Chapter 2164 Difference

"Do I have to speak?" Feng Yiping said as soon as he got in the car and saw the manuscript pushed over by Jin Ling.

"Why, Boss Feng is so rich that he can't even say a few words in such a meeting?" Jin Ling said.

"Hey, would it be too high-profile to give speeches everywhere? I am particularly annoyed by my speeches at airports, but now at the airport, I give more and more speeches,"

"You know, I hate speeches that are like imparting success knowledge, or self-praising summaries," Feng Yiping rubbed his brows.

"Don't you think it would be too arrogant if you don't say a few words to attend such a rare meeting?" Jin Ling advised, covering his mouth and yawning.

"So there's something going on..., what's wrong with you? Didn't you sleep well last night?"

Jin Ling shook his head and closed his eyes.

"Is it too late to talk to Senior Official Jin?"

Jin Ling shook his head again, "You and your parents have a lot to talk about?"

"I went home at almost 10 o'clock yesterday, and we all ate dumplings together, and then we chatted until almost 10 o'clock," Feng Yiping thought for a moment.

"What are you talking about?" Jin Ling opened his eyes.

"What else can there be? We have family issues, things at home, things about relatives and friends, things in the village. Once we talk, we can't stop."

Jin Ling felt that these things Feng Yiping said were so far away from her.

In any case, at the dinner table between her and her father, they would only talk about her brother-in-law and nephew at most, and even less about her brother-in-law's family.

As for relatives and friends, it seems that as my father's career has become more and more successful, there have been fewer and fewer relatives and friends.

Of course, Dad is bound to have his circle of friends, but just as he doesn't know his own circle of friends, his circle of friends will not have any intersection with him now.

As for things in the village? It's equivalent to what happens in their government compound.

But since she was a child, her father has seldom talked about colleagues at work in front of her and her brother at home, and now he will not even talk about such gossip with her.

If my mother was still here, it would probably be different. I should have been pulled and talked about all night long just like he was at home last night.

"Have you been educated?" Looking at Feng Yiping's appearance, she couldn't help but feel a little unhappy.

"It's rare to have such a long conversation with them, so it's inevitable," Feng Yiping looked at the speech and said casually, "Who told us to do...,"

Hearing Jin Ling's laughter, he glanced at him and said, "We are children, why are you laughing? Oh, we are in the same boat, right? I must have been taught a lesson by your father yesterday,"

In response to his question, Jin Ling avoided answering, "Uncle and aunt are really still lecturing you now?"

"It's so strange for parents to teach their children a lesson," Feng Yiping said. "Not to mention using words, when she gets angry, my mother always wants me to eat chestnuts."

This, of course, is also a question about his lifelong events.

When the left didn't listen and the right didn't make sense, Feng Zhenchang and Feng Zhenchang were fine with Feng Yiping who always insisted that there was no problem with Huang Jingping but couldn't get married now, but Mei Qiuping was so angry that she almost fell in love with him several times. A few hits on the head.

As she said to Mei Yiliang and Cai Hong, "So what if he is the richest man in Asia? Even if he becomes the richest man in the world, isn't he still my son? What's the matter with a few beatings?"

When he thought of his mother, Feng Yiping really had no temper at all.

He feels that not every mother will be a good political cadre, but the vast majority of mothers are definitely more patient, perseverant, and perseverant than the vast majority of political cadres.

During these few days in the provincial capital, it was unavoidable to accept her fatigue bombardment on life-long matters.

So he sighed, "It's not like you don't have this experience,"

"Not at all," Jin Ling said in a low voice and turned to look out the window.

"Isn't that good? A senior official deserves to be a senior official, he just has the level," Feng Yiping said immediately, but when he saw Jin Ling's appearance, he was stunned for a moment. It seemed that this was not the case?

"Can you tell me something?" After a moment of silence, he managed to say something.

"Including thank you and good night, my dad and I probably only said less than 50 words in total yesterday," Jin Ling said. "If we have a few more dinners like yesterday, we will probably wake up hungry in the middle of the night or They all have stomach problems,"

Feng Yiping immediately pictured Jin Ling and Jin Gaoguan, facing a table of steaming dishes, they were cautiously polite, modest, and thoughtful to each other, and then, what they said the most was probably, "You eat more," No, I’ll do it myself,” something like that.

It really didn't look like a family eating.

For example, when I ate dumplings last night, I ate a big bowl, but my mother added half a bowl without any doubt. It was obvious that if she didn't eat it, she would start to stuff it with her hands.

And my sister, who had woken up from a nap, insisted on making dumplings for him even though she was saying how uncomfortable she was. Along the way, she also complained about her parents' patriarchal preference and differential treatment as usual.

Originally, when I returned to my parents' home, my parents and younger brother should entertain me, but as a result, I had to work hard to cook and entertain my younger brother.

Dad drank some wine and said that it was because of how he was educated when he was a child that Feng Yiping became what he is today.

My aunt nudged Huihui over and asked if there would be several cousins-in-law in the future...

It may be very marketable, it may be very vulgar, but it is very life-like.

"Do you want to hear my opinion?" Feng Yiping said.

Jin Ling did not express his position.

"I compared the situations of our two families, and then I felt that the main reason for this difference is that, how should I put it, you and your dad are both highly educated people with very high quality."

Jin Ling looked at Feng Yiping, "According to you, people with higher education are of high quality? The quality is too high, so it is a problem?"

"Don't worry, listen to me. I don't mean anything else. What I mean is that before you speak, you always think about how not to embarrass the other party and how not to make the atmosphere too tense. So, there are many I didn’t say anything I wanted to say, but in the end, I had nothing to say.”

"What's left, of course, is only a polite conversation. Do you think this is true?"

"But look at my family, it's different. They said whatever they wanted, and even tried to educate me when they said it in a hurry. Of course, it was all pretense. They probably didn't do anything to me after I entered the fourth grade. Pass,"

"What I mean by that is that home is called home because it is a place where you can open your heart and let go of at least most of your pretense and defenses."

"What I'm afraid of is that everyone knows where the problem is, but they don't touch it and avoid it carefully. Treating the people closest to you is more careful than treating anyone else..."

"Can you understand what I say?"

"What do you mean, we should make a fuss when it's time to make a fuss, and make a fuss when it's time to make a fuss?"

"Yes, be loud when you need to be loud, lose your temper when you need to be angry, throw bowls when you need to,"

"After a quarrel, you should apologize and solve the problem. In this way, not only will there be no separation, but the relationship will be stronger than before and the distance between the family will be closer."

"The worst thing is that you and your dad are in this situation. You don't dare to say a harsh word to each other, and you don't even have the thought of quarreling."

"He is your father after all, and you are his daughter after all. If he educates you a few words, or you get angry with him, what will happen?"

Jin Ling shook his head, "Our family can't make any noise."

"Of course, we usually avoid seeing each other. Even if we rarely see each other, we avoid them. Then we don't want to see each other anymore. Think about it carefully," Feng Yiping felt that his words were right.

It is up to the father and daughter to resolve these matters.

…………

Senior Official Jin has arrived at his office at this time, and he will not attend today's meeting.

Because the government has allocated a lot of manpower to the auditorium, the building was especially quiet today.

Like his daughter, he didn't sleep well last night.

After handling several important tasks at hand, he always felt a little restless, so he simply came to the window and looked at the city he was about to leave after working for many years.

Of course there are shortcomings at work, but they are not big shortcomings. But on the personal side, he also feels very uncomfortable thinking about the barely warm dinner he had with his daughter last night.

However, there were some issues that, as a father, he felt it was difficult to discuss directly with his daughter.

So, although I am equally unwilling, I am afraid that I will have to have a private conversation with Feng Yiping next.