Chapter 2582 The Hardships of a Full-Time Mother
Xiaojie's mother looked at Ye Qingqing gratefully. Everyone else was just watching the fun. No one spoke for her, only Ye Qingqing.
She and Ye Qingqing only have a nod of friendship at most and have never even spoken to each other. However, she envies Ye Qingqing for being young and beautiful. Her husband is handsome and capable. He also dotes on his wife. Even her mother-in-law is a kind person and treats her daughter-in-law as her own daughter. Loved the same.
All the women in the neighborhood are envious of Ye Qingqing. Which woman doesn't want to live a life of being pampered and cared for?
It's a pity that most women not only fail to become little princesses in their parents' families, but also become super mothers after getting married, having to worry about everything inside and out.
She doesn't want to be a housewife who stays at home. Not only will she be out of touch with society, but she will also have no status in the family. Economic income determines the family status.
This is an ironclad fact. There are many mothers in Xiaojie’s mother’s company who have become full-time housewives and then go to work, all because they don’t make money and have no status at home. It was okay in the first year, and your husband will understand your hard work, but as time goes by, After a long time, my husband only felt disgusted.
Occasionally, when you buy some expensive cosmetics and bags, your husband will intentionally or unintentionally say that it is hard to make money and that you are under too much pressure. This is obviously because he dislikes you for spending too much money and is considerate and understanding that he is too tired to make money.
Asking your husband for money every month feels like begging. Women with stronger self-esteem can't stand that kind of life, so after their children go to kindergarten, women all come out to look for jobs. Even if the money earned is not enough to pay the nanny's salary.
Only when a woman earns her own money can she feel a sense of security, have the confidence to stand up in front of men and parents-in-law, and only then can she leave herself the best escape route.
Therefore, her husband once asked her to resign and focus on raising the children, but Xiaojie's mother did not agree and retorted to her husband: "You have a lower education than me and our incomes are about the same. It would be more suitable for you to resign."
There is no law that requires a woman to stay at home and take care of the children full-time, and men can do that too.
After Xiaojie's mother said that, her husband never mentioned resigning again. It is precisely because of this that Xiaojie's mother works harder. She must work harder and be better than her husband, so that she can have a broader future.
To put it mildly, a couple's life is purely a cooperative relationship. Since they cooperate, there must be separation. If they don't get along well, they have to separate. She is ready for divorce at any time, and the conflicts with her parents-in-law are getting more and more serious now. Deeply, she became more and more determined to divorce.
The old lady glared at Ye Qingqing angrily, "How is my grandson short? You are blind. You cursed my grandson to be short for no reason. Is your son tall? He is a short carrot!"
Ye Qingqing didn't know whether to laugh or cry, "My little pig is only three years old this year, and your little hero is five years old. Old lady, it's not right for you to compare like this."
The old lady couldn't help it, but she was still envious from the bottom of her heart. She was so tall at only three years old and still strong. She was well raised, but her grandson was not bad either.
"My little boy grew up late, just like his father. My son didn't grow until high school. He's grown so well now. He's also got a doctorate and manages so many people. He's very promising." The old lady said proudly.
Her son is a capable person within a hundred miles of her hometown village. Even the mayor was polite to her when he saw her and praised her for her ability to raise children!
Ye Qingqing twitched the corner of her mouth. She had met Xiaojie's father a few times. His IQ was definitely fine, but his height was definitely a flaw. Mao estimated that he was at most 168, which might not be enough. He was not as tall as her!