Chapter 284
Hearing this, Ning Youguang has already confirmed that Liang Yiyi's husband is a mind manipulator.
He often used cold violence against Liang Yiyi, and refused to explain his anger or disappearance for no reason. When he came back, he would carefully prepare some romantic techniques to cover up his excessive behavior, and misled the facts by the way so that Liang Yiyi continued to compromise. Suffer pain and anxiety alone.
Before marriage, she had a gentle personality, was helpful, and showed a high degree of tolerance to her lover. This also caused Liang Yiyi to like his personality so much that she decided that he was her Mr. Right after not dating for long.
At that time, her parents were still there and felt that her daughter's boyfriend was a bit strange and needed more observation, but they passed away after a short period of observation.
Liang Yiyi married her husband under the great fear of losing her parents suddenly.
And her husband also used her fear of losing her parents, her worries about her body, and her inner desire to be understood, appreciated and loved... all these years, she has been manipulating her.
Let her idealize her husband too much, and desperately want to believe that he is the person in the whole world who loves her the most, can protect herself the most, and is the most trustworthy person.
Until the first time something went wrong—
That's when he first accuses her of doing something she didn't do and expects her to agree with him.
When she thought it was an accident, the problem would eventually reappear.
But because of being manipulated in getting along, she didn't want to blame him, and didn't want to re-examine him, but stuck to the romantic image of the perfect lover in her mind.
The family changes that happened to Liang Yiyi, as well as her personality, provided the perfect entry point for her husband's manipulative behavior.
The personality traits of Liang Yiyi's husband is a typical "charismatic gaslighter".
In daily life, some men often use this method to conquer women.
They can be very confusing at times—
When people get along with them, they feel that there is something wrong, but they also enjoy the romantic and sweet feeling they bring.
And they also have a set of very meticulous logic to justify their views, making the other party feel that what he said is actually reasonable, and they are slowly brainwashed by him, thinking that what he said is right and everything he does is good.
When having a relationship with this kind of "charismatic gaslighter", no matter whether a man or a woman, it will be as if they have been poisoned by them, bewitched by them, restrained by them, and thus lose themselves and even cause other life injuries.
This kind of mental manipulation does not only occur in the relationship between the sexes, but also in the workplace, and there is a high probability that it will also exist in the family.
It's just that some people will tell the difference and some won't.
When Liang Yiyi met her husband, it was the beginning of her pain and lack of self-confidence.
So much so that she changed from a lovely, carefree rich daughter to a nagging, unconfident person who was full of doubts about the world and herself.
What Ning Youguang needs to confirm now is—what stage has Liang Yiyi's husband manipulated her.
In this way, a set of the most effective treatment plan was worked out, so that she could break free from the long-term mental manipulation.
The essence of "mental manipulation" is control, and control is to make a person believe what he says unconditionally.
Any weakness of Liang Yiyi can be the target of her husband's attack.
In the beginning, he attacked her figure and appearance, which was the first stage. 1314
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