Chapter 424 If Everyone Is Working Hard

Xie Chunping understood this and nodded repeatedly, "Yes, that's right, that's right. There is nothing wrong with the child. It's just that he has some bad behavior after the first grade."

Mu Chun shook his hand, "No, no, why is his behavior bad? Maybe it's because his eyelashes are too long, maybe someone hit him, right? Maybe there's nothing wrong with him, it's just that someone hit him, and he couldn't help it. He fought back, and later the story was told by other parents and classmates that Xie Xiaofei was beating someone and that Xie Xiaofei had bad conduct."

"No, there is no bad conduct. At most, it is just some bad behavior." Although it is inevitable to get into trouble with words, Xie Chunping just feels that it is inappropriate to say that he has bad conduct. At most, it is just bad behavior. Obvious bad behavior sounds less severe by comparison.

"Well, it sounds like there is nothing wrong with the child and there is no need for medical visits, right?" Muchun said cheerfully.

Xie Chunping thought for a while and drank the delicious coffee. "There is still something wrong. We took him to see an ophthalmologist. The doctor said that his eyes were dry and a little eye drop would make it better. Later, Xiaofei developed myopia again. Problems, in short, one problem after another, from the beginning of the second semester to now, it should be said that there are more and more problems. "

Although Xie Chunping told Mu Chun most of the things truthfully, the main thing was that Xiaofei's kindergarten teacher said how Xiaofei was doing. The elementary school teacher said that Xiaofei hit people, couldn't answer questions accurately in class, failed to write dictation, and Xiaofei was there. Things like school fights with boys.

As for Xiao Fei making a sound like a dog barking, Xie Chunping avoided telling Mu Chun from the beginning. He didn't know why, but he always felt reluctant to say it.

When he heard Muchun say happily, "Then there is nothing wrong with the child and there is no need to see a doctor," Xie Chunping felt something was wrong again.

It seemed that this was not correct. Xie Chunping suddenly felt why it had become like this.

It was because Xie Xiaofei must have something wrong with him, so he did his homework last night and researched where he should go to find a doctor to ask about his son's problem. How come he was told by this doctor that there was nothing wrong with him?

The funny thing is that in the past few minutes, Xie Chunping also had the idea that maybe Xie Xiaofei had no problem.

"If there's no problem, don't worry about it. Nowadays, children are under a lot of pressure to study. Just relax and relax." Mu Chun said relaxedly again.

It didn't matter that the doctor didn't say that. The more Mu Chun said it was okay, the more Xie Chunping felt that it was impossible to be okay.

"If no one in the family has tantrums or other weird phenomena related to blinking, the child should be fine, don't worry." Mu Chun said cheerfully again.

No, no, that's not the case.

Xie Chunping shouted tangledly in his heart, really, it really is not like this.

When Muchun mentioned his family again, Xie Chunping couldn't help but think of the village where he grew up when he was a child, the way his grandma shook her head when she spoke, and the frightened and desperate expression of her cousin locked in the room.

Should I tell the doctor about this? If I really tell him, wouldn't Xiaofei's problem really become his cause?

Is there a flaw in their family?

Xie Chunping didn't dare to say, and wanted to know if it was related.

So he asked Muchun in a roundabout way, "Doctor, I just want to know if bad temper or the inability to concentrate are hereditary, and if blinking is also hereditary? Although my wife and I don't have these conditions, it doesn't mean that other people in the family don't have it, right? Nowadays, we don't visit relatives and friends very much. Besides, I don't know the situation of my wife's family. At most, we only see each other once every few years. Parents, if there are any problems from your grandparents’ generation, is it possible that they can be passed on to your children?”

Mu Chun held her chin in thought for a moment and then said slowly: "You are right, of course there is a part of the reason for inheritance, and sometimes there are no symptoms in the son, but there are symptoms in the daughter, and sometimes there are symptoms in the uncle, The niece does not have it, and sometimes it shows up as a generational trait, such as the grandfather’s problem, which appears again in the grandson.”

The more Xie Chunping listened, the more nervous he became. Speaking of this, is it really possible that it is inherited from our family?

"How do I know if the child's problem is hereditary? Or is it?" Xie Chunping didn't know how to ask.

For a person who is not good at lying, it is not easy to talk in roundabout ways.

Muchun stood up and patted Xie Chunping on the shoulder, and said: "What's the relationship between heredity and nurture? If you have symptoms, you have symptoms now. Should you focus on the present or hold your family members accountable?"

Xie Chunping seemed to understand, but he felt that this meant that he didn't have to worry too much about inheritance.

"By the way, your community will have a new year's community class at the end of the month. Our Director Jiang will also go to neighboring communities to give lectures. The courses are all about pregnancy health care, early childhood feeding, and behavioral guidance for children before and after school age. If it is not convenient for you to bring your children to my place, you can go to the neighborhood committee to check the class schedule in January. There should be one or two new course preview activities before the New Year. Although it is not a formal course, experts will go to the site, and There will be on-site consultation hours, so you can take your child to see Dr. Jiang Hong at that time.”

Mu Chun's suggestion made Xie Chunping feel relieved. When he heard that it was Dr. Jiang Hong, Xie Chunping was even more fond of Mu Chun's suggestion, "Really? That's great. Dr. Jiang Hong is a great obstetrician and gynecologist."

Mu Chun smiled and nodded, "Yes, go and sign up early. This kind of free community course will be full soon."

Xie Chunping stood up, stretched out his hand to hold Mu Chun, and thanked him repeatedly, "Great, you really helped me a lot."

Mu Chun was a little embarrassed, "Eh? Okay, thank you! Remember to sign up, sign up."

After thanking the doctor, Xie Chunping left the outpatient department and almost forgot his medical insurance card on the table.

After Xie Chunping left Huayuanqiao Community Hospital, his mood improved by a large margin. He didn't feel the biting cold wind when walking on the road, but felt particularly warm in his heart.

In fact, it seems that no problem has been solved, but it seems that Xie Xiaofei has been helped, or his problem is not as serious as before Xie Chunping came to the hospital.

Xie Chunping originally wanted to talk to Li Xiaoyun about his visit to the hospital today after he got home, but thinking that Li Xiaoyun might scold him for taking the initiative to find a psychotherapist, it was better to take the time to go to the neighborhood committee to register for the course first.

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"Child behavior disorder?" After Xie Chunping left, Mu Chun took out the notebook stored in the drawer.

From Xie Chunping's description, Mu Chun noticed several important information.

First: blinking.

Second: in the eyes of the teacher, he behaved badly and fought with classmates.

Third: bad temper

Fourth: lack of concentration

Among the thousands of students who cannot complete their homework on time, more than 60% have attention deficit or hyperactivity disorder.

Mu Chun recorded these key points in the notebook, and referred to the previous records on [hyperactivity disorder] and [attention deficit] in the notebook, and carefully wrote down the case summary of Xie Xiaofei.

There is no way to understand the real reasons behind Xie Xiaofei's conditions just from Xie Chunping's oral description.

But Xie Chunping was obviously unwilling to tell the doctor the complete facts. Mu Chun fully understood this point. The first treatment requires complete trust and complete symptom details, which is not an easy task.

Unless it is an emergency and the patient is able to describe his condition clearly, in general, the first treatment can only collect information, make partial assessments and give appropriate suggestions.

Xie Xiaofei's situation is more complicated.

Mu Chun frowned. First of all, his father Xie Chunping, it is very difficult for the doctor to grasp the situation just by asking about the child's condition in the hospital. It is really useless for Mu Chun to scratch the itch.

Why don't you want to bring your child to the hospital? Mu Chun also recorded this question in Xie Xiaofei's case.

Mu Chun understands that Xie Chunping's reluctance to bring his child to the hospital is actually in a similar state of mind in many parents.

Some consider that if the child comes to the hospital, he uses the medical insurance card. In this way, if the child has some mental problems, won't he have to carry it for a lifetime?

People still have a lot of prejudice against mental problems, and even in many fields, it still exists in the form of some discrimination.

For example, Hu Peng is a very vivid example.

He is an excellent teacher. Just because of some personal reasons, in fact, it does not affect teaching, but in the eyes of parents, if they can not choose such a teacher, they will not choose such a teacher.

Because their most important property, the most important person in their lives, even their honor and disgrace, success and shame, are all in that school, in that class, and on a chair behind a desk.

As long as parents can think of it and can do it with a little effort, they will try their best to protect their children and maximize the protection measures as much as possible.

Therefore, Hu Peng had such a big trouble before, and he could find new strength in this trouble.

This trouble is objective and cannot be changed, but he is an excellent teacher who is familiar with the school and parents after all. He understands this mood and decides to turn these worries and troubles into motivation to urge himself to do more useful things in the field of education.

This is a sublimation of professional spirit.

Shen Fan's situation is somewhat similar. Although he never appeared in the Garden Bridge Community Health Center after he was found to have a large number of stolen items in his locker, everyone did not forget him because he did not appear.

Everyone talked about him, whispered behind his back, and even talked about people who were related to Shen Fan's theft, such as Liu Tiantian.

This is a part of the human heart. When it does not concern them, many people can distinguish right from wrong, justice from kindness, and appropriate from inappropriate.

But when they become insiders, they are also confused.

This is the case between colleagues, let alone blood relatives.

Xie Chunping was unwilling to tell the truth, and Mu Chun could only try his best to provide him with opportunities for his children to get more help, but these things cannot be forced on a parent. Sometimes, patients need guidance rather than instruction and forcing them to accept.

Everything is for your own good - everyone understands this, but the relationship between people is not simply measured with such a stainless steel ruler.

After Mu Chun completed all the records, he flipped through the notes for a while.

This red notebook records more than 2,000 items about [children's neurodevelopmental disorders]. Mu Chun remembered some of the cases and notes very clearly, but some of them were a little confusing.

When he flipped through more than 20 pages, he found a case record, which mentioned a term - [Tourette syndrome].

Mu Chun had no impression of this case, but from the case analysis, it was indeed the text recorded in his notebook.

[Tourette syndrome], unable to suppress the urge to blink, make faces, shake the head, move or make sounds in other ways, but this behavior is not voluntary.

It often occurs before the age of 18, and it is common to have some symptoms at the age of 5 or 6. The frequency of tics varies, and the first tic lasts for more than a year.

This tic disorder cannot be attributed to the physiological effects of a substance or other physical diseases, such as Huntington's disease and post-viral encephalitis.

The case record was a boy who was only 19 years old at the time, and at the end of the case, Mu Chun saw another line of words, tracking

This line of words, the handwriting is elegant, it should be the handwriting of a girl.

Mu Chun looked for a while and thought of someone.

So Mu Chun took out his phone from the drawer, opened WeChat and left a message for Mu Xiao.

"I want to ask Senior Sister Mu about Tourette Syndrome."

Mu Chun hesitated for a while, wondering whether to send a message first, "Is Mu Xiao busy these days?"

It felt a little strange.

Then he thought, why not ask, "Do you have time to have dinner together? We haven't had time to meet after the end-of-year concert."

It didn't seem appropriate.

"I met a patient and wanted to discuss it with Mu Xiao."

This seems to be about the same, but since it is about discussing the patient, it is better to directly explain the specific content, so as not to affect Mu Xiao's time. Maybe she is very busy.

Subconsciously, Mu Chun thought that Mu Xiao had to live two lives alone, which was a huge pressure in terms of time and physical load.

If she was the kind of person who was stable in one personality for a long time, and then stable in another personality for a long time, for example, she was Mu Xiao in winter, and might become a little watermelon in spring. This would be better.

There was a case report that someone only spoke Spanish for several years as a teacher in Spain, but when he was in Korea, he could only speak and write Korean, and he was a chef by profession.

He did everything well, and each life was wonderful. Until the man was about to get married in Spain, he didn't realize that he had a wife in Korea.

If it was really like this for many years, Mu Xiao should not be very busy, at least for a period of time she was completely devoted to one kind of life.

But Mu Chun knew that he seemed to be deceiving himself, and he didn't seem so stable, and Mu Chun was also vague about the degree of instability between Mu Xiao and Xiao Xigua's personality switching.

Mu Chun didn't know much about Xiao Xigua or Mu Xiao after going abroad.

This is really too difficult.

But there is good news. Five minutes later, Mu Xiao replied to Mu Chun.

"Tomorrow morning, I will be on the third floor of Zhinan Affiliated. Do you want to come and chat? Bring your little notebook."

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Li Mu got home in a daze at 4:30 in the morning. The work for the day ended early. The director team is always like this. It was agreed that there would be three shoots a week, but later it became five times a week; it was agreed that there would be four recordings a week, but later it became five times a week; in short, it was a week. It was useless to say anything else, and it was useless to sign a contract.

It is not wrong to always want to do things well. If a program is done well, everyone who participates in the program will benefit. It is not a bad thing in itself, but it is really too tiring.

During the day, he still had to deal with project matters. The huge gap in funds was like a piece of white and shiny paper blocking Li Mu's eyes. As soon as he opened his eyes, he would hit the white giant wall. On the contrary, when recording the program at night, he could change his mind, think of some interesting ideas and jokes, and sometimes have a hearty interaction with other guests.

Although tired, there is also joy.

Speaking of which, the program [Strange Duel] is really good. From conception to production to invited guests, it is definitely the first-tier level in this type of variety show. Of course, this also requires that the program can be continued one after another. If it is just one episode, then it is useless and it may still lose money.

So it is normal for everyone to work hard. In this year, there is no industry that can achieve some results without working hard.

In the director's own words, making a program is similar to Li Mu's financing. In the end, if you can't find a sponsor, the program will not last long. If there is a sponsor, everything will be easy.

Just invite any guests you want. If the guests are good, the program level will be improved, and it will be easy to record. Some guests are just filling in the numbers. If you can get rid of them, don't do it. One more is a waste of money.

The implication is to praise Li Mu. The only good young man who can really go out of the hall and into the kitchen is probably Li Mu.

Before finishing work at around 4 o'clock, assistant director Mark even took Li Mu to drink a cup of cappuccino with the cream completely melted in the coffee. After drinking, Li Mu felt dizzy, just like being drunk. He was confused about what Mark said.

I just think Mark seems to say that the program team intends to create the image of Li Mu as a high-IQ + family-oriented man, because there are not many guests in the program team who can meet these two aspects at the same time. Moreover, although Li Mu’s wife Qiu Tong is not a female star in the circle, she is also a well-known celebrity. It is said that the couple has a good relationship and Qiu Tong praises Li Mu. It can be said that they are a rare model couple in the circle.