Chapter 453

——"Tangtang should have something to say, after all, there are so many fans who like you."

Zhou Tang smiled heartily, "My family has been relatively harmonious since I was a child."

Today, because of the style of the show, Zhou Tang didn't have any particularly delicate makeup on his face.

But he is good-looking, with handsome features, especially a pair of peach blossom eyes, which has an attractive effect even without makeup.

His eyes scanned the surroundings lightly, and the few people sitting with him were all very strong-hearted people, and they were not affected at all.

But the staff of the program group working not far away did not have such good concentration.

Especially those young girls in the group, even if Zhou Tang's gaze didn't fall on them, they were all blushing from being teased.

"Be careful and work hard."

So much so that the director of the program group not only has to pay attention to the filming of the program, but also pays attention to the young people around him from time to time to let them take it easy.

Staring at them, don't just look at the faces of the two gods and forget about the work in hand.

Zhou Tang may or may not know the attitude of the surrounding staff.

Anyway, he was completely unaffected, and continued to talk, "My parents have a very good relationship. They belong to the kind of relationship that is independent and dependent on each other. It is mainly my mother. She is too stable. From childhood to adulthood, I have never seen her lose control of her emotions, especially for me. She has never lost control of her emotions towards me. Sometimes she will say a few words to my dad when he is overwhelmed by emotions, but she will soon be able to adjust herself. emotions, my dad is willing to listen to my mom in daily life, I remember the most impressive thing..."

Zhou Tang's eyebrows stretched, "As long as I can remember, my dad often told me, 'Your mother is the pillar of our family, you have to listen to her carefully, if you don't listen to her well, she will get angry, I will tell you Said, our father and I did not have a good life.', so, I have never seen them quarrel since I was a child, and then they didn't interfere too much with my education, and they respected me very much. Since childhood, they have treated me There is only one requirement - for example, what my mother told me the most is, 'Don't do illegal and criminal things, I want you to look good! If you don't do these things, you can do whatever you want.', so as long as I don't violate the principle Sexual mistakes, my parents will support whatever I want to do, for example, if I want to study art, apply for an art school, enter the entertainment industry, including relationships, etc., they have never interfered."

"Then you have a lot of freedom at home." He Yuan looked at Zhou Tang with envy.

"Yes." Zhou Tang nodded with a smile, "So I am very grateful to my parents, who have always been willing to support me to be myself."

"Tangtang's native family atmosphere, and the education his parents gave him is a good family education?" Ma Zhou asked Ning Youguang.

"Parents who are less anxious, and who enjoy the joy of meeting their child's changing needs, have a positive influence on their child, making him a person who can regulate his emotions, who is able to Trusting others, feeling good about yourself and maintaining hopeful hope are the foundations of self-confidence and self-esteem, and the reason you grow up to be emotionally intelligent.”

"On the contrary?" Ma Zhou listened seriously.

"Conversely, if the parents in a family are depressed, irritable, busy, or indifferent to their children because of some other things, then their children will not find what they are looking for in their parents' reactions. Seen as likable and popular, they see themselves as superfluous, a source of disappointment or even a source of evil, or a dispensable person. These damaging emotional connections have profound effects on children. Influence. Generally, children who grow up in this kind of native family will close their brain centers related to the sense of security, soundness and openness, and stimulate the brain nerves corresponding to the painful emotional state of their parents. At the same time, they themselves will feel Once this kind of mentality is formed, they will easily lose control after puberty, and the rebellious period will be longer than children who grow up in a normal family environment.”

"Some children even go to society to do some illegal and criminal things?" He Yuan asked.

"There is this possibility." Ning Youguang's expression changed a lot.

Ma Zhou also sighed, "So I read a survey before, that is, some people surveyed many people who were dying, and asked them what their biggest regret in life was. The top three neither did not realize their ideals, nor It's not that I didn't earn much money, or what kind of height I reached in society, but that I didn't educate my children well and spend time with my family when I was young..."

"Yes, yes, yes." He Yuan nodded, "I have also read the content of this investigation."

"In our daily lives, we hear people say, 'If I hadn't been busy with work, my child's grades would not have been like this...', 'If I had so much time, I could have... ', in fact, this is also a paradox. In fact, since they did not do it at the time, it means that cognition and consciousness did not achieve it, that is, 'they can't', but whatever a person can really do, they have already transformed into action For." Ning Youguang's soft eyes lightly fell on the surrounding people, as clear as a mountain stream.

——"Many people around us think about some people and things in the past, and it is easy to think more and more anxious, because there is always an obsession that maybe I could do better at that time, in fact, this is not necessary, because even with a certain Lessons learned, if they go back to the past and do it all over again, it will be difficult for them to do better, but they may make things worse because of concerns and loss of enthusiasm.”

"So what Teacher Ning means is that those parents who didn't teach their children well when they were young, even if they do it all over again, don't they still not know how to teach their children?" Ma Zhou asked in surprise.

Ning Youguang nodded, "Unless, as Teacher He said before, they first learn to improve their personality, and then systematically study family education, and then decide to have children, then they will be able to be good 'parents' after the child is born This role is to educate your children well."

"This point of view is quite novel." Zhou Tang looked at Ning Youguang with a smile.

"What Teacher Ning said..." Ma Zhou scratched his head lightly, "Many parents around us are unqualified."

He Yuan also looked at Ning Youguang and sighed, "Your vision is too high, it will scare off many young people."

Ning Youguang smiled, "I'm just sharing some of my own opinions." 1314