Chapter 1805 Choice
In Los Gatos, Jin Ling, who said it was a discussion but actually gave a speech by herself, confessed the biggest problem of men, and then ruthlessly exposed Feng Yiping.
After stripping off the layers of cover-up on him, it was directly concluded that he was actually a man with average self-control and no loyalty, but wanted to be responsible for everyone, and objectively was not responsible for anyone. In many ways, he had all the problems of most men. Then he yawned and went upstairs to sleep.
He left Zhang Yan, Huang Jingping, and Ma Ling downstairs very irresponsibly, messy and embarrassing.
You said that helping to solve the problem was actually just helping us break some of our fantasies about him?
However, some of what she said seemed to make sense. The first prerequisite for solving the problem is to face the problem squarely.
If you still consciously help him whitewash it, it will really not help solve the problem.
For Huang Jingping, yes, he has always been deeply in love with Zhang Yan, isn't that not loyal to her? But to a certain extent, how to say it, this is actually the result of her own efforts.
Since she knew from the beginning that he was not loyal, and there was another Ma Ling, didn't she have any psychological preparation?
Then why was she so angry?
Thinking about it further, she helplessly found that although she had made a great sacrifice and insisted not to marry Feng Yiping, and insisted that he could only marry Zhang Yan, in fact, she was still somewhat resistant in her heart.
Not only that, because she could not change Zhang Yan's position in his heart, to be honest, she was jealous.
So she took this opportunity to vent this time?
Yes, when she had been with him for nearly six years, she found that she still could not replace the position of the girl who rarely met him and was still at the stage of not holding hands, how could she not be jealous?
When she had been infatuated with him for so many years and gave him all her love, but saw that there was still another woman in his heart, how could she not be jealous?
Or to go deeper, although I have made some seemingly generous and sacrificial decisions and insistence, from the heart, how many women would be generous enough to share their beloved men with other women?
So I was so angry this time?
Or, I worked so hard for such a long time - even if I counted from junior high school graduation, it was three or four years, and I worked so hard for such a long time to get everything later.
And Ma Ling just spent one night and easily got everything I got. Such a comparison makes me feel ashamed.
So, I was so angry this time?
Because Ma Ling and the child he gave birth to, it seems that everyone loves them, so I was so angry this time? ...
Huang Jingping sat there, and the thoughts that she didn't want to think about before, one by one, emerged clearly in her mind at this time.
Before solving this problem, before facing Feng Yiping, she decided to face herself first.
Objectively speaking, for example, from Jin Ling's perspective, Huang Jingping did a good job.
Even though she didn't want to, she still insisted on leaving Feng Yiping to Zhang Yan, which was very rare.
From this point, we can also see that she really loves Feng Yiping.
For all these years, she never did anything against Zhang Yan, never thought about dealing with Zhang Yan, getting rid of her biggest competitor and threat, and even took the initiative to create opportunities for Feng Yiping to be with her...
From this aspect, we can see her character.
She is indeed a very kind girl.
If Feng Yiping could let her know some facts, she would feel better.
For example, why did she do so much and stay with Feng Yiping for so many years, but still couldn't replace Zhang Yan's position in his heart?
Because in fact, Zhang Yan has been with him for longer.
She and Feng Yiping have been together for only more than five years, while Zhang Yan and Feng Yiping have been together for a full ten years!
When she resolutely abandoned her job in 1998 and ran to the city to join Feng Yiping, Feng Yiping, who had seized a large amount of wealth from the financial crisis in 1997, did not have such a huge amount of wealth as now, but at that time he had actually achieved personal financial freedom.
Whether it was buying a car or a house, although it was not as easy as buying vegetables, it was no problem to buy the most expensive mansion and the most expensive car in the country at that time.
When Zhang Yan was with him, relatively speaking, he really had nothing.
In order to pay off the mortgage, the two of them had lived a tight life for so many years.
In order to make the small business that they relied on for a living a little better, they suffered too much and thought of too many ways together in those years.
From another perspective, the traditional and long-lasting Feng Yiping would naturally attach great importance to and cherish Zhang Yan.
Even if it is true that Zhang Yan now has not been with him for a full ten years.
As for Ma Ling, it was not just one night that easily got everything that she spent several years to get.
Jin Ling had previously explained the origins of Feng Yiping and Ma Ling. It was just that they were in a foreign country and wanted to experience ONS.
Ma Ling probably thought so at first, but later she was involuntarily attracted to him and took the initiative to look for him again and again. One night turned into multiple nights.
In turn, Feng Yiping was also attracted to her, especially after he discovered that she had given birth to Vincent alone without telling him, and was ready to raise him alone. Ma Ling's independent and self-reliant character deeply impressed her. It attracted him deeply.
Huang Jingping looked at Zhang Yan and Ma Ling.
Zhang Yan supported his chin with his hand and looked intently at the American scenery outside through the window.
Ma Ling clasped her hands on her chest, tilted her head and looked ahead.
I don’t know if they have similar psychological activities to my own at this time.
Objectively speaking, at least judging from the results, his self-control is really not as average as Sister Jin said. In any case, he has rejected so many easily available temptations.
He also has vision.
He didn't say anything, and Zhang Yan didn't say anything, but he said that Ma Ling was also a very kind girl. He could make a rough judgment from the guilt in her heart that he could easily feel when she faced him.
It can be seen from this time that she kicked him out of the house, but she did not seize this, which was a very rare opportunity for her.
If one of the three of them can have the kind that exists in many movies and TV dramas, of course, it can also be said to be the kind that exists in real life and only thinks about themselves. For this reason, not only will there be many ideas and How can people who have ideas and put them into practice without hesitation be as calm as they are now?
Also, is he really a man like other men?
Of course not. There has never been a man in the world as successful as him in terms of business and business theory, especially in business, at his age, and it seems that it will be difficult to find him in the foreseeable future.
In this era where economic development is the main focus, people like him can definitely be said to be the elite among the elites and the heroes among the heroes of this era.
And is he really as carefree as other men?
Not really.
From a behavioral point of view, the only things he really owns are himself and Ma Ling.
At his age, it is not uncommon among young people in the country to have two women.
For people of the same age in the United States, many of them should have achieved this goal in high school, before the age of 18.
Even in China, it seems that it is not unusual for a 25-year-old girl to have had two men...
Am I making excuses and reasons for myself?
Why am I still so concerned and attached to him even now?
Why is this happening?
In this case, do you have any choice?
well!
She coughed lightly, breaking the awkward silence in the room, "Zhang Yan, do you want to go and take a nap too?"
"Oh, no need,"
Ma Ling also came back to her senses and looked at the empty cups in front of everyone, "I'm going to make coffee."
Zhang Yan also stood up and said, "I'm going to go outside for a walk."
In the blink of an eye, the three people who had been together just now dispersed again, each living in his own way...