Chapter 507 Reasonable Arrangement
In mid-November, after Chen Tan left.
Grandpa came to the Bund community alone from the building king villa to find him.
Grandpa, who was over 80 years old, had experienced everything, from the earliest invasion of the village by the Japanese invaders to the civil war for several years.
That era could be said to be full of war.
Not to mention eating well, even living in peace was a luxury.
In 1949, the new China was announced.
The war was finally over, and everyone looked up to the East to thank the great man.
The days that followed went through one era after another.
"Grandpa, you are not here to tell me about history, are you?"
"Of course not, I just want you to understand something."
Grandpa's vicissitudes of life, with a calm tone, "Everyone in your father's generation was proud to marry a poor peasant. It was different in the 1970s. People liked to marry diplomas the most. In the 1980s, they married visas. Countless people dreamed of going abroad. In the 1990s, everyone with good conditions wanted to marry a rich man.
"When your grandmother got married, she believed that there was strength in numbers, so every family was trying to have children. When it came to your cousin Chen Tan's generation, family planning was the most strict.
"The number of children in a family has been reduced from five or six to one or two. With fewer children, you can naturally enjoy more love from your parents."
Chen Pingsheng understood that his grandfather was here to persuade him.
He was not here to persuade him for Chen Tan's matter, but just to let him stand in the perspective of his relatives and understand those people.
Just like the second aunt and the second uncle, they are all uneducated people.
They don't have the ability to teach Chen Tan well.
After Chen Tan and his friends arrived in Shanghai, Chen Pingsheng gave them material enjoyment that was extremely incompatible with their abilities.
Originally they rode bicycles, but when they arrived in Shanghai, they suddenly started riding Rolls-Royces.
It is inevitable that there will be a process of changing their mentality.
The younger generation does not have much social experience, let alone the ability to control money.
It is like a three-year-old child who suddenly holds a sum of 100,000 cash. What he can think of is not hiding it at home, but showing it off in front of his companions.
To put it bluntly, he still lacks a certain amount of patience in dealing with these relatives.
Grandpa knows that he has a lot of things to do, so he won't blame him.
But he himself must understand this.
You can't let them suddenly become rich, while at the same time being strict and not allowing them to make mistakes.
Think about when he was a child, Chen Pingsheng was naughty and causing trouble everywhere all day long.
Third uncle, including second uncle, aunt and others helped him first without asking why.
And now, when he is capable.
But he has lost patience with relatives. He should give these people more time or give them more help.
This help is not just about money, but also about patience.
The younger generation of Chen, Song, Peng and Liu have basically all arrived in Shanghai. Because there are so many people, Chen Pingsheng has also adopted a ruthless attitude and adopted an elimination system.
This is not a correct choice for grandpa, as the older generation still has a strong sense of family affection.
In addition to helping each other, relatives should also stop him in time when he goes astray.
Chen Pingsheng sent grandpa back alone, and when he arrived at the Louwang Villa, he didn't go anywhere.
Instead, he looked at the people inside, who were busy with their own things in a slightly boring way.
The year he was born, it happened to be the year of family planning, but it was not too strict at that time.
You can still give birth secretly in the countryside, but it was only when it came to my younger sister Chen Qi that they were severely punished.
And from my younger sister Chen Qi onwards, basically there was only one or two children in a family.
For example, my third uncle only had one Chen Fan.
In addition to Chen Tan, my second uncle also had another sister Chen Sai, who had a child who was just over three years old.
This kid is obviously a relative of Erpi Ya, but he doesn't dare to play with her. Every time he comes to Erpi Ya, he asks her mother.
For example, Mom, can I play with Erya?
Mom, Erya doesn't like to play with me again, am I stupid?
Not only Chen Tan's sister Chen Sai is like this, but her child is the same.
There is also Peng Yu, who is engaged in sexy lingerie. He is obviously a very lively and cheerful person, but he doesn't even dare to say a word in front of him.
Yang Kang, the son of his aunt, and his own cousins are actually a little afraid of him now.
Unconsciously, although more and more people live in this big villa, it is not as lively as in the countryside.
All of this, in the final analysis, is because of him.
Perhaps, as grandpa said, it is because of his patience that everything has happened.
Although the Magic City is a prosperous and realistic city, there must be warmth between these relatives.
And he himself should also adjust his way of doing things.
After Chen Pingsheng returned home, he did not find Song Yanxi.
I called her and found out that she went to the Shuiyunjian headquarters.
Chen Pingsheng drove to find his wife. If there was anything, he was used to discussing it with his wife before making a decision.
Shuiyunjian was full of women, all of them were rural girls.
But these girls were in good conditions now.
At least much better than their relatives who had just come to Shanghai.
Song Yanxi's office was still very unique. Outside the floor-to-ceiling windows was the Huangpu River. Sitting here and drinking a cup of tea and talking about work, it would be a lie to say that life was not pleasant.
"Husband, are you here just for this?"
"That's about right. Grandpa came to see me alone in the morning, and I went to the King's Villa again. Although the living environment inside is luxurious, it really lacks some of the rural warmth that should exist between relatives."
Song Yanxi blinked her beautiful eyes, "Husband, you have been using the management method of the enterprise to restrain these relatives of the same generation as us. When their parents know about it, they will definitely be nervous and afraid that they will be driven back to their rural hometown because of mistakes. In this case, there will naturally be no warmth."
Chen Pingsheng understood. It turned out that his wife had discovered this problem a long time ago, but she just didn't say it.
The key is that Song Yanxi doesn't think there is anything wrong with this.
Isn't society like this?
It's already very good for their family to achieve this.
It's normal for some people to leave because they can't adapt.
Chen Pingsheng said: "It's not appropriate to treat family affection in the same way as a company, and it's easy to make some elders sad.
"I think you shouldn't introduce any rich objects to them in the future. Let them find them by themselves. Some people you introduce to them are good, but they can't understand and dare not refuse, which is not a good thing.
"Also, you can't just apply for the startup fund casually. There must be some conditions, such as working in Shanghai for one or two years and doing well."
The reason for the restrictions is that some people don't have enough experience to even handle two million.
They must first be allowed to truly understand Shanghai and integrate into Shanghai, and then give them money when they really have the idea of starting a business.
This is obviously more reasonable.