Chapter 3116: "Romantic" Wedding Season (10)

Chapter 3090 "Romantic" Wedding Season (Ten)

After the bonfire party, everyone cleaned up the debris. This time, they learned to be smart. The majority of people went back to the Stone House first, leaving only a few people to work. In fact, they worked faster than before.

When they returned, it was already very late. Most people went back to their rooms to sleep. Because many people drank, Schiller woke up early the next morning and found that no one was there. Everyone was still sleeping.

But his biological clock was very stable, so he planned to make something to eat first. Just as he was checking the ingredients in the refrigerator, he suddenly heard footsteps on the stairs.

He turned around and saw an unexpected person, who turned out to be Reed.

Schiller and Reed were not very familiar with each other. They might have some intersections at work, but they had no contact in private.

But when Reed appeared, Schiller knew that he was coming for him. This was not because he could read minds, but mainly because Reed's eyes were so sleepy that he could hardly open them. It was obvious that he had forced himself to turn on the computer. None of these scientists had a normal work and rest schedule.

Since he was not used to getting up early, there was no need to say why he got up so early and went downstairs so early.

Schiller had planned to make a sandwich, but seeing the situation, he decided to just fry an egg. Out of courtesy, he fried four eggs in total, made two cups of coconut milk, and brought them to the island next to him.

The smell of fried eggs made Reed sober up a little. He smiled at Schiller a little embarrassedly. The two sat on both sides of the island, eating breakfast and chatting.

There was no need to say much about Reed's purpose. In fact, he didn't plan to say anything, because Susan's performance yesterday had already made him believe that Schiller could read minds.

Speaking of Reed Richards, many people's first reaction is that he is a troublemaker, but many of the more famous disasters caused by him were not caused by Mr. Fantastic in the main universe, that is, they are not Marvel history, but parallel universes.

But it doesn't mean that Reed in the main universe is so good. He is half responsible for the bad reputation of the Illuminati. In the earlier comics, he once took all the team funds to invest in stocks and lost everything. In short, he is not a good person.

In Schiller's view, Reed is not a mental patient, nor does he have personality defects. His mental state is also very stable. He is a normal person.

But his biggest problem is that he lacks responsibility, which is also the main reason why he is so talented but unpopular and lacks personal charm.

The lack of responsibility will not only be reflected in major events, but the impact in daily life is actually more serious.

Maybe many people have met such people in real life. They have high education and strong skills. At first glance, they are not stupid. Their mental state is also quite stable. They even show unparalleled talents in some aspects, but you just are not attracted to them.

This is actually very counterintuitive, because social status, personal ability, emotional stability, and emotional appeal are all important components of personal charm. People who usually have these things must be very popular. Even if they only have one or two of them, they will be very likable and popular.

For example, some people have no talent, but their emotions are extremely stable, as if there is a solution to everything. As soon as you see him, you feel that there is nothing in this world that cannot be overcome. Such people must have many friends who have known each other for many years.

Or some people have a bad temper and love to go crazy, but they are unique in their professional fields and have strong abilities. Many people will unconsciously be attracted by his talents and surround him.

Let's look at Reed again. His talent is very famous, he has a very high status in the scientific community, and his emotions are very stable. Even Stark, who despises him the most, has never seen him angry. At most, he is a little weird.

He also has no obvious symptoms of bad behavior, such as not being able to read the atmosphere, not being able to understand the emotions conveyed by others, etc.

If this is the case, why is he not popular?

In fact, the answer is that he subconsciously does not realize that he should be responsible for all his words and deeds.

For example, everyone has times when they say things without thinking. Stark criticized the iPhone's camera as not as good as a professional camera, and Pepper happened to be taking a photo with an iPhone next to him. This situation was very embarrassing, just like when you just said something bad about someone to someone else, that person appeared.

Stark's reply of turning shit into gold sounded particularly absurd and seemed to have very low emotional intelligence. Fortunately, Pepper had high emotional intelligence and replied half-jokingly and half-reprimandingly, and the matter was over.

However, the most important thing is Stark's attitude of redemption after he found out that he had said something wrong. Don't worry about how he redeemed it, or whether he can actually take back what he said. The key is this attitude.

But if it was Reed, after he had criticized something and found that someone else was using it, he would not try to redeem it. He did not feel that he was responsible for what he said, nor did he feel that he was responsible for the harm caused to someone by his words.

This would lead to him saying something that hurt someone, and the other person was waiting for him to redeem it, but he didn't even have an embarrassed expression and forgot about it two seconds later.

As time goes by, there are countless such incidents. Others are not stupid, so why do they have to be stabbed around him? Naturally, fewer and fewer people will surround him.

Reed also felt very puzzling. He did not do anything bad about these people, and he was not malicious, but others suddenly ignored him.

He went to ask these people to ask, others are just "what you did, don't you know".

There is more inexplicable virtue there, what am I doing? I haven't hindered you either, and I haven't quarreled with you. Why do you have such a bad attitude towards me?

As everyone knows, adults actually understand that you can't be a person who will never hurt others emotionally. Whether you are intentional or inadvertent, this is impossible to do. The key is that you apologize after hurting others.

Emotional thing is just the opposite of justice. It is said that late justice is not justice, but it is not emotionally. The apology is apologized. Even if you apologize after ten years, even if you may apologize by you I don't remember what you have done to him, but as long as you are frank and apologize to him, he will always feel that you are a sincere person.

Although it is not to express the harm after an apology, human emotions are infectious. If he can detect your true feelings and touch this feeling, it can naturally eliminate the resentment in his heart, at least the least, at least He also gave him a reason to forgive you.

Even if you are not really guilty, even if you make a sorry look, it is in line with social moral requirements. In terms of popular point, it will be one of the important criteria for hurting others as a good person. come out.

People with obviously the charm of their personality are not popular, mainly because they are not pretending to be, and they have no attitude.

At first, many people may be confused by their appearance. I feel that this person is really talented. It is my honor to be able to connect with him and to chase them unconsciously.

However, people who lack responsible fox can't hide their tails. They will not consider anyone's feelings, and they will not apologize to anything sharp than anything. As long as they come into contact with them for a while, they will feel their comparison. The deeper person with irritable people is more unreasonable, and even feel that they are not like humans at all. The fear brought by this alienation feeling will drive people to escape.

Some people are like Ride. They do not think they should be responsible. Some people realize that they should be responsible, but they have evaded responsibilities.

For example, the phrase "Speak out, splashing water" is a typical evasion responsibility. Although there are also warning people to think about it before speaking, it is more used to say something that does not pass the brain without the brain. After that, tangled the excuses used to escape when it is restored.

If you say it, it is indeed a pouring water. The water cannot be collected, but you can't pour a person and the water in the cold winter. Apologize?

Of course, some people must say that my emotional quotient is not high and I can't speak. The more I want to make up for my previous words, the more I get angry, and it is better to shut up.

This is actually a typical evasion of psychology. It is not beneficial to interpersonal communication. The key to apology is to show attitude, that is, emotional infection, not logical persuasion.

If you think about it, many people start crying after the disaster in life. Even the words are not good. Instead, the people around them will comfort him. No one apologize to the speech. Come.

It is better to say that the more logically talks about things, the easier it is to shirk responsibility. It is better to express emotions directly, use emotions to infect others, and make them realize that you are really sad for your damage before yourself, expressing your expression, expressing it out, expressing it out. This is not what you originally want.

There is another advantage of doing this. In a rollover of the old account, you can fully describe the incident itself, and focus on depicting how sad you are crying at that time. Expressing the meaning of "I was so sad at the time, but you were still concerned about that".

This is indeed very entangled, but the secret of social suppression is not to make sense.

Judging from Schiller's experience, Ride's responsibility lack of symptoms is the worst he has ever seen. He has implemented all aspects of his life, and even seriously affected his daily life.

The most intuitive thing is that he has no friends.

The Four Man was not formed. They did not bind because of super powers. There were few friends in Reed's life, and there was never mentioning any private friends in the comics.

In fact, if it wasn't for Ride Richards, it was too talented, and he had already rolled to the street for meals for the severity of his lack of responsibility.

But because Ride is too talented, this is an inextricable knot. Schiller has to forcibly solve him, because humans still need Ride's wisdom, not giving him, how can technology improve? How do humans develop?

The most important thing is that without this famous universe's famous universe destruction engine, what did he threaten those cosmic administrators?