Chapter 186 Be Your Own Creator

"But just when we can do everything, it also means that we can't do anything well, and when we can't do anything well, it also means that we don't know what we're doing—"

"The period of confusion in life has come."

The joy of being seen appeared on the young man's face, "Mr. Ning, I am in such a state. I feel that I am very impetuous now, and I am also looking for the reason. I also asked many friends. They analyzed many reasons with me, and even Some people told me that the environment of the company I went to was not good, and that the feng shui of my family was not conducive to my career, and some people said that I did not get along with the bosses of those companies, and there were all kinds of messy reasons..."

Ning Youguang felt a little ridiculous when he heard it, "How did you deal with these factors that troubled you before?"

"Most of the time, I choose to escape, not accept, and choose another place, but later I found that this just made me waste time and energy."

"Constantly immersed in the uncertainty of life."

"Yes." The young man said helplessly, "I hope I can get out of this vicious circle. I have also seen some people, they will not stop living because of bad feng shui in the house; If they feel uncomfortable, they will stop dating... They can always find a way to balance these things, from the beginning to the end, they are very calm, safe, and not anxious, I hope I can also have this state."

"That's because they have something very persistent in their hearts, and they know what they actually want. They understand very well that all they have to do is to try to balance all the unfavorable factors around them, to fight for their own goals, and to have a firm mind to achieve As the saying goes, 'The state is transformed by the heart', everything outside is transformed by the heart." Ning Youguang said clearly.

"Yes, Teacher Ning." The young man paused slightly, and continued, "My biggest problem now is that I don't know what I actually want, and I keep trying and making mistakes, but the sunk cost is already very high. I didn’t find it. I saw my classmates—some of them have done a good job in the workplace. I sometimes envy them when I see their high-spirited state in the circle of friends, but most of the time, I feel I can't do it myself."

After talking with the young man, Ning Youguang discovered that the young man was actually very smart, and he was constantly exploring the path of self-growth.

Now, he only encountered some obstacles temporarily and couldn't overcome them, and there was no one around him who understood him and helped him through this period of confusion.

She said, "If you can't find what your heart wants for the time being, don't be afraid or anxious, you can focus on the present moment and do what you can do now, so that all the uncertainties in your life will be as smooth as possible. As the tide recedes slowly, certainty will surface, and at that time, you will be filled with a sense of security, seeing the meaning of your existence, and your life will naturally bloom.”

Listening to her words, the young man thought for a while.

Ning Youguang continued, "The moment you decide to be yourself, you are your own 'creator', and eternal life begins."

The young man thought for a while and asked, "Does Teacher Ning mean that he hopes that I can 'not waver in my heart' when I am looking for the direction?"

Ning Youguang nodded appreciatively, "Yes, first find where your heart rests, and then move forward with determination, and time will tell you the answer. During this process, communicate frankly with your parents and tell them Please give you a little time and patience." 1314

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