Chapter 241

Xia Youqing was still in the mood, glanced at Shi Wangyue, and said nothing.

"Auntie, would you like some tea?" Shi Mochizuki poured pure water into the kettle.

"Stop drinking." Xia Youqing said with a headache, "Eat first when you're hungry, don't worry about it."

"I'll go over to eat after I boil the water." Shi Mochizuki had a refined expression on his face.

Xie Baosheng walked up to Ning Youguang and said with a smile, "Did you buy so many delicious food when you went out for a while?"

"I didn't buy anything, I packed a few dishes casually, and I don't know if it suits my uncle and aunt's taste." Shi Mochiyue pressed the water button of the electric water heater.

"I'm not picky about food." Xie Baosheng worried about his stomach, "Just eat what you have."

He asked Xie Yizun, "Have you eaten one by one?"

He actually heard what his son yelled outside just now.

Also pretend not to hear.

It's purely a joke!

"Don't eat." Xie Yizun glared at his mother sitting opposite him.

"It's fine if you don't eat it." Xia Youqing said, "Thank you for eating it yourself."

Xie Baosheng picked up the chopsticks, "Then I'll eat first, I didn't eat at noon, I'm hungry."

Ning Youguang reminded from the side, "Uncle, Mom, we will go to the room for a meeting in thirty minutes."

Xie Baosheng responded, "That's great."

After Shi Mochizuki boiled the water, he made a pot of tea, regardless of whether Xia Youqing drank it or not, he poured the first cup for her.

...

Half an hour later, in the room.

"One by one, running away from home this time is similar to the rebellion of adolescence, deliberately opposing you and provoking you." Ning Youguang sat on the chair and said to Xia Youqing and Xie Baosheng who were sitting on the sofa opposite, "He The motivation for this behavior is, 'You treat me badly, I understand, this is your problem', he wants to use this to achieve his own goals, he wants you to respect him and understand him more."

Xia Youqing and Xie Baosheng both had a very headache.

"How should I respect it?" Xia Youqing said, "How else should I understand? He's only in the eighth grade, so he doesn't want to go to school. How can I respect him?"

"What if you don't go to school?" Xie Baosheng also said anxiously beside him.

"He has already developed a reluctance to go to school. You are now using some compulsory methods to let him go to school, which will not work at all." Ning Youguang said calmly.

"What should I do if it doesn't work?" Xia Youqing said, "If you help me give your brother some psychological counseling."

"Without his active request, I wouldn't give him psychological counseling." Ning Youguang refused.

"Just do it quietly, don't tell him it's okay?" Xia Youqing suggested.

"No." Ning Youguang said, "You are in a parent-child relationship, and I am not with him. I can't get involved with you and mess up the boundaries of the family. If the problem is not resolved by then, more problems will arise. .”

"Do you have any good suggestions?" Xie Baosheng asked as if asking for advice.

"My suggestion is that you need to change the way you get along with each other." Ning Youguang said.

"How to change? Is there any problem with our current model?" Xie Baosheng.

"Are you still continuing the pattern of 'I tell you to listen', 'I beat you to suffer', and 'I order you to carry out'?" Ning Youguang asked.

"He's still a child, we don't need to teach him, is there any other way?" Xia Youqing was worried.

"When you were young, you could use this method, but now he's in puberty." Ning Youguang was a little speechless, "Have you guys understood what puberty boys need? What he needs now is to share power with you , on an equal footing with you, at this moment, you must be able to bend down and hear his voice."

"Listen to his voice?" Xia Youqing took a deep breath, "His voice just doesn't want to go to school, wants to be a trainee, wants to be a star."

Ning Youguang nodded, "Yes, Yiyi also told me that his dream is to become a star."

"What kind of star is he at the age of thirteen? He thinks going to the entertainment industry is just a joke, so it's fun?" Xia Youqing said angrily.

"My dream is to be a star, I don't think there is any problem." Ning Youguang said, "Aren't you too?"

Xia Youqing paused, "Can this be the same? I decided to become a star after I went to high school, and I went to the best film school, and he didn't go to school until he was in junior high school. If it's up to him, he Don’t talk about the best art school in the future, even if you barely get into the industry, you will be laughed at as illiterate and low-educated!”

"These things can be discussed with him." Ning Youguang said, "One by one is not unreasonable. Moreover, dreams have nothing to do with age, and there is no right or wrong interest, only whether you like it or not. When I was in kindergarten, So I decided to become a psychiatrist in the future.”

Xia Youqing sighed, "You are different from him. You have been obedient since you were a child, and your academic performance is good. Now you have realized your dream, doing better than everyone else, so you are called a teenager! What is he? ? He didn’t study hard every day, and he knew how to be mischievous in school. He said that he wanted to be a star, maybe it was for fun.”

"This is your discrimination." Ning Youguang stared at Xia Youqing seriously, "You have prejudice against him."

"Why am I prejudiced?" Xia Youqing said, "What I'm saying is the truth, you don't even know how many complaint calls I receive from teachers at his school a week. You never used me when you were young." Worrying."

"Does it mean he needs to bear your prejudice if I don't obey?" Ning Youguang asked sharply, "Everyone is a unique flower, and parents should cultivate and encourage their children to learn to be loyal to their inner choices. I Yi Yi's talent is learning, so I am willing to study hard, what you do is to support my study, Yiyi's talent is playing the piano and learning music, why can't you support him to spend more time and energy on these areas?"

"You yourself are also in the art industry. Why do you have to ask to be a good student first? What is a good student? What is the standard for a good student? It is to be admitted to a key high school, and to be admitted to a good student. Art school? Why is a student who wants to stay true to his inner dream not a good student?"

Ning Youguang asked a series of questions, which made Xia Youqing a little dazed.

"I believe that there will be excellent people in every field in the future. Supporting Yi Yi's interests is what you need to do as parents. Moreover, you must abandon those illogical prejudices and Yi Yi has the right to draw your own blueprint for life. .”

"According to you, I can only let him do what he wants?" Xia Youqing frowned, "What's the difference between spoiling a child?"

"Parents need to support their children's interests, but it doesn't mean they are pampering them," Ning Youguang said.

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