Chapter 593

Ming Jin happily shared the good news of her niece's pregnancy with Ning Youguang, and then asked Ning Youguang, "Mochizuki has been away on business for so long, and you are lonely at home alone, do you want to come and stay at home for two days?"

"I'm not deserted at home." Ning Youguang smiled, "I quite enjoy the days when he's not at home."

Ming Jin laughed heartily, "Don't let Xiao Xiao hear this, he will be sad."

Ning Youguang smiled slyly, "I also enjoy having him at home."

"You can be naughty." Ming Jin smiled and said with emotion, "Actually, what you said is correct, we not only need the ability to get along with others harmoniously, but also the ability to be alone."

"A person can't be alone, and he may not be harmonious with others." Ning Youguang said, "Because his heart is not stable."

Ming Jinxin deeply agrees, "I like to deal with people who are emotionally stable. Getting along with people who are emotionally unstable is like being with a bomb. You don't know when you will suddenly step on his sensitive nerves, and it will explode. gone."

"He himself is not happy, and the people around him are also not happy." Ning Youguang said, "Because the pursuit of stability is the essence of human beings, and the foundation of happiness lies in stability, peace and happiness."

"So this is why many people must buy a house after they get married, instead of renting a house? In fact, renting a house is cheaper." Ming Jinxin said.

"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "My heart likes stability."

"I think so too." Ming Jin nodded heartily, "But people's hearts are often unstable."

——"I often feel good or bad because of some things I encounter. Feelings often change with changes in the outside world, but the nature of the outside world is impermanence."

"The hearts of most of us follow our feelings. This is a serious blind spot. Because feelings have no self-nature, they will turn and turn according to the external environment. As you said, when you encounter good things They are in a good mood, and when they encounter bad things, they are in a bad mood. As long as they are alive, their hearts will live in their feelings and in their brains, which is bad, because when they When living in feelings, their hearts will be like the waves of the sea. When the outside wind blows, it will continue to rise and fall. Once it blows, it will continue to rise and fall. , lasting happiness is naturally impossible to obtain.”

"Most people are like this." Ming Jinxin said.

"The majority of people must be right?" Ning Youguang asked back.

"Not necessarily." Ming Jin thought for a while and asked again, "How can a person who is used to living in feelings calm down from such a turbulent mind?"

"Pay attention to your thoughts at ordinary times." Ning Youguang said, "When facing your thoughts, learn to keep a distance slowly and not let yourself follow your feelings. After a period of training, you will be able to settle down. "

Ming Jin nodded, and picked up another muffin, "Why do our hearts always like to project outward?"

"Because it is difficult for people to face their own shortcomings and shortcomings." Ning Youguang said, "It also has something to do with everyone's growth history."

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City S, thousands of miles away from the capital.

The continuous rainy days have covered the whole city with a light gray layer, and the wetness makes people feel easily depressed.

Not to mention Shi Mochizuki who hated rain in the first place.

Therefore, even though he is surrounded by a circle of domestic top bosses, his heart is still out of the crowd. Unless necessary politeness and communication, most of the time, his gaze falls on the French window that is wet by rain on the opposite side. .

This is Shi Mochizuki's third day staying in this hotel, and the only thing that makes him feel a little better in front of him is the environment of this hotel, which is elegantly designed and lined with trees.

"My sister said that when you are in a bad mood, look at the flowers, plants and trees, and absorb the aura of the heavens and the earth, and you will be able to wash away the smog in the world."

Just like at this moment——

After more than an hour of pushing glasses and changing glasses, many big shots around were already drunk, holding red wine glasses, hugging each other's shoulders, calling each other brothers, and chatting with each other in full swing.

"If you don't scrape the poor man's money, who shall we take it from?"

"People change."

"Young people nowadays are too impetuous. They look at things on the surface and don't think thoroughly. Learning depends not only on what you have learned, but also on what you have absorbed, because everyone's cognition, like life, has depth and breadth. "

Some people's arrogance is obvious.

Obviously sitting next to him was a young man who was stronger than him in terms of social prestige and wealth status, but he just uttered the words he usually used to say.

A brain that has been flooded with alcohol is naturally not as good as usual.

Unless someone pretends to be drunk when he is not drunk, he can still say a few words——

"A person who lives in the world, does not pursue the Tao, and has no creativity, is not similar to a computer. He has been trained as a computer and has memorized a lot of knowledge and skills."

"Those long-lasting classic products must be worked hard to last."

"In every era, ordinary people live their own lives. When the world is good, they follow the rich and rich. When the world is bad, they can live with only porridge and side dishes. I am an ordinary person."

"Earning money itself is not decent. If you think a certain type of person earns a decent income, it is nothing more than his grandparents. His father went through that shameful process for him."

There was also a person who smelled of alcohol, and his face was fluttering, and he said something out of tune:

"What kind of men and women can get your attention?"

"I'm still quite superficial. A woman needs to be beautiful and have a sense of taste. A woman's sense of taste is as important as being beautiful. It's not good if you don't have a sense of taste. As for a man, those who are capable and have ideas are actually the same for men and women Yes, if you can appreciate it, you must have an idea.”

"So whether it's a man or a woman, we still value talent."

"Yes, yes, talent must be the most important thing."

"Then what if a girl has talent but no looks?"

"Then I will hand it over to those who appreciate her talent better."

In the field of capital, people attach great importance to interpersonal relationships.

Sitting next to Shi Mochizuki, a well-known tycoon in the Internet industry wearing glasses, chatted nonsense with his friends, turned his head and saw Shi Mochizuki looking out of the window with deep eyes, his expression was cold, and his whole body was lingering. There is a kind of alienation that rejects people thousands of miles away.

He laughed and said, "Mr. Shi, I talked to Mr. Liu about the complexity of human nature. I always like to speculate about the world with my own heart. I don't know if you have any good ideas?"

Shi Mochizuki turned her head slowly, and the gaze hidden behind the rose-gold-framed glasses flicked off him like a speck of dust. 1314