Chapter 242

"I suggest that you give him enough time and space to grow up, and grasp the importance of his growth. This is the responsibility and mission of a parent." Ning Youguang looked at Xia Youqing and said, "Mother's dream of a child Support is the motivation for children to succeed, which is in line with the intensive learning theory of psychologist Skinner.

——The so-called reinforcement refers to the affirmative or negative consequences of a behavior, including reward or punishment, which will determine whether this behavior will be repeated in the future at least to a certain extent. According to the nature and purpose of reinforcement, reinforcement can be Divided into positive reinforcement and negative reinforcement.

Positive reinforcement means that if a certain behavior brings pleasure and satisfaction to the actor, such as giving food, money, praise and care, the actor will tend to repeat the behavior;

Negative reinforcement means that if a certain behavior can reduce and eliminate the unhappiness and aversion of the actor, such as reducing noise, severe cold, extreme heat, clicking and scolding, the actor will also tend to repeat the behavior. "

"If you are supportive of Yiyi's dream, it is a positive reinforcement for him.

This kind of positive reinforcement acts on his dreams, which can enhance his self-confidence, make him more willing to realize his dreams, and at the same time, make him more able to resist the difficulties and obstacles brought about in the process of chasing his dreams, so that he can Persevere on the road to realize your dreams. "

"For Yiyi, your unconditional support and encouragement is the most solid backing, because he knows that even if he fails, he will have your support, so he can let go for his dream. If you blindly deny Yiyi, you will only Hit his self-confidence, on the contrary, it will increase his self-confidence."

Both Xie Baosheng and Xia Youqing knew the importance of self-confidence to children.

"It's not that I don't support him to realize his dream." Xia Youqing retorted, "I just hope that he can study hard now. When he grows up, he wants to be a star. Will I still not support him? I just want to Help him plan a better path."

"Sorry, I personally think that your so-called plan for Yiyi is not a plan, but a kind of coercion. It is very cruel to stuff him into a jar and let him grow according to your requirements. Although you are right He is good, but he is not given freedom." Ning Youguang said, "Think about it differently, if someone urges you to prevent you from doing what you want every day in the name of your own good, how will you feel? Sample?"

The daughter's words were so sharp that Xia Youqing was a little afraid to look at her face.

After a while, she asked feebly, "Then tell me, what should I do now?"

"What you need to do now is to do your best to relieve his stress and emotions, so that he can maintain his enthusiasm for life and the future." Ning Youguang said.

"How can I do this?" Xia Youqing felt it was too difficult, "I don't even know how to relieve my own emotions."

"I'll come, I'll come." Xie Baosheng comforted his wife.

"Come here—" Xia Youqing complained, "What's the use of fishing for three days and drying the net for two days?"

Xie Baosheng said, "Aren't I always on business trips, am I always busy?"

In fact, he also felt deeply guilty about the education of his youngest son.

That's why I usually dote on him a lot.

In the past, when the child was young, he always thought that it would not be too late to take care of it when he was free. He waited and waited until his son reached puberty, and when the parent-child relationship problems at home became so serious that his son wanted to run away from home.

Hearing that his son was missing yesterday, his immediate reaction was regret!

Deeply regret.

At that moment, he suddenly felt that he was busy discussing business and making money every day, but in fact it seemed meaningless compared to his children.

He thought, if something really happened to his son, he would definitely not be able to forgive himself, even if he had to lose his entire family in exchange for his son.

Later, I heard from my wife that the son ran away from home and went to the capital to find his sister.

He almost burst into tears of gratitude on the spot.

fortunately……

Fortunately, there is still a daughter who can be trusted by the son.

Otherwise, he really doesn't know what to do.

So, after seeing his son today, he was powerless to get angry at all. He felt that it was a great blessing that he could still stay in front of him well.

Thinking of this, he gritted his teeth and made a decision.

"Honey, it's like this. Don't you always dislike me for being busy with work and neglecting my family? But the company is so big, and thousands of people are waiting for dinner. As the boss, it's not good for me to ignore them..."

Xia Youqing looked at him, "Say what you want to say."

"Look...can I call Shengxing back to the headquarters to help me?" Xie Baosheng asked cautiously, "When he comes back, let him go on business trips in the future, so I can stay at home with you."

Xie Shengxing, the only son of Xie Baosheng and his ex-wife.

After studying abroad, I have been abroad and never came back.

After Xia Youqing was stunned, he said angrily, "Of course, there's nothing wrong with it. Shengxing is capable and is your son. As long as he wants, he can come to your company at any time."

Xie Baosheng breathed a sigh of relief, and smiled naively, "I haven't asked him yet, but it's best if you can support me."

"Why don't I support it?" Xia Youqing complained, "We are all going to be stars one by one, how will we manage the company in the future? What's more, do you think he is the one who manages the company? Besides, one by one One, if you want to inherit your mantle, you must be able to compete with his brother, otherwise, if you don’t have that diamond, don’t stop porcelain work.”

What she didn't say was—

"Thank you for having a company, and my wife is not short of money."

"My son doesn't have your property, so he can still live well!"

Xie Baosheng's eyes turned red when he was touched by Xia Youqing's words.

He hugged her tightly, "Thank you, wife."

The corners of Ning Youguang's mouth twitched slightly.

Fate went round and round and turned here again.

There are similarities and differences.

The same is that Xie Shengxing will return to China to inherit Uncle Xie's company.

The difference is that because of the support of her parents, Yiyi can find her life goals and direction of future efforts early on, and will not become a troublesome second-generation ancestor and devil king because of serious problems such as spoiling and lack of love.

...

After finishing his wife, Xie Baosheng said earnestly, "Yes, can you teach me some methods of educating one by one?"

"Of course." Ning Youguang nodded, "But it's not easy to do, and it won't be easy to see the effect in a short time."

"I understand, I understand." Xie Baosheng said, "Don't worry, I will work hard to do well."

Then, he rubbed his hands again, "It's just that I may have to trouble you for advice in the future."

"This is not a problem." Ning Youguang said, "The most important thing is that you can see the problem and are willing to correct it, and pay attention to Yiyi's family education." 1314

Well, thank you for your support, little ones, I love you