Chapter 694 Suffocation (6)
The head teacher was quite troubled: "But she is your mother after all."
Bai Tang remained calm: "So what if she is my mother? Hasn't she hurt me enough? Just because she is my mother, the same words that come out of her mouth and those that come out of other people's mouths are always the same. Two levels of harm.”
"As a daughter of parents, I can't decide my birth. I can think about how I will live my life in the future. If she continues like this and doesn't make real corrections, then she will have no choice but to be obligated."
The head teacher couldn't help but said: "Bai Tang, you are also a girl. When you get married in the future, you will understand her difficulties."
Bai Tang: "She is in trouble, and I also died. What trouble is she in? Let me think about it."
"She doesn't care about me as much as my brother does. I know she thinks her daughter will get married when she grows up. After marrying someone else, she won't be able to provide for them in old age or take care of them immediately. This is something she has to do even if she is willing to go through hardships. The reason why I keep my brother with me.”
In fact, the root of the preference for boys over girls lies in the issue of elderly care. Some people are not so pure when they have children. They are just worried that no one will take care of them when they are old, and they will have a child to provide for them until they die.
"What other difficulties does she have? She needs to be humble. As long as she speaks poorly of her children, they can work hard."
"What else? When I get back from work, I cook, do laundry, do housework, it's all exhausting."
"Teacher, I will not live like her. I always think about my difficulties and my own difficulties. I completely put myself into a miserable role and feel that everyone around me is hurting her and dragging her down. No Understand her. To be honest, if you have a choice, who would choose such parents."
The head teacher pursed his lips and was speechless. He Wenxiu's mother has indeed failed to take responsibility. In their family, Bai Zixi's father works outside and lacks communication. On weekdays, he just works dully.
Both parents are not good at communication and education.
After a long while, the head teacher said: "Every family has its own scriptures that are difficult to recite, and we have to live this life."
Bai Tang sighed softly: "There are so many difficult sutras to recite. It's just that some of them don't realize their shortcomings and are unwilling to change. This sutra is naturally difficult to recite. Life is something that cannot be changed. It doesn’t make much sense to think about it, but I can reshape my thoughts and determine my emotions.”
"Some things cannot be reconciled if the conditions are not mature and have not been met. There is no need to reconcile. Don't force it if you can't reconcile it. Even parents and children are the same. Otherwise, you will still be hurt. If you take a step back, the world will be brighter. But if you only have I am retreating alone, and there is a cliff behind me."
The head teacher is also a parent. To be honest, when people become parents, they will always be a lot more forgiving to other parents, and they will feel that there are no bad parents in the world. As long as they love you, it seems they can forget about it.
What Bai Tang said made sense, and she couldn't refute: "Bai Tang, but you still want to study, and they still want to support you in studying. What if she doesn't let you study?"
Bai Tang sneered: "If you want to use this to make me surrender, someone who has no choice but to endure it may just hate her, but I am not a helpless person, and I will not forgive her. She should be raised." If you can take care of yourself, that's it. Teacher, please go back. I won't commit suicide. You see, I'm very conscious now."
It is the responsibility of parents to raise their children, and it is also the obligation of children to support their parents.
Talking only about responsibility and not about love sounds like it is indeed hurtful, but isn’t it your own doing? What are you doing to blame others? It’s just your own fault.