Chapter 1065 Marriage

"How can I go to class with peace of mind when you look like this..." Chu Xia turned around and looked at Zhao Yulan, "Mom, what on earth did Fat Aunt do?"

"You..." Zhao Yulan looked at her daughter helplessly, "Why are you so worried?"

"Hehe..." Chu Xia smiled flatteringly, "You know I have a lot of things on my mind, so just tell me about it."

"Your fat aunt has gone to Wan's home..." Zhao Yulan couldn't help shaking her head in amusement as she said, "She has always been enthusiastic and is helping Qian Yanxiang visit her husband's family."

"What do you mean?" Chu Xia looked at her mother in confusion, "Fat Aunt has only been here for a few days, and Aunt Wan is already so good?"

"Your Aunt Wan and she are very good at talking. Qian Yan has a boyfriend. Your Aunt Wan doesn't agree, but Qian Yan insists on being with a boy. Today the boy's parents are coming over. Cha Xiang is afraid that they will make trouble, I went over to help calm the atmosphere. Of course, although your fat aunt is enthusiastic, she is not a nosy person. She came over because Qian Yan came to beg her yesterday."

"It seems that Fat Aunt and Aunt Wan have a really good relationship, otherwise Qian Yan wouldn't ask her for help. Aunt Wan is also stubborn, and most people can't persuade her. By the way, why doesn't Aunt Wan agree? "I had never heard of this in early summer, so I glanced at the time and saw that it was already past the time for class, so I just sat there calmly and listened to the gossip.

"We only met once, but the relationship between your fat aunt and your Aunt Wan is closer than the relationship between me and your Aunt Wan..." Zhao Yulan smiled and shook her head, "Your mother will never have this ability in her life."

Chu Xia looked at her mother funny: "Mom, are you jealous?"

"Of course not. Mom is just a little dissatisfied with my character. I'm just stupid and embarrassed to say nice things..." Zhao Yulan sighed tangledly, "I've known my faults all my life, but I just can't change them. "

"This is not a problem. Everyone's personality is different. Fat Aunt has a fiery, talkative and noisy personality. If my mother had the same personality, her relationship with Fat Aunt would not be so close.

Aunt Wan's personality is actually a bit similar to my mother's, so she and Fat Aunt get along very well. This is what is called complementary personality. Husband and wife should have complementary personalities, and friends should also have complementary personalities.

Also, there are many children in the family. Although they are all close to each other, they must be closest to the children with complementary personalities..." Chu Xia said while looking at Mrs. Zhao, "Grandma, you agree with me, right? ? "

"That's the truth..." Mrs. Zhao nodded in agreement, "Your mother has five siblings, and I am the closest to your uncle and your mother. To be honest, I am closer to your mother.

Well, not only character, but also character. Your uncle has a good character, but after all, your uncle is a man and has a rough heart. Your mother should be careful, otherwise, she will think about me and your grandpa in everything. .

Otherwise, if your mother later marries your father, your grandfather and I will not be able to support her so much, let alone be so angry. At that time, we would just feel sorry for her and suffer along with her.

Parents are all like this. At the time, they felt that what they did was definitely right, but looking back afterwards, it was really not necessarily the case. "

Indeed, compared to my eldest aunt and my second aunt, my mother's marriage is really the happiest. My father is absolutely obedient to my mother, whether it was before or now.

The second uncle is kind to the second aunt, but the second aunt has no say at all in the family. As for the aunt and uncle, it is a typical rural marriage. The two of them are together just to live together, and they have little relationship with each other. Big relationship.

Of course, there is also a big external reason for this, that is, her appearance has changed the fate of my father and mother. If it was the original early summer, there is no telling what kind of life my father and mother will be living now.

However, since fate is like this, it means that God has already arranged such an outcome. Overall, my mother and father are the happiest!

"Does what grandma just said mean that Aunt Wan's current objection is the same as grandma's objection to my mother marrying my father?" Chu Xia switched the topic back to the gossip channel.

"Absolutely. That boy is Qian Yan's new colleague. He is an ordinary worker's family. A family of three generations and six people live in two houses with a total of 30 square meters.

What your Aunt Wan means is that if Qian Yan marries into a family like that, regardless of whether the relationship between the couple is good or not, the trouble in the future will be enough to kill someone.

I heard that the boy's relatives are quite poor, and there is an aunt who is particularly difficult to deal with. The grandparents are okay, but the boy's sister has a bad personality.

Your Aunt Wan is just worried that if Qian Yan gets married, there will be endless wars if the whole family lives together. Unexpectedly, Qian Yan doesn't listen at all and thinks that the boy named Ji Gang is not good. .

In fact, my grandma, my fat aunt, and I have met that boy before. In terms of talent and courtesy, he is quite good. He seems to be honest at first glance, and he is extremely kind to Qian Yan.

But..." After a pause, Zhao Yulan shook her head, "Although Mom didn't regret being with your father at all, but now seeing Qian Yan find someone like this, she feels it's inappropriate.

How should I put it..." After thinking about it, she continued, "My mother's feeling is that the boy always seems to be shorter when he is with Qian Yan. No matter how poor he is, as long as he is shorter in his heart, he will be really happy in the future. It's not easy. "

"Mother means that the reason why the man named Ji Gang is good to Qian Yan is because of Grandpa Wan's background?"

"Ji Gang doesn't know your Grandpa Wan's background, but when I go to Wan's house and look at the house where I live, aren't there a big difference between the two families?" Shaking her head, Zhao Yulan looked at Mrs. Zhao, "Mom, what do you think? ?”

"He feels a bit shorter than Qian Yan. This is also the reason why Brother Wan looks down on him. He feels that the young man lacks a bit of backbone. However, Qian Yan thinks that it is because he likes her that he treats her like that." It's never like that in front of others. From my perspective as an old woman, maybe what Qian Yan said makes sense.

As soon as the boy comes, you will definitely be able to see the gap between the two families, and you will also be able to see that the elders of the Qian family do not like him. So, how do you make him toughen up?

When a daughter-in-law is not married, does she have to be half a head shorter? Think about it, when Bao He first came to our house, didn't he have to bow his head to please me and your father? "

"Mom..." Zhao Yulan looked at her mother speechlessly, "In front of the child, please save some face for Bao He."

"Mom, you are overthinking. No matter what Dad has done before, Dad is the greatest in my heart. Only when a man truly likes a woman will he be willing to humble himself for her.

You see, some men, for the sake of their so-called integrity, lose their temper, break up with each other, or swear not to come to her until they get along well. In fact, these are the real cowards.

If you have confidence, do you need to look like this? So Mom, I agree with grandma, or maybe you have all misunderstood Ji Gang. By the way, what does Fat Aunt think of him? "

With a slight cough, Chu Xia shook her head, "Fat Aunt is here to persuade others, but don't add fuel to the fire just because you don't like it..."

When her daughter said this, Zhao Yulan was really unsure and hesitated for a long time without answering.

Chu Xia understood immediately: "Fat Aunt really doesn't like him?"

"Well, your fat aunt has the same view as me. She thinks it's not a good thing for a man to put himself so low. However, she is a well-educated person and shouldn't get involved."

"Don't mind other people's business, feed your son quickly!" Old Mrs. Zhao slapped her granddaughter, "You are a mother, you are not qualified at all. Didn't you see the two little guys sucking their fingers here? "

"It's time to eat..." Chu Xia smiled and quickly picked up Bei Bei, who was looking at Baba. After feeding him, he turned to Nan Nan. Zhao Yulan and Mrs. Zhao looked at each other and started laughing...

Chu Xia took in the expressions of the two elders, and was secretly amused in her heart. It seemed that this intergenerational relationship was really fatal. I dared her to deliberately neglect her younger son before, and the two elders almost felt distressed to death!

…

Fat Aunt stayed at Wan's house for lunch. Chu Xia and Luo Xiaoqiong discussed it and went to Wan's house together. As for Jun Doudou and Jun Guoguo, they consciously went back to their rooms to rest.

"Chu Xia, Xiaoqiong, come in quickly..." As soon as the two of them arrived at the door, Qian Yan greeted them. She said come in quickly, but her actions blocked their progress.

"You have something to say?" Chu Xia looked at her with a smile, "You are very good at keeping secrets. You have already reached the point of meeting your parents. We just found out, haha..."

"Please, please..." Qian Yan quickly raised her hand, "There's nothing we can do about it. My mother has always disagreed, and I'm not sure whether we can make it work, so I don't have the nerve to tell you.

Besides, you are all very busy right now, and I really don’t want to bother you with this kind of thing, but since you are here today, you really have to help me, please, please..."

"What do you mean, Aunt Wan is still firmly opposed?" Chu Xia asked.

"Hey..." Qian Yan sighed, "It would be better if she just said her objection. Ever since I came here, she has been too polite to die. Fat Aunt tried to persuade her, but she is still like that. I really can't Withdrawn.

It's okay for Ji Gang to have gotten used to my mother's attitude, but after all, it was the first time for his parents to come here, so they already felt uneasy. If my mother continued to behave like this, the couple could hardly sit still. "

Luo Xiaoqiong couldn't help but curled her lips: "You can't sit still anymore and you haven't left yet?"

There was a faint smile in Chu Xia's eyes. Why would someone be so careful when speaking? A middle-aged woman came out of the house, her expression stagnant in Chu Xia... R1152