111, Chapter 111

After hearing this, Yang Haiyan agreed: "Madam, women can manage marriages, but they can only deal with concubines and mistresses. If a marriage can only last long if women control men, then such a marriage is happy."

Madam Lian, who is deeply influenced by ancient thoughts, naturally understands what Yang Haiyan means: "Manage marriages? The mistresses deal with concubines and mistresses? Madam, what are you talking about?"

Yang Haiyan smiled and said: "Managing marriages means that after getting married, two people living together need to tolerate, care for, and understand each other. If a woman loves this man, she will think about him. Take me and the general for example. I will ask Doctor Wang to prepare a medicinal bath for the general because I care about him and I hope he can be healthy and stay with me all the time. I will bring Si Ya and Shou Cheng here because I know he cares about his family and I have extra time, so I am willing to do it when he is busy. Help him educate his younger siblings.

This is my contribution, and this is my management.

But after my contribution, after my hard work, if this man's return is to take my things for granted, then I will be more attentive. Of course, I am willing to be attentive because you are worth it. He is a man who is difficult to respect women. He is like an ordinary man, with a blind self-esteem. He is like an ordinary man, thinking that women should listen to men.

When he meets someone who understands, he will ask me, knowing what I like and what I want, and he will help me within his ability. Although what he has is precious, It is nothing rare. But in my heart, a man who can give you what he can afford is the most precious. It is more precious than a rich man who buys my things with hundreds or even thousands of taels of silver.

So marriage requires two people to take care of each other, and it is not one-sided.

This is management.

Similarly, if one day he has a concubine or a mistress, as long as it happens once, then our marriage will come to an end. I care about my man, who has had other women before me, because at that time, I had not yet had a wife. Now, I can be angry with him for his past and care about his past. But when we started, if he had another woman, it would be a betrayal to me. I will take away everything I have paid for, and after that, he will be a stranger to me.

Even if he dies in front of me, I will not shed a tear.

What about disciplining concubines and mistresses? That is even more ridiculous. This is a man's woman, do I still need to take care of her? Can I break up with him and find a younger one? Why spend time disciplining his woman? "

These words of Yang Haiyan were earth-shattering to Nanny Lian. She had never heard such words before. When women were in the boudoir, they were taught the three virtues and four virtues. When they got married, they were taught to respect their husbands. Even if a woman was noble, she would respect her husband as the sky. But today, my wife said that if a man has a concubine and a mistress, it is better for them to separate and the woman can find a younger one.

It sounds like these words subvert the concept that Madam Lian has always had, but think about it carefully...

Seeing Madam Lian's face in deep thought, Yang Haiyan couldn't help but say with amusement: "Madam, think about it, there are many good men in this world, but the best and the best figure, as long as you are a woman with money, even if you are in your forties or fifties, you can find such a man, what do you think?"

Madam Lian hurriedly said: "Oh, my wife, you must tell the general about this, if the general knows..."

Yang Haiyan said: "Even in front of him, I dare to say it. If he treats me well and dares to find a younger man, do I still worry about finding a better man than him?"

Madam Lian: "Pooh, pooh, pooh, madam is really bold." But think about it carefully, it makes sense. If a woman has the ability, why should she be bullied by a man? Finding a young, well-dressed, and well-built man, isn't that a good idea? Nanny Lian thought it was okay, and her thoughts were driven by her wife.

Yang Haiyan looked at her nervous look and laughed so hard that her stomach hurt: "Don't worry, Nanny, I'm just talking. If your general treats me well, I will be satisfied with him. I have time to like such a good man."

The two chatted in the house, and Qin Fang was stunned when he heard it.

Even if he had never thought about finding a concubine or a wife, he was scared to death when he heard what his wife said. He was not scared by her shocking remarks, but worried that she might find a young and well-built man at any time.

Qin Fang felt pain just thinking about it. If one day, they were separated, she would have a man who would replace him, live with her, and do the intimate things they had done. Thinking of this, Qin Fang felt sour. He wanted to catch that man and beat him up.

Okay, he can give Yanyan such an opportunity. Yes, just thinking about it can make Yanyan think like this. So, he thought about it, has he been approached by other women along the way? Qin Fang's memory was wrong. He felt that he kept a fairly safe distance from other women. On that occasion, few of the women he brought to Yunxiang County to settle down wanted to When you get close to him, he avoids you and keeps your distance.

Thinking about it now, he was so scared that he broke into a cold sweat. Fortunately, he didn't let the woman get close at that time, but he would suffer today. If you suffer and others suffer, of course it is others who suffer. Thinking of this, Qin Fang immediately had an idea. When placing the women in the bandits' nest, he placed them in the village farthest from the county seat to prevent them from coming to him.

Qin Fang felt guilty about this idea. He also owed them, and by rescuing them and bringing them here, he had done his utmost benevolence. Anyone who wants to ruin his reputation or ruin his marriage will take his life. He would take the life of anyone who wanted his life. It was fair.

Yang Haiyan knew that Qin Fang was on his way back, treating women like tigers.

Qin Fang turned around and left to avoid letting his wife know that she heard these words.

The dishes in the hall have been placed, and when Yang Haiyan and Aunt Lian passed by, Qin Fang was already sitting with his hands in his hands. Seeing Yang Haiyan come in, he quickly stood up: "Yanyan, are you tired? I'll help you." He was as attentive as a little Qinzi.

Yang Haiyan is such a greasy person, the kind of person who does what you do to me, I'm so tired, you give me a hug or something. She glanced at Qin Fang and said, "I'm tired. You, on the other hand, have been on tenterhooks for months. Now that the barbarians have finally arrived in Yunxiang County, you can have a good rest. Please eat well."

Yang Haiyan really cared about him, but to Qin Fang's ears, it seemed like it was a reminder of what happened on the road. So he was even more attentive: "I'm tired. You've been through the border all the way to here, and you're even more tired. Come on, Yanyan, I'll serve you the soup."

Yang Haiyan sat down and saw him starting to serve the soup. She asked Qin Fang to take a piece of meat and said, "Ms., eat some meat. The chickens we bought here are very tender. The tender chicken is braised in brown sauce. The other ones are delicious. You Eat and see.”

Qin Fang put down the soup bowl and ate the chicken that Yang Haiyan served: "It's so delicious, Yanyan, the chicken you served is so delicious." Sweet words follow when a man is highly nervous, calm, or even guilty. Like asking for money. Although Qin Fang felt that he had not done anything wrong, he was the message.

Yang Haiyan thought Qin Fang had mastered new skills and learned sweet words, and was very satisfied. Some words may seem too sweet and cloying to others. But as a client, she was happy to be treated like this by her husband. How can one feel tired between lovers?

After eating, the couple walked for half an hour to eat, and then Yang Haiyan went to take a bath, and then went to bed. When Qin Fang returned to the house after bathing for the second time, he saw his wife sitting on the bedside reading a book. He took off his inner clothes and walked around in front of Yang Haiyan. After walking back and forth twice, and seeing that Yang Haiyan didn't respond, Qin Fang hummed: "Yanyan..."

Yang Haiyan raised her head and said, "What's wrong?" Seeing that his upper body was naked and his black trousers were straddling his waist, she said that this man's figure was like a model, which was indeed good. There is a trace of fat on the body, especially now, the way she plays with her figure is a bit coquettish.

Qin Fang looked at her sparkling eyes and felt that his plan was indeed right. Yanyan liked his body. In Qin Fang's eyes, liking his figure is the same as liking his body.

Qin Fang was very satisfied with Yang Haiyan's performance, but he hid his feelings and deliberately asked with a silly and honest look: "Yanyan, compared to when I was at the border, I am "It's because I'm thin, you see, the flesh here is very small." As he said this, he pinched his abdominal muscles.

Yang Haiyan looked at it carefully and replied seriously: "No, the muscles will be smaller, but your face will be much thinner." If the muscles are so easy to lose weight, there are also slim legs in modern society. Needle? You know, many modern women like to wear heels, which is how the chicken on the calves comes from. Even if you wear high heels, there are many people with well-developed calf muscles. They all suffer from the loss of calf muscles.

If, like Qin Fang, he could reduce his muscles after a month of hard work, there would probably be no business for leg slimming injections, and women would laugh like crazy.

Qin Fang felt a little bitter when he heard Yang Haiyan's serious evaluation. He wanted her to really comment on the muscles, and he wanted her to look at them.

‌But his wife said so, what else can he do?

"Really? That was my illusion. When I put on my clothes, I felt looser than before, and I thought I was thinner." Qin Fang struggled to find a reason, but casually added Asked, "Would it be better for my face to be as thin as it is now? Or is it better than before?"

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