143, Chapter 143 (1/2)
Third Aunt Qin, Third Uncle Qin has found a wife for himself. Third Uncle Qin can say that he is a late son. Grandpa Qin and grandma also love him very much. They all say that the emperor loves the eldest son, and the people love their young children. This is This sentence does make sense. At least in Grandpa Qin's house, Grandpa Qin and his grandmother seemed to have a fair bowl of water, but they secretly loved Uncle Qin a lot.
Therefore, Uncle Qin was left to find a wife on his own. The third aunt Qin that my third uncle found is good-looking, but not hard-working and very selfish. Her selfishness is different from Aunt Qin's selfishness. Aunt Qin will express her selfish thoughts, but she will not force them. If others are different, she will forget it.
And Aunt Qin San will take action.
Aunt Qin San said with a smile: "Sister, look, our Tadpole is ten years old this year, and she matches Si Ya very well. Why don't we just settle their marriage. This daughter will marry back to her natal family, and her aunt will be her mother-in-law. , Grandma, grandma, what else do you have to worry about? "
Tadpole'er is Qin's mother's nephew and Qin's third uncle's son. He is usually very pampered by his family. Grandma Qin Fang loves the whole house because she loves her son's grandson. As for the boy's character, he is very arrogant.
Theoretically speaking, Qin's mother didn't feel it was necessary to subsidize and take care of her natal family when her family became prosperous. However, Mother Qin would not agree with third uncle Qin's family. What's more, under the upbringing of their eldest daughter-in-law, the fourth daughter-in-law now not only knows a lot of words, but also understands the principles. Even the eldest daughter-in-law is pretty good at talking about female celebrities. During the Chinese New Year last year, Si Ya also brought back letters, money and gifts along with the things brought back by her eldest daughter-in-law. Although the money was very small, only a hundred coins and a well-made satchel, this was the first time that her daughter gave her something. Mother Qin liked it and was very moved.
Mother Qin was very familiar with this satchel. When the eldest daughter-in-law came back with her eldest son, she would carry this satchel on her back. It was very convenient for a woman to carry it when she went to town or county town. However, the shoulder bag of the eldest daughter-in-law is more exquisite. She is an old woman, and the color is naturally darker.
Such a kind and sensible daughter, marrying such a useless nephew? This sister-in-law is dreaming. Although it is very unkind to say this to his biological nephew, the old man said that it is not unreasonable to look old at the age of three. Looking at her nephew, he didn't look like a promising person.
For this reason, Qin's mother mentioned it to her mother more than once, but Grandma Qin responded well in person, turned around and continued to pamper her. In this case, Mother Qin said no more.
Qin's mother decisively refused: "This matter can't be done. Si Ya is still young, so we won't talk about her marriage for the time being."
Aunt Qin San didn't understand Qin's mother's thoughts. She clearly looked down on her natal family when her own family became prosperous. She pretended not to understand and said: "The cousins have been in love since childhood, and now that they have decided to get married, it doesn't matter if they get married later. Tadpole also said that he likes Si Ya for the rest of his life. I have to marry Si Ya.”
Qin's mother smiled politely: "This marriage is a matter of wishful thinking, and Tadpole only likes it unilaterally. Besides, Tadpole is only 2 years old? What does liking mean at such a young age? "
Third Aunt Qin refused to let Mother Qin refuse, and pressed: "What is this? Let Tadpole and Si Ya get along with each other more, just because Si Ya doesn't like her now and can't get over the relationship?"
Qin’s mother: “They are so far apart, how can they get along?”
Coming to the point, what Aunt Qin San was waiting for was this sentence: "Just let Tadpole go to Yunxiang County. We have never seen this General's Mansion. Let Tadpole go and see it." Maybe he will be as successful as his elder cousin in the future. The eldest sister always hopes that her nephew will be successful, and her family will be successful, right? If the eldest sister is prosperous and her brother is successful, she will look down on us. The common people’s natal family and nephew?”
How could Mother Qin not know that she was waiting for this level? She smiled: "Third younger sister, I'm talking about you. You can say whatever you want. Let's not talk about Si Ya's marriage for the time being. She still has three sisters and three brothers. Don't worry. If the tadpole I welcome my son to stay with our Qin family for a few days, but it is impossible for us to go to Yunxiang County and stay at A Fang's house. Take my natal relatives over and let A Fang and his wife, my cousin, raise my cousin?”
Aunt Qin San knew that this eldest sister-in-law was always very smart, so she had no choice but to say, "This matter is what my father and mother are thinking about." She didn't believe it when she mentioned her parents-in-law. Can you agree?
Any woman with some brains will focus more on her family after getting married. Aunt Qin is like this, and Mother Qin is naturally like this. Aunt Qin San used her biological father and mother to suppress her, but her father-in-law and mother-in-law were also above her. The owner of our big house was made by my father-in-law and mother-in-law.”
Aunt Qin San: "You... eldest sister, do you want my mother to tell you this?" Speaking of which, she didn't like Qin Siya before, she was thin and not a bit tall. They don't even look at it. Just last year, Qin Fang and his wife returned to their hometown. Although she thought Qin Fang and his wife looked respectable, she didn't know that Qin Fang had been promoted, so she never thought about getting engaged to Qin Siya. She knew that now, Knowing that Qin Fang was the general, she had this idea.
Qin's mother was unmoved.
Seeing her like this, Third Aunt Qin went to find Grandma Qin angrily. Aunt Qin San is not afraid of Mother Qin at all. Although the Qin family is prosperous and they want to compliment Mother Qin, Mother Qin is also a daughter and is usually very filial to Grandma Qin, so Qin San My aunt is not afraid. The big deal is grandma Qin's responsibility. Moreover, if we don’t get some benefits from Qin’s mother while Grandma Qin is still alive, who knows if there will be any benefits after Grandma Qin passes away?
At this point, Third Aunt Qin is not as smart as Aunt Qin . Aunt Qin will not think like this. When Aunt Qin thinks, even if Qin Fang’s biological brother is not as good as Qin Fang’s direct brother, it is still Cousin, even if Qin Fang is not as good at Niu Dan as Qin Shouye and Qin Shoucheng, he will not leave Niu Dan alone. Good things will definitely take care of Niu Dan, so she will not. It’s his mother’s fault.
Qin's mother watched Aunt Qin San leave angrily, but she didn't take it seriously. She was not a fool. For the sake of the eldest son's future, her father-in-law forced the first and third bedrooms to write divorce letters in advance. She treated her as a human being. My dear mother, I will never cause trouble to my eldest son. According to the characters of her three younger brothers and sisters, if she marries the Qin family, the eldest son will definitely be in trouble.
What's more difficult is that if the wives Shoucheng and Shouye later marry are uneasy, she will follow the example of her father-in-law and ask Shoucheng and Shouye to write a divorce letter after they get married. Anyway, her two sons have not committed any crime, so they are all the same in her heart. When she returns a hundred years later, she will subsidize her first and third sons with the salary she receives every month. The eldest son is expected to I won't care about this money. But if her son and third son committed a crime, she couldn't let them implicate the eldest son.
Qin's mother thought about it in her heart, and then went to find Grandma Qin and Grandpa Qin. Grandma Qin and Grandpa Qin are discussing the next things for the Qin family. Their fields have been sorted out today. The fields at home have been planted because of the spring crops, so they will let them wait for the harvest. The couple found someone to take it over.
As for my family’s ten acres of high-quality land, I have already bought three acres today. I still have 10 acres left to ask the village chief to help keep. The money will be handed over to the village chief when the time comes. Why don’t you have money? Grandma Qin is afraid that Aunt Qin will take it out and use it. The money used by the eldest grandson to buy a house and land can only be used to buy land. If it is used in other places, it will not be visible to others. If it is used to buy land, it will only be visible to others. Can speak Changsun novels.
Grandma Qin and Grandpa Qin know very well that for an official like Zhangsun, people's opinions are very important. Even if the eldest grandson sincerely subsidizes the and third-bedroom and does not do for others to see, but since he has subsidized and paid for it, it does for others to see.
If no one sees a person's contribution, what's the point?
This old man has lived a good life. He neither wants to treat his first or third wife badly, nor does he want his grandson to suffer. Qin Fang also knows the temperament of his grandparents, so he is the one who calls the shots on this matter. Seeing that Qin Fang usually doesn't care about the affairs of the family, he doesn't seem to be a talkative person, but there are a lot of things. He was very clear about every matter. Just like he knew that when they were at the border, Yang Haiyan didn't treat him because she liked him.
But , what is the relationship? They spent a lifetime, and she didn't hate him, she was willing to get along with him, she cared about him, was considerate of him, and even liked his body, that was enough.
Grandma Qin thought about it and said: "Old man, do you think you want us to handle this salary of more than four taels per month in the future?"
Grandpa Qin tapped his fingers on the table, which was what he did when he was meditating. When his fingers stopped tapping, it meant that he had figured it out. "How many private rooms do you have here?"
Grandma Qin rolled her eyes at him: "Where can I pay back the money? When the family was separated, in March last year, all the money from the father-in-law was divided, and our family was left with a little money. Later, we lived with the eldest brother, and I didn’t have to spend any money. The eldest daughter-in-law gave me 50 yuan a month for my private house.
As I told you, I don't want it, but the eldest daughter-in-law said that every year, I give them enough filial piety money, and they also said that they should be filial to our elders, so I accepted it, thinking that when the child wants it later, we can take it out. Now the total amount of money I have on hand is about . But if this money is small, it is of great use, but if it is large, what can it be used for? "
Grandpa Qin said: "In that case, the money we have on hand and your future salary will not be divided between the three houses, but the children. Now that Daya and A Fang are married, A Fang can have some food. If it’s a loss, we won’t subsidize it. Da Ya will subsidize one acre of top-grade land and mu of medium-grade land.” That adds up to 10 . "Next time it's Shouye and Ya's turn to get married, we'll subsidize them like this. Anyway, it's still early for them to get married, so we can save our money slowly."
Grandma Qin smiled: "Old man, you are so considerate. Hey, it would be nice if the third child had a son." Their family is harmonious and well-dressed, but the third child does not have a son. Three hearts are bitter.
Grandpa Qin looked at the door: "You can't say this in front of the third child. The third child finally thought about it. Moreover, when Sanya recruits a son-in-law, the children she gives birth to will also be the grandchildren of the third child. Ah Fang In the future, my third son will take care of him in his old age. My son has not yet seen his biological parents take care of him in his old age. In this case, he is not as good as a nephew. "
Grandma Qin said: "I know, how could I say it in front of the third child?"
At the door, Uncle Qin stood there. Although Grandma Qin and Grandpa Qin's voices were very soft, he still saw them. Third Uncle Qin sighed. Regarding the matter of his son, he actually didn't think that far. The eldest brother and the younger brother both have sons, but he doesn't have one. He doesn't have enough confidence in his heart. But there was nothing he could do about it, so he had no choice but not to think about it. Now that A Fang has become successful, he takes his wife and daughter there. He also wants to find a good son-in-law for his daughter. At the same time, he also hopes that his daughter and A Fang's brother and sister will have a good relationship, so that A Fang will be better in the future. I can rely on my daughter.
After all, they will have to leave sooner or later. The daughter has no biological brothers and sisters, and the only ones she can rely on are her cousins. As for the other side of the room, he wasn't looking forward to it. The same goes for Ya. Girl, the eggs are still small. Moreover, the sister-in-law...is always more reliable than the elder brother and sister-in-law.
Although Uncle Qin wanted a son, he still cared about his only daughter.
Qin's mother came over and saw Uncle Qin at the door, so she said, "Uncle."
Uncle Qin quickly turned around and said, "Sister-in-law is here. I was just looking for my parents. All the tables, chairs, dishes, and chopsticks at home have been returned, and almost all my relatives and friends have left."
Grandpa Qin and Grandma Qin heard the sound and followed them out. Grandpa Qin said: "That's good. You have packed everything you need to clean at home. We will set off the day after tomorrow. By the way, have you seen the tiger?"
Speaking of Huang Huzi, Uncle Qin said with a smile: "He was busy delivering things to me just now, and he is probably pestered by the eggs now." Who is pestering Huang Huzi the most today? Definitely Niu Dan, Niu Dan pestered Huang Huzi to teach him kung fu. Although Huang Huzi's skills were only average, compared to those of the county government, the government officials did their part to catch the head. In addition, in the past few years, following Qin Fang, I have also received a lot of guidance.
Grandpa Qin said: "Thank you for your hard work today. Go ask Huzi what else you need to prepare on the way to Yunxiang County, and then check it out. We will set off the day after tomorrow. You should also think about it. No. What is left behind? There is still something to pay attention to. Then you have to be on your own. ”
Uncle Qin also came into his grandfather's arms. He looked at Grandpa Qin and he had never felt that his father was old before, especially this day because A Fang had retired. He suddenly felt that Dad seems to be younger than before. But in fact, because he had gotten used to it over the past ten years, and looking at his father now, he found that his father had already had white hair. Thinking of what my father and mother were in the house before, they were already at this age and had become grandpa and grandma Zeng. They still had to worry about themselves, and Sanshu Qin felt... Self-disloyalty.
For a moment, Uncle Qin felt sour in his heart. His voice became hoarse and his voice was choked with sobs: "Dad, you don't have to worry about it anymore. Don't worry, I've taken care of it in my heart." ”
He is already in his thirties and his daughter is fifteen years old. How can he still not understand?
Grandpa Qin looked at his son. He knew that this son was a little clever and thoughtful, but he was still very clear. Moreover, it is not necessarily bad for a person to be a little clever and thoughtful. Compared with Lao Li, who is simple and honest and does not care about anything, and does not care about anything, he is not as good as Lao San. He didn't know if his son really understood, but after he said so, he stopped asking. ", then work harder and pay more attention. Let's set off to Yunxiang County as a family. You and your eldest brother are still close. I'm old and can't afford to bother."
Third Uncle Qin felt a sense of responsibility when Grandpa Qin said this. Maybe ordinary people love their children, but that doesn't exist in the Qin family. His father and mother valued his eldest brother the most. Later, when their eldest grandson was born, they valued A Fang again. He and his brother Fang Sheng. However, my father and mother didn't favor anyone, so Uncle Qin didn't care about it either. But now, my father said that he needed to stop on this journey. This feeling of being valued by his father flooded his heart in an instant. He immediately raised his head and chest and said, "Dad, don't worry, my eldest brother and I will discuss it."
Grandpa Qin saw that his state suddenly became more energetic, so he didn't say much more.
Uncle Qin went to Huang Huzi and Qin's father to discuss matters. Qin's mother was also discussing matters with Grandma Qin. The main discussion was about their salaries. After all, they were the only ones in the family with a salary, so their status suddenly became equal. If it were before, after all, Grandma Qin was the elder, and her status was still higher than that of Qin’s mother, but now General Qin Fang, even if Grandma Qin is Qin Fang’s direct grandmother, it’s hard to say Yes, under normal circumstances, can grandma kiss her better than her own mother? Therefore, no matter what Grandma Qin does, she will still strive for Mother Qin's approval. After all, this is Qin's face.
Of course, the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been very good. Grandma Qin has been cultivating Qin's mother in the past, so naturally she will not hold on to the right to be the head of the family.
Before Grandma Qin and Mother Qin talked about the salary in detail, Aunt Qin came. Grandma Qin gave birth to three sons and daughters, the eldest son of Qin’s father, and twins Aunt Qin and Aunt Qin, but the daughters were nothing alike.
Aunt Qin is thirty-eight years old, younger than Qin's father, so when Aunt Qin was born, Grandma Qin didn't take care of her much. After all, she had to take care of Father Qin and couldn't spare the time.
In this era, daughters are always more important than sons. However, Grandma Qin didn't treat her daughter badly. Unlike other people, she didn't treat the girl as a human being. She only asked the girl to work and had little food. Grandma Qin will not call her daughter for work that she can do, nor will she deduct food from her daughter.
But how can I put it, the relationship between mother and daughter is not very close. Except for the Chinese New Year and when things are going on, they rarely interact with each other.
Aunt Qin came here during the wedding banquet of Qin Fang and Yang Haiyan, and then in the first month of this year, and then now.
Speaking of which, when Father Qin went to tell Aunt Qin about Qin Fang, Aunt Qin was also stunned. She never thought that one day her eldest nephew would become a general. Even if she is not close to her mother-in-law, there is no conflict. Therefore, her nephew is successful, and she, as an aunt, is of course also a respectable person. At least in her husband's family, everyone will look up to her. She points.
Aunt Qin called out to Grandma Qin and Mother Qin: "Mom, sister-in-law, you are all here."
Mother Qin responded.
Grandma Qin is very happy when happy events happen, and she is happy to see everyone. "Why don't you discuss with your sister-in-law about setting off the day after tomorrow? There are many things to do, and people always can't get over it. Where is your mother-in-law? Over there, you are entertaining them, but you are treating them badly. ”
Aunt Qin said: "Here, I am chatting with my sister-in-law's family. Seeing that they are happy, everyone wants to enjoy A Fang's happiness and is not willing to leave."
Grandma Qin said: "Why don't you come here? You should sit there more."
Aunt Qin also smiled, and then looked at Qin's mother, looking at the sister-in-law who was full of joy in her eyebrows and eyes. She was not sad at all, but she was always envious. In this life, things are incomparable, but from the sister-in-law, she suddenly understood that her husband was like this and would never be able to make a difference no matter what, but her son was still young. I can still teach you. She didn't expect to teach a general like Qin Fang, her eldest nephew, but it was better to teach him well than not to teach him at all. Aunt Qin thought for a while and said, "I came here to learn from my mother and sister-in-law. How could I not be as promising as A Fang's teaching?" This compliment is also true. .
This made Grandma Qin and Mother Qin laugh. Qin's mother said: "How can I do this? A Fang has been raised by my mother since he was a child. I have to ask my mother."
Although Grandma Qin usually said that her eldest grandson was brought up by her, how big can a child from the countryside be brought up? Didn’t you just start running around on your own when you were six or seven years old? Therefore, if Qin Fang can grow up like this, he can live up to his expectations. However, it is also inseparable from her education when she was a child. Grandma Qin has lived in the countryside all her life and has no great knowledge. The most important things she teaches her sons and grandsons are to be good people, not to do bad things, not to do sneaky things, etc. She could brag about this in front of outsiders, but in front of her own daughter, she thought about it and said it honestly: "There is no chance to talk about this matter. Opportunities are important, and you can only seize them if you have them. More importantly, marrying a good wife is also important, so I think about it. Wait, Ah Fang can. Today, I just want to seize the opportunity and make progress as my wife.”
Qin's mother was sitting aside and felt that Grandma Qin's words made sense: "A Fang had no choice but to serve in the army. Fortunately, he knew how to catch him. I took advantage of the opportunity and married a good wife. Speaking of which, I think the most important thing is marrying the right wife.”
Aunt Qin said: "No, A Fang's daughter-in-law belongs to the imperial court, and the imperial court belongs to the emperor. How can the emperor do anything bad?"
This is the case, but the court also blindly refers to marriage. But everyone will say that it's good to praise the emperor now because Qin Fang and his wife are well together.
The mother-in-law, daughter-in-law, and aunt were chatting happily, and Grandma Qin's voice sounded outside: "Yueying... Yueying..." Yueying is Qin's mother's maiden name, and her full name is Ding Yueying.
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