Chapter 693 Suffocation (5)
Bai Tang endured it and went back.
After all, He Wenxiu is the biological mother of the original owner. She actually loves this daughter, not the one who raised her. She said that the original owner was alienated from her, so why is she different? She hoped that the original owner would take the initiative, but the original owner tried to take the initiative, only to be disappointed. For a sensitive and timid person like the original owner, He Wenxiu's approach was a powerful dissuasive medicine.
After all, the original owner was not willing to hurt her family, and as a borrower of the original owner's body, she had no reason to hurt her, unless they did something illegal and harmful.
The head teacher took He Wenxiu out. There were many people here, which was not good for He Wenxiu.
He Wenxiu felt extremely uncomfortable, and Bai Tang's words kept echoing in her mind.
Was she really wrong?
Her own daughter said she was not a qualified mother.
Is she a failure as a mother?
The head teacher easily pulled He Wenxiu away.
He found a place with few people and said to her in a nice voice: "Mother Baitang, I am also a mother. I also have some experience in teaching children."
He Wenxiu shed tears and looked at the class teacher without speaking.
The head teacher said again: "You are using the wrong method. As parents, no one hopes that their children will succeed and their daughters will succeed. You just heard what Bai Tang said. If someone says something bad about you in front of a group of people, you will do it. It's uncomfortable to be angry, let alone your daughter. She will definitely feel uncomfortable if her own mother says this. She is only fifteen years old now, still young, and has strong self-esteem. You have to take care of her self-esteem. "
He Wenxiu: "When I was a child, my mother said the same thing about me. I haven't lived until now, and I haven't thought about seeking death or life."
Class teacher: "That was back then. Today's children are exposed to everything earlier and are more sensitive. Especially since Bai Tang did not grow up with you, her mind is even more sensitive. Your words and deeds have a great impact on her. My child, please be more patient and encouraging, don’t criticize Yiwei, and don’t often compare her with others.”
He Wenxiu was puzzled: "Who can she compete with if she doesn't compare with others? She will never make progress if she doesn't compare with others!"
Class teacher: "Bai Tang's mother, don't worry, you, let her compare with yourself, this is a more appropriate way."
"Oh." He Wenxiu seemed to have heard it, but also seemed not to have heard it.
The head teacher patiently told He Wenxiu his parenting experience for a long time. I spent my own money to buy some fruit for Bai Tang before returning to school.
As long as the students are fine, it is a blessing to be the class teacher if nothing happens to the students.
"Bai Tang, you have a good rest, you know? Don't blame your mother. Your mother made some mistakes, but even if mother and daughter have an overnight feud, she still cares about you."
At their core, they tend to be kind and always persuasive.
The idea is beautiful, but if the conditions are not mature, this persuasion will turn into poison.
Bai Tang gently held the infusion line in his hand: "The person who left has already left."
head teacher:"?"
What is she saying? Weird.
Bai Tang's eyes were calm: "Teacher, you don't need to say anything more, and don't try to persuade her any more. If she never realizes her mistakes and never corrects them, Bai Tang will only have obligations to her. Hurt in the name of love. , which is even more heartbreaking.”
"She loves me, so she can say anything bad about me, or even slander me."
"She loves me. I want to forgive her difficulties and understand her difficulties, but I am not understood."
"Teacher, I don't want her to be unrepentant. I don't want her to always think about her own grievances and never think about the grievances of others."