Chapter 1,070 Sister-in-Law

The second update arrives today.

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After being told what was on her mind by Chu Xia, Yu Tao smiled coquettishly: "Actually, I didn't hide it from you on purpose. In fact, they are indeed more enthusiastic towards me than before.

Especially grandma, who used to be such an arrogant person, now tries every means to please us, which makes me feel... really uncomfortable. "

"Sister-in-law, you have been married into this family for so many years, and you should have a rough idea of ​​the temperament of the elders. Sometimes, some things that we think are burdens are actually a way for them to relieve stress. There is no need to give them up yesterday. They are the same as before, a little closer, which is actually not a bad thing.

As long as this kind of closeness is not deliberately lowering your status to please us, I can accept it, sister-in-law..." After a pause, Chu Xia looked at her seriously, "You can consider my suggestion. "

"Okay." Yu Tao smiled and nodded, "I discovered that although I am so much older than you and I am your sister-in-law, when it comes to making decisions, I am really far behind you.

I feel uneasy at home these days. In fact, looking back, after I said it, their attitude towards me was not so deliberate.

However, I can't help but compare their current attitude towards me with the past, and then naturally I will think more about it, which will make me feel more uneasy.

Hey, when I heard you say this, I was really ashamed. Why didn't I think of this level? Or maybe grandma and mom just want their relationship with us to be like Ji Ping and Xiangping.

You can hug your neck and make love, or you can say anything. If you say the wrong thing, you don’t have to worry about the other party thinking too much, being sensitive, or being unhappy. In fact, this is the best relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, right? "

"Of course, I believe everyone hopes that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be like this, but under normal circumstances, it is really difficult to achieve this.

The elders in our family have always been very kind to us, and have never treated us as outsiders. They are even kinder and more tolerant than they are to their own children.

However, it is this kindness and tolerance that explains the difference between a daughter-in-law and a daughter. Sometimes, the more casual, the closer we are. I hope that one day our relationship with grandma and mother-in-law can really be like that of the second sister. Like Fourth Sister. "

"Yes, as long as we realize it, it will be possible..." As she said that, Yu Tao couldn't help but sigh, "Nan Ping is a completely different person now. It would be great if Aiping and Zhongkang could also figure it out. ”

"I really don't dare to say whether Zhou Aiping can figure it out, but Zhou Zhongkang probably won't figure it out for a while. He kept saying that he suffered a lot when he was fostered, but I feel that the family who adopted him back then It's too much for him.

Judging from his personality today, he clearly feels that others should treat him well. As long as what he gives is slightly less than what he wants, it means that others are wrong.

As for how he will repay you, is that the case? A selfish character who only knows how to take without knowing anything in return will never be formed by being overly harsh. "

"What you said is right. If he is overly harsh, he may feel unhappy. However, as long as his family sincerely cares about him and he can feel their care, he should change.

And now he is simply out of luck. In my opinion, if you put him in the position of third brother, he will be given whatever he wants, and the family will support him, then he will be truly worthy of him. "

"Yes, that's the feeling. Mei Xiaofeng will turn around and leave anyone who loves him so much. Just think about how much he has gone too far. From the perspective of the Zhou family, we really hope that he can have a happy life. In the future, from a rational perspective, I still think Mei Xiaofeng’s current approach is the most correct.

A person who is selfish to the core,

It is impossible to change easily and truly care about others. Maybe what I said is a bit absolute, but when he really wants to understand, he may spend his whole life in it.

It’s not worth spending the short decades of my life for such a person..." Speaking of this, Chu Xia couldn't help laughing and said, "Look, this is the difference between a daughter-in-law and a daughter. If the second sister and the The fourth sister must have known that Mei Xiaofeng was very disappointed after getting married. "

"Yes, so this kind of relationship is mutual. First, we must fully integrate into it, so that the other party can truly feel that sense of security. Brothers and sisters, let's remind each other and work together, okay?"

"Okay!" The two of them slapped each other hard and reached an agreement. Chu Xia changed the topic, "Have the affairs at home and sister-in-law been solved smoothly?"

"Well, of course they weren't willing to do it. They had no choice but to ask my dad to help me. Since my family had problems with their jobs, they were scared. After all, having a job is more secure than being homeless."

"Well, if they can force my sister-in-law to do this, they are really capable. Then Aunt Qian..."

"My mother is fine..." Yu Tao sighed and smiled bitterly, "It's impossible for you to make her happy, after all, it's the place where she has lived for half her life.

I originally planned to live there for the rest of my life. If it weren't for me, my mother would definitely be reluctant to leave. She is such a nostalgic person, so this also shows that my position in my mother's heart is really higher than I imagined. Still important.

I used to think that my mother was partial to my brother and that she favored boys over girls. In fact, the way she sometimes favored boys over girls was just to make it easier for me to live in that family.

I also had a deep talk with my mother when I came to the capital this time. She was actually still worried that her mother-in-law and the others would be unhappy. It was only after I persuaded her for a long time that she agreed to come to the capital with me.

Otherwise, my mother wants to rent a house by herself and live alone. You said she is so old, how can I let her rent a house by herself and live outside?

My mother gave up her life for me. If I let her live on the street again, it would be worse than a pig or a dog. Later, I said that if she moved out, I would go with her, so she refused. .

Therefore, it is still a long and arduous task for her to truly integrate into this big family. She seems to have a gentle personality, but in fact, she is stubborn! "

"It's all the same. Aren't my parents like that? If they didn't have only me as their daughter, and they were worried that I wouldn't do well in my husband's family, they wouldn't come over to stay with me.

Now, I finally truly believe it, and I will no longer have the thought of returning to my hometown and leaving myself here. The same goes for my grandma and grandpa. You see, their current state is different from before, right? "

"Yes, I used to feel uncomfortable when talking to your grandparents, but I don't feel comfortable anymore. We feel very comfortable when we communicate. I hope my mother can reach this state earlier, then I will really feel relieved. .

In fact, after this matter was resolved, Zhou Xikang just wanted me to stay in city A. I thought so at first, but after seeing my mother's appearance, I decided to come to the capital to live for a while.

People are really strange. Although they are boarding everywhere, my mother is obviously more relaxed here than in City A. Perhaps, in her heart, Uncle Baohe and Aunt Yulan are the ones she can truly trust. of. "

Chu Xia laughed: "We can't let grandma and mom hear this, they will be heartbroken to death."

Yu Tao looked at Chu Xia helplessly: "I'm not stupid, why would I tell them such a thing?"

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In the blink of an eye, more than three months have passed. Luo Xiaoqiong and Jun Doudou are both pregnant for nearly eight months, and they have nothing to do with each other in class.

As for whether they should give birth in the capital or in City A, several parents studied it, coupled with the statements of Mrs. Zhou and Lin Yanqiu, and finally obeyed the opinions of Luo Xiaoqiong and Jun Doudou and continued to stay in the capital to wait for the birth.

The main reason is that all their prenatal checkups in the past few months have been done in the capital, and there are top experts here. Relatively speaking, staying in the capital is much safer than going to city A, and the two of them have their hearts in mind. If you want to be with good friends, it is better to follow their wishes and make them feel better than to follow the arrangements in a depressed way. R1152