Chapter 519

"In this way, the client loses a part of his psyche, just as his therapist has lost a part of his own psyche by not learning to understand it. And for the trainer, a set of concepts is far from It constitutes a training analysis, so the trainer has to go through the healing process himself before he knows how to help the client more effectively." After a slight pause, Ning Youguang continued, "You know what I mean? ?”

The boss is just mentally ill, but his IQ is fine.

Of course he understood, so he said slowly, "Have you ever been troubled by mental problems before?"

"Yes." Ning Youguang slowly lowered his head with a sore neck, "There is a saying in our industry - 'Only healers who have been injured can heal injuries.'"

But she didn't know that her behavior was interpreted by the person in the wheelchair that she was suffering.

"Do you want candy?"

"Candy?" Ning Youguang looked up in surprise.

The person in the wheelchair asked softly, "Do you want lemon candy?"

Ning Youguang didn't know why the other party suddenly wanted to buy her candy, but at this moment she had to maintain a completely accepting attitude towards him.

"sure."

After Ning Youguang answered the call, he waited for Shi Wangyue to go to a sugar jar in a cabinet at home to get candy, but he didn't want to, the other party's wheelchair didn't move.

He took out a lemon drop directly from the pocket of his black jacket.

"thanks."

——A big guy who carries candy with him.

Ning Youguang expressed surprise at his new discovery.

She opened the candy bag and stuffed the yellow and round lemon candy into her mouth.

Concentrate on eating sugar.

She heard the other party ask again, "Why did you choose to become a healer?"

This question is easy to answer, and she is often asked.

But how to tell the other party, she needs to refine the language.

Ning Youguang took advantage of this time to chew and swallow the lemon candy in his mouth—

"When I was in high school, I once had a high fever in school and became very ill. Because I was abroad, I lived alone in the dormitory, so when I was sick, there was no one else around me. In the end, it was my teacher. I found out that I hadn't gone to class for two days, so I came to my dormitory to look for me, and sent me to the hospital. I remember that after going to the hospital, I heard the doctor and my teacher say in a daze, 'this student won't live until tomorrow'. I'm probably really going to die and never see my family again.'

The next day, when I woke up and found that I was still alive, I started to think about a question, 'Am I dead, died yesterday, did I wake up from the previous dream and entered a new dream , I'm already dead, I died abroad, and I don't have any relatives around me. '

From that day on, when I was alone, I always liked to think about things related to life and death——

'Where did I come from, and where am I going to die? '

‘Is living a dream, is it possible to wake up from a dream after death? '

'What is the meaning of my life? '

...

Being able to think about life and death is the beginning of a person's awakening. "

——and awakening is often accompanied by great pain.

"Candy is so sweet." Ning Youguang opened the bottle, took a sip of water, and continued, "I was different from the people around me when I was young. The children around me were happy every day, but I often felt lonely and hopeless. They are out of place.

But after this illness, my confusion has become a question that humans have thought about for thousands of years, but there is no standard answer until now.

So, how do I break free from these confusions?

I began to soak myself in the school library every day, reading various books - astronomy, quantum theory, medicine, philosophy, religion, hoping to find some answers from the books.

In the end, I was addicted to the books of Freud, Jung, Erickson, Satir, Hellinger, Minuqing and other psychotherapists.

I am madly in love with all kinds of psychology-related knowledge.

I felt like I had broken into a mysterious new world.

Amazingly, while I was interested in these psychological knowledge, more and more professionals in psychology began to appear around me.

I started to study with them.

A few years later, I found that everything I had experienced turned out to be my great wealth, unknowingly transformed my life, and my personality, mentality, and three outlooks also underwent tremendous changes, as if I were reborn.

And because of these experiences, I can understand other patients with mental illness.

After graduating from university, I worked as a doctor for two or three years. When I was a doctor, many patients told me their pain and confusion.

I will tell them about some of the confusion and experience I have experienced, and share with them the knowledge and methods that I have benefited from, and also share with them how our world is constructed in a huge lie, and what should we do? How to wake yourself up and find a more meaningful goal and direction in your life.

In the process, I found that giving psychological and spiritual comfort makes my patients feel happier than purely curing the disease.

In the second year of being a doctor, I found the most meaningful thing in life, bringing health and hope to those suffering, not only the body, but also the soul.

I started planning to set up my own psychological studio.

Gradually, more and more visitors came to my studio, and more and more visitors were changed, regained the power of life, and walked out of my studio in a healthy way.

My life has also become more fulfilling and happier.

Then, waking up one sunny morning, I suddenly realized that I hadn't indulged in the pain of delusional thoughts in a long time.

I found myself able to empathize with others.

At that time, I thought, to be an excellent therapist is probably the mission of my life.

In the process of healing others, I found that nothing I have experienced in my life is superfluous. Those pains and tribulations have honed me and helped me become an excellent healer.

Now, I look forward to every day of my life.

Whenever I sit in the studio and face different people with different symptoms, accompany them, help them get rid of the pain in their hearts, and help them find themselves, I feel very happy.

Life is full of accidents, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow.

But I pray every night before going to bed, 'I hope I can, and never give up helping others to be a better me', because life is always full of surprises, and I never know when a miracle will happen. "1314

The expertise in these chapters comes from Jung