Chapter 1803 The So-Called Man

"Yes, you heard it right, let's talk about men," Jin Ling repeated.

Looking at the three girls in front of her with different expressions and unfamiliar with each other, Jin Ling seemed to think of something and suddenly smiled.

Looking at the three pairs of eyes looking at her, she waved her hand quickly, "I'm sorry, I just remembered something,"

"Don't you think this scene is familiar?" Jin Ling said.

No one spoke.

"Please, don't say that you haven't talked about such topics in the school dormitory after turning off the lights, or that you haven't discussed this topic between your best friends,"

The three of them finally smiled.

Such topics have indeed been discussed with their best friends before.

When men get together, the eternal topic is women, and vice versa, when women get together, the eternal topic is also men.

The difference may be the size of the scale - but which side is bigger, there is really no fixed number.

However, the smiles of the three of them are quite graceful, and this is indeed not a good time to recall the past youthful years.

And what do you want the three of them to say about this topic?

The man that Jin Ling was talking about, to the three of them, was Feng Yiping.

What should they say in this situation?

Praise, it seems that there is really no reason; scolding, it is not impossible in private, but forget it in front of the other two.

Fortunately, Jin Ling, the initiator of the topic, was well prepared for such a situation.

"Let me talk about my opinion first. Of course, first of all, I have to state that what I said is not from my personal experience, but mainly from some observations."

What she meant was roughly equivalent to the words in the title of those movies or TV series, "This story is purely fictional. Any similarities are purely coincidental."

"I think we should just talk about the issue that is almost a consensus among everyone. A man's lack of loyalty, to be frank, is of course a playboy."

The rhythm is really fast, but in the third sentence, it comes to this core issue.

On this issue, whether it is Zhang Yan, Huang Jingping, or Ma Ling, it is naturally difficult to say anything at this time.

What should be said?

Zhang Yan didn't know at first, but later he clearly knew that he and Huang Jingping were dating.

Huang Jingping knew from the beginning that he had someone else in his heart.

Ma Ling didn't even want to know if he had a girlfriend, so she reversed the situation in the hotel in DC...

So, what should they say about this problem?

"We are not experts, and we can't analyze the origin and characteristics of this behavior from all aspects..., and the key factors that induce men to be unfaithful,"

"To add, I personally think that the reasons why men behave like this are either very complicated and no one can really explain it clearly, or very simple and all women understand it,"

Although the three of them still didn't speak, they all agreed with Jin Ling's last point. The main reason why men are unfaithful, isn't that simple?

"I'm only stating a fact, based on the conclusions I've seen and heard, that is, there are loyal men, but they are definitely a minority. The minority I'm talking about refers to men who are very loyal from the heart to the body,"

This may be true, after all, there are more than 3 billion men in the world.

"The rest, unfortunately, are all unfaithful,"

"Of course, although these unfaithful men are essentially the same, their external performances are not exactly the same,"

"From the results, some people can behave like loyal men throughout their lives. Of course, this premise is that, just like when we eat in a restaurant, it is best not to visit the kitchen. Some things cannot be taken too seriously,"

"Too serious is actually hard on yourself,"

"However, if certain conditions are met, such as outstanding appearance, excellent charm, strong strength..., etc., it is particularly difficult for such men to become loyal,"

"We can think about it ourselves. If the acquaintances around us have at least one of these conditions, can they be consistent?"

The first thing Zhang Yan thought of was his father-because Feng Yiping didn't need to be thought of.

It seems that his own father is really hard to say.

Because he has a good skill, when no one else has a way to make money, his father's income is still good.

Not only was his family the first in the village to buy a TV, but also the first to buy a motorcycle.

I remember that I had heard gossip in the village, but it was difficult to verify it with my parents.

As for my younger brother Zhang Hong, let alone mention it.

In the three years of high school, he changed four girlfriends, and the parents of one of them came to his house.

Now that he is in college, it goes without saying.

The only thing that can be comforted is that up to now, he has not made any girl pregnant.

But, is it really not?

This Zhang Yan seems to be really unsure that the pocket money in that guy's hand is enough for a few such operations.

To say that many hospitals nowadays, including public hospitals, really have no medical ethics.

Every family uses various means to say that their surgeries are "faster" and "more painless", on TV, in magazines, and in flyers handed out at the door of the wet market... In short, they use various means. It's also "more affordable". Isn't this just a way of saying to those young men and women who don't have much self-control in the first place, you can come and do whatever you want, it doesn't matter what you do.

As long as you spend a little money and spare a few hours, we can perfectly help you solve your worries.

Fortunately, not all young people are like Feng Yiping and are willing to become fathers at a young age. Otherwise, the total income of domestic hospitals will probably drop by at least a few percentage points.

The first thing Huang Jingping thought of was her father. To be honest, if her father hadn't been born with some shortcomings and didn't look like that, her mother wouldn't have been able to stay in her hometown with peace of mind when she was still in the country.

Or if my father was not just a clerk but a small cadre with some power when he was in the village, my mother would not let him stay alone in the village.

Ma Ling was also thinking about her father at this time.

Her father, John, was obviously not a dedicated person. She and her younger sister, Anne, were actually very aware of the quarrels between her parents during high school.

As for his son Vincent, Ma Ling can now be sure that under his conditions, he will make countless girls sad in the future.

Although most of those girls should not exist in this world in material form.

Zhang Yan lowered his head, Huang Jingping lowered his head, and Ma Ling clasped her hands on her chest and looked out the window. Their postures were different, but their expressions were the same.

Jin Ling's expression at this moment was actually the same as theirs. His father? With such a smooth career, it would be strange if they didn't have one or two beautiful confidants.

I vaguely heard that a few of them, the best ones, use productivity tools like Excel in order to manage their confidantes.

Think about the male neighbors next door, the male classmates, the family and friends of the male classmates, how would they behave if they had at least one of the things mentioned before...

Think about it again, those girls you know or have heard about, those girls who thought they would be the end of philandering, in the end, all became a philandering experience for men...

Alas, this is really a helpless and sad fact.

"Even those carefree men have many manifestations. I think all of us will not lack such material,"

"Some of them are very high-profile. I wish everyone in the world knew how many people they were dating, especially when their partners include celebrities. Many people would like to find the media to report on themselves,"

There is indeed no shortage of such men, whether in China or the United States.

"Of course, they dated one and abandoned the other, or they abandoned a few old acquaintances while dating a new one, and they blamed me for being irresponsible."

"There are also some carefree guys, how should I put it, they don't seem so irresponsible. He wants to be responsible for everyone he likes or has a relationship with him, but his ability in this area is limited. In the end, it seems He seems to be irresponsible to no one."

These words were obviously meant by Feng Yiping.

Jin Ling's next sentence directly pointed out Feng Yiping.

"I don't know what everyone thinks of Yiping, but from what I know about him, in this regard, he is just an ordinary man,"

"Yes, of course we can compete with each other. He does have much more self-control than many of the first or second generation who are not as capable as him. Zhang Yan, you should know this. The previous one will make most men in the country The female celebrities who are all chasing after him are chasing him so closely, but he doesn't take it seriously at all, right?"

Zhang Yan nodded.

She was present when the man chased him to the Sanya Hotel.

That person's performance at that time was really much better than Sima Zhao's heart. Anyone who saw it would not understand what she wanted to do.

"Next, there will be female celebrities from other countries, including the United States, right,"

Huang Jingping knows this best, the one in India, and the three in Hollywood recently.

"In addition to these celebrities, we also know that he also faces many temptations in his work and life,"

Huang Jingping knows even better. Not only Hu Junting and others, but also the later classmates Zheng Jiayi, Xiang Xiaofang, Wu Xinyang, Fang Yingzhi, Mayer, and probably colleagues including you, Sister Jin...

In addition, there are definitely temptations that you come into contact with in the shopping mall but that you don't know about.

Looking at the people present now, including Jin Ling, they are not enough to be counted in one palm. So it seems that his self-control is pretty good?

"Do you think his self-control is pretty good?" Jin Ling asked.

"I'm telling you, his self-control is indeed good, but to say how good it is, it's really not that good,"

"This illusion is caused by many reasons,"

"Because the media and society have too positive evaluations of him, he has to pay attention to his image; because he has always focused on efficiency, he has to consider possible contributions; for the sake of future cooperation, in order not to affect work, and in order not to let you take advantage... ,Many reasons,"

"There is another very important reason. With his current achievements and his rigorous attitude, he must also consider another issue. Some beds are easy to get into, but not easy to get out of."

This really stripped Feng Yiping completely without mercy.

"I'm sorry, Zhang Yan. I put it more bluntly, but if you listen, it's not a bad thing."

Jin Ling apologized to Zhang Yan because she knew that among the four people present, Zhang Yan was the only one who had no relevant experience. This might be a bit too big a scale for her.

Zhang Yan only blushed a little, but he still listened very seriously.

"I hope that you can solve the problems you are facing now, but the first thing to solve the problem is to face the problem squarely, so I hope you can understand that before and now, he is by no means one in ten thousand, or in dozens. There is no such dedicated man among thousands, millions, or even tens of millions of people, and it is also impossible for him to be the same in the future."

"I hope that with this understanding, everyone will consider what to do next,"

"I also want to remind you that no matter whether you understand it in your heart or not, and hope to do nothing, but one day you wake up, you will be able to have a happy situation, that kind of luck will be lost sooner rather than later,"

"Okay, do you have anything to say? I don't have any, I have to catch up on the jet lag,"