Chapter 431

And the more the people around him don't let him do anything, what will he do anyway.

Ning Youguang understands Xie Yizun's mentality of wanting to gain satisfaction from resisting the other party because his needs cannot be met in the company.

This also led to—"But when you focus on fighting them, you also forget your real purpose."

"I know I was wrong." Xie Yizun obediently admitted his mistake.

"It's okay to be wrong, and we'll just get on the right track." Ning Youguang comforted him, "If there is a problem, solve the problem, and think about all the results, and be guided by your own goals."

"I see." Xie Yizun said, "When I encounter problems in the future, I will think about what is the most appropriate way to do it."

"It's very good that you can think of these things." Ning Youguang felt that his younger brother was very smart and knew everything, "When do you want to go to the company?"

"Let mom contact the company in the next two days." Xie Yizun said, "However, I want to change the dormitory."

"Is it because your roommates and friends lied to you because you changed the dormitory?" Ning Youguang asked.

"Yes." Xie Yizun said with a frown, "I don't want to face them anymore."

"You can change the dormitory." Ning Youguang said, "But you don't want to face them, there is no way to do it, unless someone helps you drive those people you don't want to face out of the company."

Xie Yizun knew that this was impossible, and the entertainment company was not run by his family.

"Then what should I do?" He said a little irritably, "I don't want to be with them anymore."

"If you don't want to be with them, you can choose not to be with them." Ning Youguang said, "You have the right to choose to make friends."

"Then who should I go with?" Xie Yizun had a shadow after being bitten by a snake.

"I don't know that, but I can share with you my principles of making friends."

"What kind of friendship principles?"

"Get along with people who are not tired, and meet people you like." Ning Youguang's attitude is very free and easy.

"I probably know if I like it." Xie Yizun asked earnestly, "If you're not tired, you don't quite understand."

"If you don't understand, you can do this." Ning Youguang said carefully, "No matter who you play with in the future, as long as that person makes you feel uncomfortable and consumes yourself, you should stay away from him."

"Then what if they came here with good intentions?" Xie Yizun asked again, "Sometimes some people are indeed doing it for my own good, but it's uncomfortable to be with them."

"Then communicate with them well, and once you find yourself uncomfortable, tell them." Ning Youguang said, "People who really love you definitely don't want you to be uncomfortable, and when you tell them, they will also be willing." Cooperate with you to make adjustments to the way you treat you, and in the process, you must learn to be alert to the relationships around you that imprison you in the name of love, whether they are family members, colleagues, friends, or your future lover. "

"Well, I remember."

"Not only to remember, but the most important thing is to learn to use it in real life."

"I know."

"It's good to know." Ning Youguang smiled and said, "However, Yiyi, do you really plan to stay away as long as you feel uncomfortable with others in the future, and stay away when you are uncomfortable with others?"

"Is it not possible?" Xie Yizun asked.

"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "But there are so many people in this world, there are always some people who are uncomfortable for us and we cannot avoid. When the time comes, what should you do?"

Xie Yizun was silent, and after a while, he shook his head blankly, "I don't know."

Interpersonal relationship is always a big homework that everyone has to face. Some people are born strong, while others are not.

Xie Yizun, who has been a half "left-behind child" since he was a child, is obviously the latter.

"Sister, do you know?" Xie Yizun asked Ning Youguang, "Can you tell me?"

"The law is very simple." Ning Youguang smiled, "Allow others to be yourself, and allow yourself to be yourself. If you can understand each other, you will understand. If you can't understand each other, you will respect each other. Don't control, force, or compromise."

"I see."

"Then let's discuss your desire to debut next, shall we?" Ning Youguang turned to another important topic.

"Can."

"Mom told me that your company thinks that you usually perform very well and that you have practiced the basic skills well, but they still want you to go out later." Ning Youguang told Xie Yizun the information he got from Xia Youqing , "They want you to consolidate your strength again."

"Why?" Xie Yizun didn't understand, "Obviously I have learned everything that should be learned, and I can also learn what I should know. Those in the company who are not as good as me can go out to act, go out to perform, and accept variety shows, why can't I? "

"Others are others, and you are you." Ning Youguang's clear gaze fell on Xie Yizun's impatient face, "Every life has a different way of appearing on the stage, and the inherent potential talents are different. Of course it’s different. You feel unbalanced that others can debut early, but have you ever thought that your goals for joining the company are different.”

"No." Xie Yizun shook his head.

"Okay, then I'll tell you now." Ning Youguang said, "Mom said that those who go out to pick up jobs before they have solidly practiced their basic skills are just the company's way of cutting leeks and their own desire to quickly become popular." The idea is dictated by the immediate interests."

Sixteen-year-old Xie Yizun doesn't understand the twists and turns in the mall.

But he understood what Ning Youguang said.

He no longer envied those who could make their debut after entering the company, he began to worry a little for them, "Can they not be like this?"

"I don't know about that." Ning Youguang shook his head slowly, "If you are worried about them, you can mention your friends when necessary, and don't force yourself to listen or not."

Xie Yizun's heart was a little heavy and dull, "Sister, I suddenly feel that I am a little ignorant, and I am very lucky."

"Why do you say that?" Ning Youguang asked softly.

"I suddenly discovered that although my mother said that I would go to the entertainment industry, she would not help me and everything had to be done by myself, but..." Xie Yizun gritted his teeth, "As long as I am her son, I am destined to be successful in the industry." preferential treatment."

Ning Youguang smiled, "It's good that you can see that."

Xie Yizun felt a little sad in his heart, "I originally thought I could do it on my own, but now that I think about it, no matter what achievements I make in the future, I will never be able to do without the help of my family."

"Yes." Ning Youguang said calmly and objectively, "It's your blessing to have an open life. Don't think it's a burden or a burden. It's a bit unlovable to act good when you've got a big deal. "1314