Chapter 584 May We Still Be Able to Drink and Dance at Night

When a bowl accidentally falls on the ground, for the Zen master, it is like hearing the sound of the universe, and all the bones of the body are relaxed together.

Many of us today can break bowls hundreds of times without feeling it.

Because we live in the superficial world, with a little joy, a little mood, a little work...a little life.

But traveling is not like that.

Especially if you take part in a trip without a goal and without rushing.

Give you the world, everything else is optional.

In this way, although time is limited, everyone can arrange themselves according to their own free will and devote themselves wholeheartedly.

next few days.

Someone went to play in the heartbeat park around.

Someone hid in a bookstore deep in the mountains. Looking out from the transparent bookstore, everything in sight was green, transparent and natural, and felt an immersive reading experience.

Some people go out to take pictures of mountains and rivers, to see the scenery, to experience the fragments of life while they are busy, and to feel the atmosphere of fireworks in the world.

No matter what people expected when they came.

At least during the few days spent in the mountains, everyone experienced what they wanted to experience.

Everyone let themselves go in a seemingly careless way, allowing themselves to be recuperated and nourished, surrounded by a steady stream of small happiness.

The longer the flow, the faster time passes.

The day I left.

The sky above everyone's heads is so blue, and the tulle-like clouds are gorgeous and colorful, softly painted on the sky like precious oil paintings, so beautiful.

Ning Youguang looked at the sky above his head, and felt as if he was reading an ancient book, lying in hot water and taking a bath, it was extremely comfortable.

Sneaking in for a short vacation made the team building team of "Starlight" feel truly healed and relaxed.

When the return bus started slowly.

There are also many cheerful, playful teammates who are full of energy.

They opened the car windows, waved to the surrounding green hills and fields, and shouted loudly——

"I hope that the green hills remain, and that we can still drink and dance at night."

"May everything we wish come true as scheduled."

As written in the book:

"The sea and the sunset do not belong to everyone, but everyone yearns for the sunset and the sea."

...

After Xia Yan knew that Ning Youguang followed Shi Wangyue to the team building, it was three days later that she heard from her again.

"I sent a message to you two days ago, and you stopped talking after a few words?"

"Because I'm on vacation." Sitting in the office, Ning Youguang said this to Xia Yan in the video.

"What does vacation have to do with calling me?" Xia Yan, who was wearing soft home clothes, held an empty milk bottle in his hand.

"Of course it has something to do with it." Ning Youguang said, "I can't explain to you what you asked me in a few words, so I can only talk about it after I finish my vacation."

"If you can't explain clearly in a few words, can't you say more?" Through the phone screen, Xia Yan rolled his eyes.

"No." Ning Youguang shook his head confidently.

"why?"

"Because it would interrupt my vacation."

Xia Yan was speechless, "Hey, just talk to me carefully, and I'll just ask you a few questions, why bother you on vacation? Thousands of miles away, can I still use up your vacation? "

"It's not that you can use up my vacation." Ning Youguang said seriously, "It's because talking to you will affect my vacation mood."

"Pretentious." Xia Yan complained.

"It's not hypocritical." Ning Youguang retorted with a smile, "You should have nothing to worry about when you are on vacation. I work every day, and I seriously consult the client for a better vacation. If I go on vacation, I will sit facing the valley and It would be a pity to talk about various issues with you when you are in the stream."

However, there are always people who talk about problems and people who can go on vacation together with peace of mind, but there are always very few people.

Therefore, when you have it, you should cherish it even more.

Xia Guan in the video was lost in thought.

After a while, she put down the bottle in her hand, greeted the confinement wife and aunt at home, and hid in her room, "Can you talk to me properly now?"

"Of course." Ning Youguang took a sip of water with his thermos cup in his arms, "Last time you told me that the complementary food your mother-in-law arranged for the child was inappropriate, right?"

"yes."

Talking about the problems he was facing, Xia Yan's mood dropped visibly to the naked eye.

The whole body is full of tiredness, "In addition to the problem of children's complementary food, I found that my mother-in-law's parenting habits have indicators. The child must drink 100ml of milk for two hours, come to bed on time, and add complementary foods according to the amount. She is too anxious. She keeps everything on a regular basis like this. The arrangement, the child will lose the initiative to eat."

"Is there any more?"

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really a problem since ancient times.

"Also, whenever I propose that we need to formulate a set of parenting plans and standards that are more suitable for the actual needs of the baby, my mother-in-law always says very stubbornly: 'What you said is very reasonable, but my set of methods are not good enough. I learned it before, it’s a very scientific parenting method, look at your husband, isn’t he looking good now?”

"What's even worse is my husband. I asked him to communicate with his mother and not interfere too much with the children's affairs, but he said he said it, and he couldn't say it. Let me be more tolerant, you know? Our family only needs mother-in-law If she meddles in the children's affairs, I'm extremely irritable, but if she doesn't intervene, my husband and I will be very Buddhist, and the children will be fine too..."

Ning Youguang even felt Xia Yu's torment in his heart.

Listen, listen, she also understands——

Xia Yan was talking to her about parenting on the surface, but in fact it was just a superficial problem.

Her underlying problem is the disagreement between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law about parenting.

The problem she is facing now is not at all about raising children.

But in adults, in the relationship between adults.

"You and your mother-in-law are of different ages and have different parenting concepts. It is normal to encounter friction. Moreover, your mother-in-law and her generation have verified that their own parenting methods are useful, and it is difficult to change them casually. In this case , you need to put aside each other’s standpoints, start from the actual needs of the child, look more at the needs of the child, combine the actual situation and characteristics of the child, communicate and discuss more benignly among family members, integrate the wisdom of family members, and finally form A set of parenting methods that are most suitable for children, after all, raising babies healthy, strong, and smart is the most fundamental wish of a family."

"That's what I said too." In the video, Xia Yan leaned on the bed and was feeling anxious, which shows that her problem really made her very troublesome. "We also often discuss this issue, and we also agreed on the problem to be solved before communicating. , but started to go off track while talking, and finally couldn’t agree on anything.”

"Then your communication methods also need to be adjusted." Ning Youguang said. 1314