Chapter 1,303 Changing Strategy

"Now that you understand everything, use your brain more when doing things and speaking in the future, and don't be so impulsive like last time. Now look back and think about it, is it appropriate to have a red-faced quarrel with your parents because of a man? This man wants to He is really the one who can give you a lifetime of happiness. I think it’s worth it. If not, would you mind making your parents angry?”

Now that her mood had calmed down, Qiao Nan immediately criticized Fang Fang for her willfulness.

Fang Fang smiled coquettishly: "Aren't I forced to be anxious? Otherwise, what else can I do? How should I best deal with such a situation again in the future?"

Fang Fang really likes her current boyfriend. She feels that this boyfriend is very considerate, gentle, and very kind to her. He is not like the "good son-in-law" her parents call her, who always bullies her.

However, when it comes to being married for a lifetime, Fang Fang does not have this level of confidence in her boyfriend.

"Stupid, if arguing was useful, why did you come to my mother-in-law's house that day to complain to me and ask for support? On that day, you could have calmly explained why you had to argue. The more you argue, the more you My parents feel more and more that you are acting on impulse and not making rational decisions.”

"It's useless for me to be calm. They won't believe it." Fang Fang yelled. She was so angry that she made the noise.

Qiao Nan drank some water to moisten her throat. She would have no other way out in the future. Maybe she could open a psychological consulting company, or become a person who listens to people's complaints and chats with them. Otherwise, she could become a matchmaker and get red envelopes. : "You are angry, but no one believes you? No matter what, no one believes you. You are so angry that you hurt yourself and your parents. You clearly explain your thoughts. After that, stick to what you believe and get out of the way. In this case, you will feel a lot less guilty about your parents when you receive this call today."

"..." Fang Fang was speechless, but had to acquiesce to Qiao Nan's words.

When she returned to school this time, she often thought of that day.

Thinking of her mother's eyes turning red with anger and her father's aging body trembling slightly, Fang Fang, as a filial daughter, blamed herself. Her rationality has been torn between filial piety to her parents and striving for her own happiness. After she returned to school, she couldn't sleep for several nights. Even when her boyfriend asked her to go out for dinner, she refused three times.

As a result, people on both sides of her seemed to be injured: "Then what should I do in the future?"

"I'm still thinking about the future. Didn't your parents compromise? I feel guilty. After returning to your parents at the end of the semester, spend more time with your parents, chat with them, walk with them, and go to the park. Also Yes, it's okay. I'll call home two or three times a week to communicate with my parents.

Or talk about your life in school, whether you are happy or not, and what problems you have encountered. If you talk more, your parents will understand you, and they won't quarrel with you over an 'outsider' in the future. "

There was a hint of coaxing in Qiao Nan's tone: "Your parents like Gao Yan so much because you are not as good as Gao Yan. Gao Yan is very sweet in front of your parents, and he is the one who makes trouble." Like your parents' son. The problem is that you are the real one. Gao Yan can do it. You have to do better than Gao Yan to win your parents' hearts back from Gao Yan's hands. "Whoever you want to marry in the future, can Gao Yanguan get it?"

The more Fang Fang listened, the more sense it made. The reason why she almost gave in was precisely because of her parents' attitude.

If her parents favor her in the future and stop paying so much attention to Gao Yan, then Gao Yan's words are nothing, so why should she be anxious?

The key is who her parents' hearts are for!

Fang Fang seemed to have opened up the two channels of Ren and Du, and her spirits were lifted. She was as depressed as before, like a big rooster with high morale: "Nan Nan, you are indeed my best best friend. The words woke up the dreamer. After listening to your words, I understood everything. Don't worry, I know what to do in the future and will not let Gao Yan take advantage of me again. "

Looking at the phone call from her father today, even if her parents say that no matter how good Gao Yan is and that he is a role model for all children, she is always the only daughter of her parents. In the end, her parents' hearts are towards her. Yes, not towards Gao Yan.

She was born to take advantage of her blood relationship. How shameful it would be for her to lose to Gao Yan again.

With Qiao Nan as her backing advisor, Fang Fang, who had always been a talkative person, had more contact with her family and would chat with them from time to time.

At first, Fang's father and Fang's mother were not used to it, and they didn't understand why Qiao Nan wanted her daughter to do this. It's just that more communication between parents and children is always a good thing.

Slowly, Mother Fang understood what Qiao Nan meant and the purpose of these calls: "Oh, it's so late and it's not particularly safe. You'd better not go out. I really want to go on a date, so we can do it during the day."

"Well, it's not that I won't let you experience life. You are still a student now and focus on studying. When you graduate, if you want to stay at home and let me and your father raise you, I won't agree."

"You want to live outside? You are still thinking about it. What do I think? What I think is not important, what is important is what you think. Okay, then I will tell you, you just listen, you can make up your own mind on what to do. Fangfang, you are an adult, and Mom trusts your judgment. Let me tell you, not to mention how much it costs to rent a house, what Mom is most worried about is safety. You live on campus, and you have several roommates in one dormitory. You can rest assured. Otherwise, Mom will be so worried that she won’t be able to sleep.”

As a student, even after going to college, the life of a top academic student like Fang Fang is actually still very monotonous, except studying.

Fang Fang communicates more with her parents and talks more, but there is too little content to talk about.

After chatting about studying, Fang Fang would occasionally mention her boyfriend. She had the idea of ​​boiling a frog in warm water. Unfortunately, she was the one who ended up being boiled in the pot.

It was also Fang's mother who found a way. She didn't speak harshly, let alone say a word or a word directed at the boy. From the beginning to the end, she acted from the role of caring about her daughter, allowing Fang Fang to slowly accept her "opinion".

Midnight date? What if that brat takes advantage of Fang Fang?

Working outside? She and her husband just said a few nice words about Gao Yan, but Fang Fang was so upset that she would be so angry if she suddenly went out to experience life in society. Wouldn't this give that brat a chance to comfort Fang Fang?

move out? ! dream!