Chapter 430 I Also Think I Am Cool

"Spiritual entropy is a wonderful metaphor in psychology. Simply speaking, 'entropy' refers to the degree of chaos in a system. The more chaotic, the higher the entropy value. Conversely, the more regular a system is, the clearer its structure , the lower the entropy value." Ning Youguang briefly explained to his younger brother, "The thoughts in the human brain are just like the molecules in the system. Thousands of horses are galloping all the time. The more chaotic your heart is, the higher the entropy value will be. , For example, you worry about gains and losses when evaluating others, and carefully calculate material gains and losses. These are the factors that cause your high mental entropy. Another definition of "entropy" refers to the total amount of energy that cannot do work in a system. In short, The higher your mental entropy, the less energy you can do to do things well, because you waste a lot of your own energy on internal friction. On the contrary, when you focus on doing something you feel very useful When it comes to meaningful things, all your thoughts support each other, are interrelated, work together, and move in the same direction in unison. This is a process of reducing entropy, also known as 'negative entropy'. Negative entropy will make Your mood is peaceful, fulfilling and full of fun, with high negentropy, and you are powerful in everything you do.”

"Sister, you mean that I don't actually enjoy going to nightclubs, getting drunk, racing cars, and getting tattoos?" Xie Yizun tried hard to digest the message Ning Youguang sent him, "Compared with these, I enjoy dancing and singing more. , play the piano."

"Do you still need to ask me?" Ning Youguang asked with a smile.

"It seems to be like this." Xie Yizun said after serious thinking, "In the company, I feel very fulfilled, I am improving every day, I am constantly surpassing myself, I do a lot of things every day, but I don't feel too tired. I also slept well at night and woke up full of expectations every morning. Here..."

Xie Yizun showed some embarrassment on his face.

"Don't feel embarrassed." Ning Youguang said with a smile, "The more honest you are with yourself and me, the more I like it."

"Here, you and my brother-in-law are very kind to me, and I live very comfortably, but I feel very empty, and my happiness is very short-lived. I don't sleep well at night, but I don't know if it's because I slept too much during the day, or Because of your mood." Xie Yizun scratched his head.

"This is the so-called "happiness logic" problem." Ning Youguang said, "In the company, you work hard to realize your dreams, and everything you do can make you satisfied and grow, and the happiness you get will naturally last forever. , in my case, what you do is meaningless to your real pursuit in your heart, it is a kind of self-consumption and boredom for you, it is strange that you can feel really happy."

"Thank you sister for telling me this." Xie Yizun smiled, "I understand."

When he smiled, the childishness of a boy could still be seen on his face, which was pure and cute.

"Yiyi, my sister thinks you look really good when you smile."

Ning Youguang thinks that he likes children laughing, such as Yiyi, Ning Youyu, her students, and those children he sees while walking aimlessly on the street.

A child's smile is different from an adult's smile.

She felt that their smiles were purer, more beautiful, and more touching.

Happy without water, very real.

"My sister also has a pretty smile." Xie Yizun lowered his head a little embarrassed.

"Of course, we are siblings." Ning Youguang accepted generously.

The intimate communication between the two siblings went smoothly.

Because of Xie Yizun's frankness.

It is also because Ning Youguang and Shi Mochiyue have indulged and tolerated him for so long, allowing him to release and relax his negative emotions.

That's how it is with people.

When you allow the other person to be yourself, the other person will allow you to be yourself.

Good negotiation is mutual.

If you are easy to talk, the other party is also easy to talk, and if you are not easy to talk, the other party will not be easy to talk to.

Especially when facing a teenager like Xie Yizun who has not yet come out of the rebellious period of youth.

Ning Youguang has always known how to give patience, time, and respect.

He doesn't ask, she doesn't ask.

He asked, and she answered.

These days, she has used all her actions to tell Xie Yizun——

"I'm here, by your side."

"When you really need me, I will never refuse you anyway."

It was also because of her tolerance and acceptance over the past few days that Xie Yizun, an angry little beast, was unknowingly tamed and became well-behaved and easy to talk to.

Once people's hearts are opened, whether it's persuasion or education, it will get twice the result with half the effort.

Xie Yizun was also willing to listen to her.

Because he knows that his sister will definitely help him, and understand him and help him from his perspective.

"Sister, I still want to sing, play the piano, and dance." Xie Yizun lay on the table, his voice was soft, and he was as soft as a boneless person.

"and then?"

"I want to go to the company." Xie Yizun felt a little embarrassed.

After all, half a month ago, he was clamoring not to go to the company.

"Then go." Ning Youguang knew early on that Xie Yizun's refusal to go to the company was angry.

If you really hate the company and don't like life there.

How could the little overlord in his last life persist in such an ascetic life for so long?

Since he can persist, it is definitely not just because of an agreement or an invisible future, a large part of the factor is that he has gained strength in the course of his daily actions.

He really likes and enjoys doing these things.

"I'm very happy that you can persist in practicing for so long without giving up or slacking off. After suffering some setbacks, you can sort out your mood and be willing to go to the company. This in itself is remarkable, and I am proud of you." Ning Youguang Praise Xie Yizun, "Yiyi, no matter whether you make your debut or not, whether you can become a big star or not, if you can do what you have done in the past three years, it is already remarkable."

Xie Yizun covered his face with his hands, didn't say anything, a little embarrassed, but happy.

After a long time, he put down his hand.

Ning Youguang saw that the corners of the boy's eyes were red, and he smiled even brighter.

"I also think I'm pretty cool."

"I think so too!" Ning Youguang looked happy, and taking advantage of Xie Yizun's better condition, he mentioned the main purpose of coming to talk to him today, "Okay, let's talk about what you plan to do next? You and The general reason for the quarrel in the company, I heard from my mother, now, I want to hear what you said, okay?"

"Well." Xie Yizun nodded, "The inhuman living arrangements in the company, the high-energy exercise required by the teacher, etc., I don't think it's a problem. What makes me feel most uncomfortable is that I joined the company three years ago. They promised me to make a debut, but now they haven't fulfilled it, when I think about it, I don't want to do anything, even if I don't hate doing those things myself." 1314