The Perfect God of Life Chapter 643
Behind the strong are extraordinary experiences and tempering, so that people become: strong! For example, Liu Shunhua is... so! Although she has always been very good, it does not mean that she has been... .The strong women have gone through a lot of hard work before they can achieve today's achievements.
Both Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi were very qualified listeners, they just listened to Liu Shunhua's speech quietly, without interrupting or interrupting.
Liu Shunhua continued: "It was a stormy night, both the rain and the wind were loud and noisy, but the baby's cry hit my heart directly, as if it was a gift from God. my present!"
"I hurriedly followed the baby's cry and came to the trash can in a square. Next to the trash can, I saw a baby 30, which is sweet!"
"As soon as I opened the garbage bag, I immediately saw the baby crying loudly, and the sweet quilt was wrapped in it, protected by a very large garbage bag, and there was a piece of paper on the quilt. strip."
"The content on the note reads: Daughter, I am very glad that you came to this world, but you are very unfortunate to be born in such a patriarchal family, I hope you will have a good home in the future, and your mother will not let you go, But there is no way, just let it be!"
When he said this, Liu Shunhua's eyes rolled out: tears welled up.
Faint tears.
How cruel parents are to dump their children in the trash on this stormy night.
When Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi heard this, their hearts twitched for no reason.
What an absurd feudal ideology to favor sons over women, and it is precisely because of this terrifying feudal ideology that many girls have no chance of being born.
Patriarchy is a social concept of inequality between men and women, which attaches importance to men's rights and interests, and defines women as men's subordinates, and restricts their opportunities to develop personal talents and personal freedom.
This concept is common in patriarchal society, and often accompanied by the concept of male superiority and gender division of labor.
The result of this kind of thinking is to influence parents' willingness to have boys and girls.
In many places where there is a preference for boys over girls and some female families, in order to have boys, they do not care about their ability to bear and continue to give birth until they give birth to boys.... Some give birth to girls and give them away, and some have incomplete household registration. There will also be underreporting or underreporting of baby girls.
For example, the baby girl Liu Shunhua met was abandoned because of the family's ideology of favoring sons over daughters.
Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi smiled at each other.
Suddenly they feel that they are very lucky, because in a family that is not patriarchal, both parents are very enlightened.
In some families with a strong patriarchal concept, when a daughter is born, the father is so angry that he can't even eat, even if the level is average, he often thinks that the girl will marry when she grows up, and she doesn't need to read too much.
Therefore, regardless of their children's ability and willingness, they ask their daughters to drop out of school to work to earn money for their brothers to study. Even if the daughter's grades are good and the son is not interested in learning, these things are the same for parents.
If Gao Xiang's parents were influenced by patriarchal preference, Gao Yiyi would definitely not be able to go to university, and it would be even more impossible for Gao Yiyi to study art and other expensive majors according to his own interests.
The cost of studying art for one year is huge! Especially for Gao Xiang’s family who was not wealthy before, even if Gao’s parents did not read art to Gao Yiyi, this was a forgivable thing. , after all, economic conditions do not allow it.
However, under such conditions, Gao's parents and Gao's mother still insisted on reading art to Gao Yiyi, which is really very commendable! It is because of this that Gao Yiyi now feels that he is really very happy and is very grateful to his parents.
However, in recent years, there are still some positive actions to promote the equal rights of men and women in the world. In the past, both countries and international organizations have formulated as many as 94 reform measures to promote the equal rights of men and women.
Not only that, 12 countries have also revised their laws against domestic violence.
With the process of urbanization, the preference for sons and daughters has gradually withdrawn from the mainstream, but it is impossible to completely change this kind of thinking in a short time, because it needs to change people's social concepts and correctly view the role of men and women in society and family life. roles, rights and obligations, etc.
This requires a long process, after all, the formation of this kind of thought has gone through thousands of years.
Gao Yiyi and Gao Xiang were quite touched when they heard the idea of valuing sons over women, but they did not interrupt Liu Shunhua's narration.
"I remember that scene very clearly. I looked at the baby for a few seconds, and the baby who was crying suddenly stopped crying and smiled, and that smile was imprinted in my mind for a lifetime."
Liu Shunhua said, looked at 833 in Liu Chutian's room again, and then continued: "I immediately carried her to the hospital, when the doctor asked me if I was the mother of the child, I didn't hesitate. The answer is 'yes', because from the moment I found her, I have been a sweet mother, which is a gift from God."
At that time, Liu Shunhua sent the baby girl to the hospital for a comprehensive physical examination and various tests, and found that she was a very healthy baby girl, not because of illness, but because of this evil patriarchal ideology.
How ruthless the parents must be to do such a thing.
In such a stormy night, throwing away your love and flesh and blood beside the trash can, if you hadn't met Liu Shunhua, the consequences would have been unimaginable.
Fortunately, she met Liu Shunhua.
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I don't know if you have heard of some things about patriarchal preference... Every time I hear this, I feel heartbroken, I think how many girls have been harmed by this kind of thinking, maybe I am too emotional... Is this called the Virgin I don't know......
Chapter 709
Imagine that in this dark night, with wind and rain, there are few pedestrians on the road, and there are few vehicles on the road. In such a night, few people can hear the baby's cry, but Liu Shunhua met him.
Therefore, it is said that this is a gift from God to Liu Shunhua.
"When I met Tiantian, I became stronger, and I knew what my goal was, because I was no longer alone, and I had a sweet little padded jacket."
Daughter is... a sweet little padded jacket, because girls are generally more careful and sensible at the same time, especially after getting married and starting a family, they can understand the difficulty of being a parent, and experience the process of life and death when giving birth to a child. Indescribable pain in childbirth, on the contrary, boys are bigger, so daughters are the intimate little padded jackets of their parents.
"Having such a child in the beginning really made my life a mess. After all, I am a fresh graduate, and I can't even take care of myself, let alone such a small baby. any experience."
"But then I found out that Tiantian is the lucky star of my life, because after having her, I found that my work efficiency and ability have been greatly improved and changed, because I always want to squeeze as much time as possible Come and bring sweetness, that's my motivation."
"I can finish the work that would have taken a day to complete in half a day. Except for special circumstances, I never have to work overtime until late at night. Basically, I can get off work on time, because with Tiantian After that, I knew that I had more care and responsibility in my heart."
"During the day, I arrange for a professional nanny to take care of the baby at home, and I will come back to accompany Tiantian at night!"
Talking, Liu Shunhua looked at Liu Chutian's room again, with a happy smile on his face: "I was very tired at the time, but I felt very happy and eager."
"Since I got Britney, my career has grown by leaps and bounds, and I have achieved today's achievements. She is really my lucky star and lucky star."
"Tiantian has been very sensible and caring since she was a child. She was very sensible at a young age. She is really my caring little padded jacket."
As Liu Shunhua spoke, his face flushed slightly, he inexplicably remembered what Liu Chutian said to Gao Xiang in the kitchen, and his heart beat even faster.
This feeling is really amazing.
"This is the origin of sweetness!"
Hua Wang spoke slowly to Gao Xiang and Gao Yiyi: "At the beginning, many friends suggested that I hand Tiantian to the orphanage, and I should not raise a child if I am a single girl, otherwise it will affect my marriage. People and word of mouth.”
"But I don't care at all, I only want my future half to accept and tolerate Tiantian first and foremost. My ideal future other half is not only what I like, but also what Tiantian likes, because we are a family ."
Wind and rain, next to the trash can, a baby's cry... This scene is really structured like a scene in a TV series.
Some shit! But it really does happen in real life! Especially ten or twenty years ago, under the influence of the patriarchal ideology, many baby girls will be discarded after birth, which is really cruel.
But with the progress of modern society and the influence of the concept of equality between men and women, this situation is slightly better.
"It's abominable, these... feudal thoughts are really abominable!"
Gao Yiyi said very angrily: "It's all these......influenced by the feudal ideology that prioritizes patriarchy over women, otherwise these....parents also... Don't be so cruel!"
This is the role of feudal ideology a few years ago, and some social cultures and customs will show the idea of priority of sons The mourning for the paternal relatives will be heavier than the mourning for the same-generation and equal matriarchs, for example, the mourning for the uncle will be heavier than the mourning for the uncle.
Gao Yiyi deeply felt that he was happy.