Chapter 1064 Change

After the Chu Xia group went to school the next day, Zhao Yulan told Mrs. Zhao what her daughter had said last night. While talking, she glanced at her little grandson distressedly, "Mom, don't you think Beibei's eyes are a bit... swell?"

Mrs. Zhao looked at her little great-grandson for a while, and shook her head in a funny way: "You are really capable of making trouble. For such a young child, if you just cry for a while, how can your eyes be swollen?"

"Hey..." Zhao Yulan sighed, "I didn't even sleep last night. My ears were filled with Beibei's crying. If I hadn't promised Xia Buluan to mix in, I would have hugged Beibei to myself. Let’s go and watch.”

"Yu Lan, I really want to talk to you about this..." Mrs. Zhao looked at her daughter seriously, "If you think about what Xia has done in the past two years, is there anything unreliable?"

Without thinking, Zhao Yulan quickly replied: "That's not true."

"Isn't that enough? The child has grown up and knows more than us, so just follow her. Moreover, she is the child's biological mother. Do you think she can not feel sorry for the child?

The older generation has said that if the mother controls the child, the child will be upright. We are afraid that the child will suffer a little injustice, but we must also admit that children who control them strictly are promising.

Of course, our Xia is an exception, but we can't let Nan Nan and Bei Bei go just because Xia is an exception. Now it seems that Nan Nan is more sensible than Bei Bei, but we can't let Bei Bei make trouble just because he is sensible. temper.

Beibei always has to compete with Nannan for favor. If you don't care now, when he is older, it will become a matter of course. Nannan was only born a few minutes earlier than Beibei. If you let him give in to Beibei for the rest of his life, what's the matter? Do you think it’s appropriate to let Beibei take the lead?

Moreover, do you think Nannan will willingly let Beibei live his whole life? No matter which one you are, no matter how good your temper is, you cannot spend your whole life giving without expecting anything in return.

Even if it’s mother and son, are you really just giving? When you love her and raise her, don't you also hope that she will be able to make a difference when she grows up, know that she cares about you, and treat you well when you are old? This is not a pleasant thing to say, but is it just that?

The children are still young now, but we as elders must think about these things first to avoid a bad relationship between the brothers in the future. Just look at your eldest brother and your second brother, for example.

When you were a child, your eldest brother would let your second brother do everything. He would never compete with your second brother for delicious food and fun. Over time, your second brother got used to being taken care of by your eldest brother. Occasionally, he felt that your eldest brother was inferior to him. He takes advantage of others and is always full of opinions. He is boring and won't say anything. He just likes to show off his face.

It was your father who first noticed this sign in him and talked with him for a long time, saying that your eldest brother didn't owe him anything, so he couldn't let him do everything. If he only knew how to get a little bit from your eldest brother, If you don't pay, one day your eldest brother will stop caring about him at all.

At that time, your second brother was seventeen, and he was not at the age to fully listen to advice. He said yes, but in his heart he did not take your father's words seriously. It was not until later that he followed your eldest brother to become a husband and saw too many other people's brothers. The relationship between them has changed a bit.

However, his temper is already like that. Even if he knows the truth, it is impossible to treat your eldest brother the way your eldest brother treats him, especially your second sister-in-law, who is also a talkative. If your eldest brother is not as knowledgeable as them, I guess brother The two of them stopped interacting with each other a long time ago. "

Zhao Yulan nodded: "Yes, compared with the eldest brother, the second brother's character is indeed unlikable, otherwise I wouldn't have been unable to get close to him."

"Mom and your father don't want your brother-sister relationship to be bad, and they never criticize your second brother in front of you. Now that you have reached this age, there is nothing to be taboo about."

"I used to be really unhappy that my mother and father always talked to my second brother, especially my second sister-in-law, who was so unreasonable. My father and mother still let her go, so I was very angry.

I remember one time I had a fight with my mother over this matter, and I hugged Chu Xia back home angrily.

She also swore never to return to her parents’ home, but as a result, her father and mother walked to Dalin Village in the middle of the night and brought us half a bag of noodles..." At this point, Zhao Yulan choked up and couldn't continue, and suddenly Realizing that she used to be so ignorant...

"Yes, mother and father feel bad when they see you carrying Chu Xia away, but if we force you to stay, your second sister-in-law will really be able to pack her things and go back to her parents' home.

The problem is, if she really leaves, your second brother will still have to invite her, and he will have to bring her things there..." After a pause, Mrs. Zhao smiled and shook her head, "Your father and I finally gave it to you. How could you let your second brother send you the food you saved?

We have no choice but to let you go back, and then bring the food we saved for you in the middle of the night..." Sighing, Mrs. Zhao smiled bitterly, "Things were really hard back then. I'll meet your father. I worry about your future, but I didn’t expect that you would have the life you have today..."

"Xia, what's wrong?" Zhao Yulan panicked when she turned around and saw her daughter with tears streaming down her face. She hurriedly stepped forward and held her daughter's hand, "What happened?"

"Is it Xiaomi's side?" Mrs. Zhao also looked worried. Her granddaughter came back at this time and was crying like this, which made her think more.

"No, Zhou Mikang is fine over there, and nothing happened. I was just so touched when I heard what grandma and mother said." Chu Xia sniffed, looking embarrassed.

These things, really speaking, did not have much to do with her, because she was not her in early summer at that time. However, such feelings were so precious in the northern countryside where patriarchal preference was prevalent!

Her tears were filled with emotion, joy, and longing.

Yes, even if I stay here for a few years and have truly integrated into this era and the family here, the deepest part of my heart is still engraved with longing that I will never forget.

Even though she knew that her biological parents and grandparents were living well, she still couldn't help but care about them. I wonder if Chu Xia, who had been reborn over there, was also concerned about the elders here like her?

Zhao Yulan and Mrs. Zhao didn't know the complicated thoughts in her heart, so they both breathed a sigh of relief. Then, Mrs. Zhao looked at her funny: "You kid, what's so touching? I'm going to fight with your grandpa." Isn’t the same reason your mother is good to you as your mother is good to you?”

"So I am very, very lucky to be born in such a family..." Chu Xia stepped forward and hugged Mrs. Zhao, gave her a loud "bang" on her forehead, then hugged Zhao Yulan and gave her a sip, and then rushed proudly. Beibei, who was staring at her with big wet eyes, smiled and said, "You little bastard, I won't kiss you!" As he spoke, he reached out and kissed Nannan on the forehead...

"Ouch...ouch, ouch, ouch..." In an instant, Beibei's protest sounded...

Looking at her howling and out of breath little grandson, Zhao Yulan was so angry that she slapped her daughter: "He is only a few months old, why do you bully him like this? You did this on purpose. How could you be so serious?" Mother?"

"Look at Nannan..." Mrs. Zhao looked surprised as she turned over with difficulty, stretched out her little hand to pat the little guy Beibei who was crying so hard, "Isn't this too sensible?"

Zhao Yulan and Chu Xia were shocked when they saw this situation. This behavior was too beyond their understanding! After all, the child is only about half a year old...

What's even more amazing is that when Nannan's little hand touched Beibei, the little guy who was howling with great energy immediately stopped crying, grinned and started dancing...

Zhao Yulan couldn't help but said: "I think our worries are unnecessary."

"It looks like it to me." Mrs. Zhao looked at Chu Xia, "There's no need to deliberately do anything to make Beibei change. Under normal circumstances, don't be too biased towards him. As for the way Nannan gets along with him, it's up to you. It’s up to them, twins are still different from other children.”

"This..." Chu Xia looked hesitant. To be honest, she quite liked the brothers' pattern. However, she was really worried that the two little guys would act like their elder uncle and second uncle.

Looking at her granddaughter's expression, Mrs. Zhao made a guess: "Did you listen to what I said to your mother?"

"Yeah." Chu Xia nodded, with an embarrassed look on her face, "When I came back, I saw what grandma and mother were talking about, so I didn't bother them. Mainly because I also wanted to hear grandma and mother's views."

"Don't take grandma's words to heart. Your uncle and uncle's situation is different. Moreover, your second uncle has a dull personality. Look at Beibei, how lively he is?" Old Mrs. Zhao said as she reached out to poke the little guy. Originally, The happy little guy with a toothless grin was even more excited...

Or, have you overcorrected? Chu Xia leaned over and looked at the two little guys, and tapped her fingers on the door of the two little guys respectively. Then they both waved their paws, making gestures to let her hug them, but the difference was that they stretched out south and south for a while, Turning around to glance at his brother, he took the initiative to change the gesture of asking for a hug to dancing...

"Little thing, you are too sensible..." Chu Xia unconsciously picked up the obedient eldest son and kissed him on the forehead, then put him down and picked up his little son who was looking at him, "Little bad guy, It's only a few minutes away, and you always ask your brother to give in to you? Forget it, since your brother doesn't care, my mother won't care about you anymore."

"Xia, do you have something to do when you come back at this time?" Zhao Yulan glanced at the time and reminded, "If you have something to do, you should get busy first. Your grandma and I are the children."

"I came back to get my notes. I was in a hurry this morning and forgot..." Chu Xia said as she put down her smiling little son, walked to the bedside and opened the drawer to take out the notes. After taking two steps, she paused and turned around to ask. He said, "By the way, Mom, why didn't you see Fat Aunt?"

Zhao Yulan smiled and waved her hand: "Go back to class first. I will talk to you about this when you come back." R1152