Chapter 543
"My mother doesn't have any special taboos except that she doesn't like pork." Thinking of this, the girl couldn't help sighing, "Her pattern has nothing to do with taboos. She is just picky and thinks that other people's things are not good. Well, it has been like this for decades. My brother and I know her too well. She is like this. She always only looks at her own things, thinking that her ideas are right, and that everything she makes is delicious. Everything you do is justified, and everything else is wrong and bad.”
Ning Youguang thought for a while and asked, "Is mother a full-time housewife?"
"It doesn't count, my dad's construction team, she will help to settle the accounts." The girl said.
"Then mother's life circle is relatively narrow?"
"Yes." The girl nodded, "For decades, she has faced those people and those things. She herself doesn't like to read books or study. Sometimes I see good courses on the Internet and share them with her. , asked her to follow along, she said she couldn't learn it by herself, I said I would learn it with her, so she could ask me if she didn't understand anything, and she said she was old and tired to sleep..."
The more the girl talked, the more excited she became——
"The question is how old is she? She's not yet fifty years old. I think she just refuses to study! Every day except for my dad's construction team, she just watches TV or plays mahjong with the people around her."
"My mother doesn't have much room to grow up after she gets married."
"It's not that there's not much room for growth, it's that there's no growth at all!" The girl looked a little tired, "Mr. Ning, I didn't feel it when I stayed with my parents often before I went to college. When I go back from vacation, I find that my parents have not grown up at all, their thinking patterns have not grown, their minds have not grown, and their concepts have not grown.”
"Many parents are like this. They get married, have children, raise their children, and then wait for their children to marry and have children. They take care of their grandchildren and grow old. It's like this for a lifetime."
"I think this kind of life is terrible." The girl couldn't help shivering, "What's the difference between this kind of life and the reproduction of animals?"
"This is human nature." Ning Youguang said, "Human nature only involves two things: survival and reproduction."
"..." The girl didn't quite understand what Ning Youguang said, "Then what about dreams? And the realization of self-worth in life? Are all these things related to survival and reproduction?"
Ning Youguang said, "It depends on what people pursue their dreams and realize their self-worth. If it is for money, sex, fame, food and sleep, then it is still human nature."
The girl felt a little confused: "Is motherhood human? Is it human to love beauty? Is it human to show off wealth?"
"It's all human nature." Ning Youguang said, "Mothers sacrifice themselves to protect their children in order to reproduce; some people love beauty for the chance to reproduce; In order to fight for the opposite sex, and finally get the chance to reproduce."
"Teacher, according to what you said, I understand." The girl's face calmed down slightly, and after a while, she asked again, "Is gratitude and tolerance human nature?"
"No, that's morality." Ning Youguang said, "morality is not the inner need of human nature, and even in most cases, morality is against human nature." 1314