"
"Are they blind? Are they idiots? They will rush to get themselves into the arms of a playboy,"
Feng Yiping opened his mouth cowardly, and Jin Ling pointed at him, "Don't say it, I know what you are going to say,"
"Think about it with your heels. Under such circumstances, the so-called beauties who rush to rush into your arms, are they after your money or you?"
This is naturally a question that does not need to be thought through, so why bother talking about it?
"If you accept such a beauty, do you think it will be a blessing or a constant source of trouble?"
Needless to say? That's probably not a beautiful woman, but a beautiful snake.
"So, little brother, this is life, this is happiness," Jin Ling looked like he was about to sum it up in words.
Now it was Feng Yiping's turn to wonder, "What?"
"It's not perfect, can't you tell?" Jin Ling disliked him in a rare and honest manner.
"If you don't succeed, no beautiful women will favor you. If you succeed, you have to actively reject the beautiful women who favor you."
"Didn't you study aesthetics? This is the so-called incomplete beauty." Jin Ling once again became Feng Yiping's mentor and took this opportunity to criticize him and take advantage of him. He also confirmed his position in his mind. It feels pretty good.
"Of course, nothing is absolute in the world. Your success is likely to be realized in your son who has been reborn successfully. He can be tolerant of beautiful women who throw themselves into his arms and accept all of them."
"I just don't know, if you really raise a son like that, will it be a success or a failure for you? Haha," Jin Ling laughed happily after hitting him again.
"Laughing like an old hen who has stolen rice,"
"I am happy, haha, I am happy,"
Feng Yiping patted the table, and felt that the worry was coming from it, and it could not be stopped, "Alas, how to relieve worries, only Du Kang,"
Jin Ling understood this, "If you dare to drink, I dare to accompany you, it doesn't matter if you get drunk, if you get drunk this time, I will take you upstairs,"
Feng Yiping was a little surprised, could it be that she knew something? .
He pretended to be indifferent and glanced at Jin Ling, and found that her smile was quite unfathomable...