Chapter 2618: Women Can’t Just Live for Their Children

The skinny old lady was deep in conversation and talked about her daughter-in-law again, this time with praise.

"Actually, my daughter-in-law is pretty good except that she can't work. She's not a pushover. My son gave me 10,000 yuan a month for living expenses. My daughter-in-law said it was too little, so she took the initiative to add another 10,000 yuan because of the current price. It’s too high and the money is too little to get anything done. Usually when my daughter-in-law goes abroad to play, she brings gifts to me and the old man. Her parents are the same as ours, and everyone has a lot.”

"Everyone is mutual, and the same goes for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you are good to your daughter-in-law, she will naturally be good to you. But your daughter-in-law is also smart and knows that you are not a lavish spender. She manages her life in an orderly manner and gives her money. You can rest assured." Others sighed.

Everyone nodded, the reason is actually very simple, but many people still don't understand, like Grandma Xiaojie's family, they have to use their daughter-in-law as an ATM machine, making the family's life miserable, which makes people laugh.

"I don't think this marriage can be divorced. After all, there is a child, and divorce is the fault of the child." The skinny old lady analyzed and compared it with her daughter.

"My daughter also thought about divorce at the beginning, but every time she thought of my granddaughter, she couldn't bear it. She would rather suffer and work harder. After more than ten years of stumbling, she is finally getting through it."

Ye Qingqing couldn't help but said: "But your daughter is not worth it, she is too tired."

It feels like the happiness of this old lady, her daughter, and her family is all achieved through her daughter's blood and sweat. It hurts her daughter alone but brings happiness to the whole family.

The skinny old lady was stunned for a moment and sighed: "What can I do if I am tired? This is my fate. Women, getting married is a gamble. If you make the wrong gamble, you will suffer all your life."

"Isn't that why you want to have a son no matter what? Men are happy no matter what they do, but women are the ones who suffer. So when a woman marries a man, she must keep her eyes open and listen to the opinions of adults. She can't jump into the fire pit when her brain gets hot. , There is no regret in buying medicine!”

Several old ladies were filled with emotion, perhaps thinking of their own life experiences. Now they all live a prosperous life, but they also suffered hardships when they were young, and they may also encounter evil mothers-in-law and scumbag husbands, so they feel this Very deep.

Ye Qingqing didn't agree with it, "If things don't go well, just break up. Why hang yourself by a crooked-necked tree?"

"You young people think too simplistically. Divorce is not that easy. It's easy for adults, but what about children? Children suffer so much. No matter who they follow, there will be a gap in love. If they meet a bad stepfather again, Stepmother, the child will have to suffer the consequences. As a woman, you only live for yourself in the years before you get married. After you have a child, you live for the child." An old lady sighed.

Others thought so, even Lin Shufang. The atmosphere became a little depressing. Ye Qingqing frowned, feeling unhappy.

Maybe it's the generation gap. She doesn't agree with what these old ladies say. What does it mean that a woman has to live for her children all her life? A woman's world is not just about her husband and children, she also has to have her own splendor.

"I think differently from you. Women can't wrong themselves, but they can't rely too much on men. Women must have their own careers at all times, so that women can have a way out. Even if they leave men, they can still support themselves and their children. Men They are human beings, and women are human beings. Why can women just swallow it when they are wronged, and divorce men if they are not good? Instead of letting their children live in an environment of quarrels every day, it is better to lead a happy single parent life with their children! "

Ye Qingqing felt that she needed to correct the backward thinking of these old ladies. Now is a new era. Women no longer have to live in the same place, and they no longer have to settle for perfection. They can still live a very free life.