Chapter 153 No Man Is An Island
"The longer I get in touch with people, the more I like dogs. Dogs will always be dogs, and people are sometimes not people!"
Ning Youguang was fascinated by his thoughts, when he suddenly heard Xia Youqing's voice mocking her uncle.
Turning her head, she saw that Xia Youqing came to the living room at some point, watching TV with her arms crossed.
There was a little Shiba Inu squatting beside her. When she turned her head, she suddenly called out "Wow".
"..." Ning Youguang.
Xia Youqing froze for a moment, shook his head and laughed, and sat down beside his daughter.
"Your aunt is so smart, why did she fall in love with him?"
"I was also thinking about this question just now." Ning Youguang said slowly: "American psychologist Robert F. Bernstein and others believe that: 'No man is an island, living alone in the sea, everyone is a small piece of land. The mud connects into a whole piece of land. He proposed three relationship models: moderate dependence, excessive dependence, and obstacle alienation. There is a group of people who are in the psychological state of obstacle alienation, and they desire a satisfying intimate relationship... Long-term single and independent Many women, seemingly strong enough on the surface, have lost what is essential to building intimacy: a visceral sense of security."
This construction of psychological needs just matches her aunt's emotional value orientation.
Her great uncle, before marriage, pretended to be a good little milk dog, cared for her aunt in every possible way, and was full of emotional value, but after marriage, she was drinking, lazy, extravagant, and often spoke ill of her aunt.
The most speechless thing is that in the year when the aunt gave birth to her cousin, he even went to summon chickens.
I went there a few times and was quickly caught by my aunt.
The aunt immediately proposed a separation.
At that time, because the cousin was still young, the aunt did not want to divorce immediately.
At that time, she said to her family: "I don't need a husband, but I love my son very much. I hope to give him a complete family in the past few years."
However, the eldest uncle turned out to be more and more shameless later on, pretending to be the son-in-law of the Ning family to deceive others, and his private life was also in chaos.
With such a scumbag, he still had a whimsical idea of dividing up half of Auntie's entire property.
Many people asked him knowingly, "Why do you ask for half of your wife's property?"
This man is especially thick-skinned. No matter who he faces, he always speaks eloquently: "I have been married for so many years. As a member of the Ning family, I have made contributions to the family and the increase in the property of the Ning family. I have fought for everything. I deserve it all."
After listening to her daughter's analysis carefully, Xia Youqing suppressed her nausea and watched TV: "It's a nightmare for Ning Xian to meet such an ugly man."
"He won't be around for long." Ning Youguang said, "The last time I went home and saw my aunt, she said that this relationship should be settled."
After living apart for so many years, the divorce lawsuit has been going on for so long.
Ning Xian can be the president of Ning Corporation while fighting divorce lawsuits, so she is naturally not a vegetarian.
It's just that this love fairy tale that once broke the secular prejudice has finally been reduced to repeated tearing for money, and I have to say that it is very sad.
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This afternoon, Weibo.
[An ordinary person: Girls must identify a bad relationship as soon as possible. No matter how high the sunk cost is, or how many perverted false loves bind you, you must stop the loss in time and withdraw in order to truly protect yourself. ]
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