Chapter 1,261: Don’t Punish Yourself for Someone Else’s Mistakes

"You can understand it just by thinking about it. If you didn't want a child, you wouldn't bother to care about men."

"Just based on the child, Wei De already has a son, Wei Wei, and his parents both have grandchildren. Now that Wei De has offspring, will the people of the Wei family still rush Wei De to find a woman to marry? To tell you a dirty story, didn't Wei De's sister return to Pingcheng? Wei De doesn't lack sons, and he doesn't worry about not having a woman to take care of him. What an ordinary woman can do as a wife, Wei De's sister can do for Wei De. If Wei De gets married at this time, unless the woman is like you and can help Wei De, otherwise, wouldn't Wei De cut off his way to become a Phoenix man?"

Wei De doesn't lack sons or women, he just lacks the opportunity to get promoted and make money.

He himself has no ability, and the only way to realize this wish is to marry a wife with a good birth and a good family background, relying on the help of Yue's family.

After Qiao Nan's earnest advice, Zhai Hua, who was a little upset because of Tian Dong's performance, also eliminated the last bit of self-destruction.

At that time, Zhai Hua only asked Qiao Nan one question: "If I don't get married and have no children in this life, will you let my three children take care of me in my old age?"

The Chinese people's thinking is so traditional.

Qiao Nan also replied to Zhai Hua: "Old-age care has never been a problem. What we are most worried about is that when you get old, you will have no one to accompany you."

Qiao Nan's words made Zhai Hua feel sour, but also calmed her down.

Yes, she has three nephews. When she gets old, she doesn't worry about no one to take care of her, but only worries about no one to accompany her.

But now there are so many natural disasters and man-made disasters. This cancer cannot be cured, and that cancer is a terminal illness. Many people who get married and have children are left alone in their old age. Will these people live?

These people can do it, as the daughter of the Zhai family, can't she do it?

When she gets old, all three of them will surely get married and have children.

At that time, she won't need anyone to accompany her. She can just take any of the children and raise them by her side, just like the old man did back then. Isn't that good?

Her grandmother passed away early, leaving the old man alone. Earlier, she and Zhai Sheng stayed in Pingcheng to develop. The old man insisted on living in the countryside and didn't want to live in the city. She didn't see how hard life was for the old man.

If everyone could be like the old man, and live a rosy life by themselves, and be energetic, and no less energetic than young people, she wouldn't be too happy.

Even the last problem has been solved. Zhai Hua is not self-destructive, but self-liberating. He simply stopped worrying about whether to get married and threw Tian Dong and Wei De aside.

If he hadn't heard a few soldiers scolding him for being inhumane and an old woman who couldn't get married before he came back, Zhai Hua wouldn't have been in such a bad mood this time.

However, whoever made Zhai Hua unhappy, Zhai Hua would make him miserable.

Come on, hurt each other and see who bows first!

As for the culprit of this incident, Zhai Hua, who rarely remained calm, immediately became furious when Tian Dong was mentioned. He was surrounded by a sinister aura and his face was as black as a female demon.

Knowing that he seemed to be too excited, Zhai Hua took a deep breath, pressed his forehead, and lowered his tone: "Okay, I know I'm not in a very good mood, don't say these nonsense to make me angry. The Tian family is not very authentic... Well, maybe the Tian family has expressed it, and I don't understand it thoroughly enough. When Nan Nan gave birth to the three treasures, Tian Dong helped a lot. If there is anything in the future, we can help the Tian family. At least we have to repay the favor. As for other things, don't think about it, don't mention it. I can like him who has been like a little girl since childhood?"

Zhai Hua's last sentence was a bit inconsistent with his heart.

It seems that he likes her, but Tian Dong later became cold to her, and there was no contact, and he didn't express it.

No matter what Tian Dong and the Tian family mean, I'm sorry, I don't want to play anymore, get out of your mother's eggs!

This is Zhai Hua's private matter after all. Others can persuade him a little, but it's meaningless if he goes too far. After all, Zhai Hua will live his life alone in the future.

You are not a fish, how can you know the joy of fish.

Others think that such a life is not easy, but Zhai Hua feels happy, so other people's opinions are actually not important at all.

Qiao Nan is a woman, and she must be biased towards Zhai Hua. Seeing that Zhai Hua's anger was provoked by Zhai Sheng, Qiao Nan secretly touched Zhai Sheng with her elbow to let Zhai Sheng stop.

In her opinion, the responsibility of this matter really lies on Tian Dong, not Zhai Hua.

As a man, if you think it's okay, take some practical actions and be enthusiastic. It doesn't matter if you don't give a clear statement if you don't know him. Why do you always say some specious words at certain times to stop the Zhai family from arranging a blind date for Zhai Hua?

So, let alone Zhai Hua, Qiao Nan is not very willing to mention Tian Dong.

If Tian Dong had not been with Zhai Hua the longest besides Wei De, and it seemed that they got along well, Tian Dong would have had some feelings for Zhai Hua. Otherwise, with Qiao Nan's sharp tongue, she could have made Zhai Hua, who had fallen head over heels in love with Wei De, change her mind and cool down her passion. In Tian Dong's situation, she wanted to strangle this little bud, and it would be a matter of seconds.

However, Qiao Nan has never been the kind of person who likes to be arrogant. Unless the problem is serious, Qiao Nan is unwilling to interfere in other people's lives like this.

The topic of marrying Tian Dong ended with Zhai Hua's anger.

Miao Liang, who was sitting on the side peeling fruit for her three grandchildren, heard it clearly, and finally could only sigh helplessly and said nothing more. Sometimes Miao Liang couldn't understand it. Their Zhai family did things honestly, and she didn't know whether other families were clean or not. But she dared to pat her chest and say that what her family did was worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, and worthy of the party, the country and the people.

More importantly, their Zhai family has been soldiers for generations, defending the country. Although they are not heroes, they have also made contributions to the stability of the country.

Their family did not do bad things, but they did a lot of good things. Why didn't the blessings fall on her daughter, making her daughter's fate come so late?

Others don't understand Zhai Hua's troubles, but Miao Liang, as a mother, does.

Zhai Hua is at his age now, and many people have to say one or two unpleasant words using Zhai Hua as an example when talking about marriage, as if Zhai Hua, who is still single until now, has become a typical example for all parents urging their children to get married. It is really a lack of moral character.