Chapter 1097 Responsibility

"Yiping, listen to me,"

"Is it useful? This is not about you giving lectures in class, the key is to do it," Feng Yiping flicked the mouse, "I ask you, when I proposed a prenuptial agreement to you, did you object?"

"No, I have never objected,"

"You have never objected? So when your parents were furious after seeing the agreement, why are you not as sure as you are now? Why do I think you were full of resentment after signing the agreement?"

He also knows this?

"I'm curious how I know this? Although my sister has never told me what happened between her and you, can I not know what I want to know?"

"Do you know what my first reaction was when I heard the news? If you were in front of me at that time, I might not move my hands, but I would definitely move my feet."

"Yiping, I, I understand your mood,"

"Understand? How could you possibly understand? That silly sister of mine has developed to that level with you and has made up her mind to take you home to meet your parents. It's better for you. Such an important thing is still on a day like the Mid-Autumn Festival. Your dad Mom said a few words, but you actually refused to go,"

"Yiping, I know I was wrong,"

"Do you know? I can't see it. If you really know, why haven't you taken any action yet?"

"Let me ask you a few questions. Before I agreed to take you back to see my parents during the Mid-Autumn Festival, did my sister make any requests to you or your family? Did she ask for jewelry? Did she ask for a car? House? She was responsible for decorating your house, right? Did she ask for her name to be added to the house book? "

"You have been together for a long time, right? Do you think she has made any excessive demands? It can be said that she has not even made any demands, right? Although we don't care about some things, you must always have a score in your heart. Well, during the time you two were dating, did you spend more money or did she spend more money? "

"It's her," Rowe said.

"So you know," Feng Yiping stood up, "money can't explain everything, but at least it shows a personal attitude."

"I think it's my sister's fault," he shook his head. "She respects your family as her own. As time goes by, you will think that everything she does is natural, right? , because we have good financial conditions, so we don’t have to worry about these, or in other words, how much money my sister spends to honor your parents and family, it’s all what she should do, right?”

Luo Wei thought of the set of lenses he spent more than 10,000 yuan to give to Feng Zhenchang, and what his mother said after she found out. How could he have anything to say now?

"Has she ever taken the initiative to make any material requests for you? She has already renovated her new house and is talking about marriage. Have you and your family ever taken the initiative to buy anything for her? Even if it is a set of clothes that are not brand-name, Even if it’s a set of silver jewelry?”

"Whether we want to accept it or not is one thing. Whether you do it or not is another matter. Sometimes the intention is the most important and the attitude is the most important. In other words, if you just don't do anything, you don't have to say some things. , your family must have an attitude,"

"To take a step back, it means neither doing anything nor saying anything. We are almost a family anyway. What you say is irrelevant, but you should have a clue in your heart."

"You obviously didn't,"

"I don't want to elevate this matter, but is it that my sister is too easy-going, too honest, and too generous, making you think that she is just trying to get ahead?"

"No, I didn't think so," Luo Wei quickly denied.

Feng Yiping ignored his excuse, "I guess you have never taken the initiative to mention your family background to my sister, your family's family background, right?"

"No," Luo Wei's voice was as light as a gnat.

He felt very blushing at being scolded by Feng Yiping. Yes, it sounded really excessive for him and his family.

If everything had gone smoothly, it would have been said that my family would not have spent a single penny. No, in a nutshell, I would have made money by marrying the richest man's sister into the family.

The problem is that I am not the kind of man who is so good that everyone will fall in love with him, and Feng Yuxuan is not the kind of woman who is worried about getting married.

"My sister definitely didn't discuss with you how to deal with your family's wealth and your family's wealth in the future, right?"

Luo Wei nodded silently.

For ordinary girls, as long as the person is not an only child, they will definitely inquire about these things before confirming the relationship.

"You decide your money. You don't think much about the assets in her name. She should make the decision, right? This is reasonable,"

What else does Luo Wei have to say? "yes,"

"Then I really don't understand why you lost your temper, got so angry, and felt insulted after seeing the prenuptial agreement? Is it this reason or other reasons?"

Feng Yiping was relatively polite and did not directly mention his parents or other reasons.

"Yiping, mainly because my parents are old-school people and can't accept this kind of approach,"

"Old-school people? I can't see it, right? Your family didn't do anything that the old-school should do. Did you invite someone to propose marriage, or did you prepare a gift for the betrothal?"

Luo Wei once again had nothing to say. Yes, except for the house he bought early, he didn't do anything else. He just wanted to go to Feng's house for a quick trip and meet his parents again. After the house was decorated, he was ready to wedding.

"This definitely shows some of your style of doing things. For yourself, it is liberalism, and for others, that is, for my sister, it is Marxism,"

"At the same time, I think this should be a general outbreak, it should be a general outbreak of some previous dissatisfaction,"

"Yiping, as a man, you should be able to understand me. Those are my parents. Sometimes, you have to follow their orders."

"This is what disappoints me the most, Luo Wei, do you think you are a man? No, I think you are still a boy at best, a good baby who listens to your mother,"

"On such an important matter, you still obey your parents' opinions one-sidedly. Then why do you want to have free love? Can't you just let your parents arrange it? You can marry whoever they ask you to marry."

"The more you talk, the more worried I become. With your attitude, my sister will be very angry if she really gets married."

"What does it mean to be a man? It means to be responsible! What does it mean to be responsible? It means to be responsible first for your family, not only for your parents, but also for your wife and children,"

"You need to coordinate the relationship between your parents and your wife and children, especially your mother and your wife,"

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been an unsolvable problem, and it is also the issue that many girls worry about most before getting married. Feng Yiping always believes that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well. On the surface, it seems to be the woman's fault, but in fact, men are also involved.

As a father-in-law, he failed to take good care of his wife. As a son, he has the greatest responsibility. He failed to make good use of his own advantages and coordinate the relationship between the two parties.

According to Luo Wei's current attitude of being a good boy who listens to his mother, it goes without saying that if there is any conflict after marriage, he will naturally lean towards his mother's side.

"You are about to get married and start a family. You don't ask about right or wrong. You just do what your parents say. Don't harm other girls as soon as possible. You haven't even weaned yourself yet. Why are you talking about starting a family?"

At this time, Luo Wei wished that Feng Yiping would give him a good beating, that would be more comfortable.

"If it weren't for my stupid sister, I wouldn't be too lazy to say so much. As for you, you are now teaching in a university, teaching adults how to behave and do things. I have said so much today, and there are some truths that you should be able to figure out. , go back and think about it carefully. If you really want to understand it, you will understand how to do some things."

He could see that his sister was still stubborn and couldn't let go of Luo Wei.

Luo Wei, how should I put it, has a soft temper. If he can understand some problems clearly and know that he has to live his own life, from a personality analysis alone, he would actually be good with his sister. This is a person who has no career ambitions. As a man, he will be able to share more family responsibilities in the future, which will complement his sister.

Of course, the key is that his sister has taken a liking to him and obviously can't let him go.

"My parents will go to the United States this time and will stay for at least twenty days to a month. If you haven't figured it out by the time they come back, then I will help you make a decision and let my sister stop thinking about it. That’s all,”

Feng Yiping pressed the phone, "Wu Qian, is Mr. Wang here? Okay, I'll see him right away,"

…………

"Brother," Luo Jia came over happily, "How was the talk?"

In fact, she didn't care much about how the conversation went, she cared about how Feng Yiping was inside.

However, before he could see Feng Yiping inside, Wang Zhiqiang from the sales department walked into the office and closed the door - could you please stop being so arrogant?

"Where are you going? I'm going back to school," Luo Wei said, not even looking at his sister until now.

Feng Yiping's words made him angry, annoyed and embarrassed.

Especially when someone younger than him told him he was not a man, he would definitely get angry even if he was a good-tempered man in another situation. However, under the foreshadowing of so many events and words, he was really speechless. Look at When I got up, it seemed that I was really like what he said.

Now he just wants to go back to his dormitory to be quiet and think about it.

that's all? It's past four o'clock, and I can't even make it to dinner. So where is my opportunity for intimate contact? So Luo Jia looked at her brother and felt angry.

ps: The third update is here.