Two Hundred and Ninety-Three, Older Girls’ Blind Dates
On this snowy night, Chen Hansheng thought of Kong Jing.
His feelings for Sister Kong Yu are also complicated.
The first is exaggerated intimacy, which is a habitual method used by men to tease women, because they want to create an illusion and make women feel that this man seems to value her.
Even in his relationship with Zheng Guanti, Chen Hansheng also used a little of this routine. starter
The only two people Chen Hansheng was sincere about were Shen Youchu and Xiao Rongyu, so his behavior was casual and even rude. In fact, this just showed that he had no defensive mentality.
However, women are very fond of this, especially when Chen Hansheng and Kong Jing get along, they strictly abide by the etiquette and never exceed it. Occasionally, they use slightly outrageous language to test, and if they find something awkward, they immediately fool them.
Therefore, Kong Jing slowly opened her heart to Chen Hansheng.
Of course, this openness still belongs between friends. There may be a little ambiguity that both parties know about, but it is within the normal range.
In fact, judging from the current demand, Chen Hansheng needs Kong Jing even more. Not only does Rocket 101 need her to take the lead in expanding the university market, but she also needs her help in the upcoming negotiations with Shenzhen Tong Company.
On the morning of December 14, the second day after Rocket 101 was established, Chen Hansheng called Kong Jing.
"Han Sheng, what's going on?"
Kong Jing was probably having breakfast and asked in a mumble.
"You can't make phone calls if you have nothing to do. I miss you, okay?"
Chen Hansheng said with a smile, this is another utilitarian approach, with a bit of probing and teasing.
Kong Jing didn't realize it herself, but she seemed to be used to this way of communication between the two of them for some reason.
"You can think about it, but I'll have something to do later."
"What's the matter?"
"Let's go on a blind date."
Kong Jing sighed: "These days I'm either on a blind date or on the way to a blind date."
"So exaggerated?" Chen Hansheng said in surprise.
"No, my family will arrange three blind dates for me today."
Kong Jing sounded a little helpless: "You haven't said why you are calling me."
"Little things."
Chen Hansheng said calmly: "It's snowing in Jianye. You used to say that it rarely snows in eastern Guangdong, so you cherish the snowy scenery. When it snows, I immediately think of you."
"oh."
Kong Jing was stunned for a moment, then replied after a while: "Thank you."
At this time, a few words in Cantonese came from the microphone, probably Kong Jing and her family were chatting.
Chen Hansheng couldn't understand it at all. He was born in Hong Kong City, went to university in Jianye, and worked in Jianye. He rarely went on business trips to eastern Guangdong and only knew three sentences in Cantonese.
"Thunder Monkey, you shouldn't, I'll throw your mother away."
So he simply said knowingly: "Sister Jing, please eat first. I wish you a smooth blind date." Started by
"Thank you, I'm a little busy."
Kong Jing hurriedly hung up the phone and said to her mother unhappily: "I was on the phone just now, and you kept disturbing me."
"Telephone calls, I finally took a vacation, and I'm still thinking about work."
Kong Jing didn't say that she had resigned naked, otherwise her parents would probably scold her to death.
If a 30-year-old woman is unmarried and loses her job, it will be a huge rebellion for the more traditional Chaoshan area.
Oh, actually from Kong Ma’s point of view,
For a woman to be unmarried at the age of thirty is not only a treasonous act, but also a heinous and unforgivable crime.
"I'll tell you."
Kong Ma said seriously: "You have dated several people in the past few days, including land bureau cadres, IT white-collar workers, and university associate professors, but you are not satisfied with any of them. Do you really think you are a fairy?"
"Even if you are a fairy, you have to get married. Otherwise, how could Agarwood be born?"
Kong's mother said with hatred, "I've offended all the matchmakers."
"I know, I know."
Kong Jing finished her last bite of rice rolls, went back to the bedroom to freshen up, and then started waiting at home.
Around 10 o'clock, the first blind date came to the door. It was said that he was a middle school teacher. The matchmaker and Kong Ma went to the yard to peel beans and make room for them.
Kong Jing chatted with her blind date for an hour with a gentle smile. She used to be the general manager of a first-level city of Shenzhen Tong Company. Although the blind date became a formality, she could handle it well.
In her understanding, even if they don't like each other, they can still be friends.
However, one thing still made Kong Jing very embarrassed. Around 10 o'clock, the second blind date also walked in.
The key point is that the two blind dates still know each other and greet each other.
"Hey, you're here too."
"Yeah, I'm one step ahead of you today."
At this moment, Kong Jing felt like a commodity on the shelf waiting to be selected, without any value.
"A thirty-year-old woman is really humble. She doesn't get respect from others."
Kong Jing sighed inwardly. Although this middle school teacher could tell that she liked her very much, she was already disgusted with blind dates.
But what can you do? As long as you are still at home, you must accept this arrangement.
Kong Jing steeled herself and communicated with her second blind date today, mechanically repeating the self-introduction she had said n times.
"I am 30 this year. I graduated from Guangdong University of Finance. I first worked in a bank and then resigned and went to Shenzhen Tong Company."
Finally, the second blind date left with satisfaction. After all, Kong Jing's figure, appearance, conversation and temperament were completely online.
During lunch, Kong’s mother interrogated and asked, “How about two in the morning?”
Kong Jing was not in a good mood and just focused on picking up vegetables.
"You don't like this, and you don't like that. Which prince are you going to marry?"
Kong’s mother was very angry. The second daughter was only 25 years old and had a baby soon, but the eldest daughter was already 30 and she didn’t even have a partner.
Father Kong quickly smoothed things over: "We can't rush this. Even if the two people in the morning are good, we have to get along with each other before talking."
Although there is a meaning of protection in the words, there is also an attitude of urging "to give it a try".
The younger sister was still adding fuel to the fire: "My sister is just too picky. Last time I kindly introduced my elementary school classmates to her, but she didn't like her either. Now I'm so embarrassed in the elementary school QQ group."
"If you can't keep your mouth shut after eating."
Kong Jing and her sister were not polite: "After the baby is born, do you want to get the red envelope from your aunt?"
"No, sister, I was just joking."
The little girl quickly hugged Kong Jing's arm and acted coquettishly. In fact, she was not as beautiful as Kong Jing and had some buck teeth.
There was another blind date in the afternoon. This person was Kong Jing’s high school classmate. Now he runs a company. He has good looks and his family is quite wealthy. In short, Kong’s mother is quite satisfied.
The two started talking about each other in high school, and they still had a lot of things in common.
However, the other party was the type who had a successful career in the county. He kept telling me how many apartments he had at home, which building he was about to buy another one in, and what the company's development prospects were.
In fact, these are not the key points, but he always expresses this view in and out of words: It will be too late for a 30-year-old woman to get married. If I am willing to accept you on this condition, you should be grateful and secretly happy.
This made Kong Jing very angry. She had never seen rich people with tens of millions or hundreds of millions of dollars, and how could they have such a arrogant attitude.
Sister Yu, there is always a bit of glass in her heart. They are actually the type of unmarried women who need to be respected the most.
After finally sending this high school classmate away, Kong Jing thought it would be better to find a university job as a cook as she could no longer stay at home.
In the evening, Chen Hansheng called again attentively. Chen Hansheng accompanied her to complain for a while about the process of "blind date".
Kong Jing felt a little funny in her heart. Chen Hansheng's intention was obvious, it was just to invite herself to come out again.
"Sister Jing, don't be discouraged. In fact, there are other men who know how to appreciate and respect you."
Chen Hansheng's hints are true and false.
"Who is it, you?"
Kong Jing made a joke: "Liu Bei invited Zhuge Liang out of the mountain and even visited the thatched cottage. If you come to my door once, I will go to Rocket 101 to help you."
"Hahaha."
Chen Hansheng laughed: "Our school will have a debate competition tomorrow."
But after hanging up the phone, Chen Hansheng looked at the phone and frowned.
"Ignore your mother, do you want to go or not?"