661 This In-Law Was Right
"That won't be the case." Shen Nuo said with certainty, "Lu Man doesn't care about that, and my in-laws are not like that either."
"Yes, if you give too much, I'm afraid you won't accept it." The old lady said.
"Then it's better to let go of the gift money first, and let's discuss it with the in-laws later." Shen Nuo said.
"Okay, I have ready-made three gold here." The old lady said happily.
"Mom, I'm afraid the ones you've used are not suitable." Lin Liye reminded in a low voice.
"What are you talking about?" the old lady said, "It's all new. Before I met Lu Mann, Zhuo Li was so old that he didn't even have a girlfriend. I was anxious. I went to buy the three golds first." Let it go home and let it go, isn't it a good start? Just wait for Zhuo Li to get engaged, so I can give it away."
Both Lin Liye and Shen Nuo twitched their faces, and the old lady happily went to get the three gold coins she had prepared earlier.
The three golds are gold necklaces, gold earrings, and gold bracelets. No matter whether they conform to the current aesthetic fashion or not, they must be prepared. This is the custom of engagement.
When the old lady came back, she had three exquisite boxes in her hand.
"Manman." The old lady sat next to Lu Mann, "This is the three gold coins for engagement, take a look and see if you like it."
Lu Mann opened it to look, because the old lady had bought it for many years, so it was inevitable that the style was not as new as it is now.
But what the old lady bought was heavyweight, and no matter how new the style of gold jewelry was, it would look like that.
Needless to say, earrings and necklaces, the pair of dragon and phoenix bracelets are wide and thick, and look solid.
Lu Mann accepted it with a smile, and naturally said that she liked it very much.
The old lady could be happy, and called Han Xijin and Shen Nuo, "Let's discuss the gift money."
Xia Qingwei quickly waved his hands, "Madam, since Lu Mann and Xiao Han are about to get engaged, and they will become a family in the future, let's not talk about each other. I know you want to follow the traditional customs. But we really You don’t need to pay attention to this. Zhuo Li really helped us a lot, in fact, Manman’s achievements today are all due to Zhuo Li’s support behind the scenes. We don’t need to use gift money to measure how much we value the woman.”
Xia Qingwei smiled, "Since the first time I met Manman, you have loved her like your own family. You have given her all the family affection that Manman has never experienced before. These are priceless. Marrying Manman in, I will marry you." Don't worry too. In the past, the amount of bride price represented the importance the husband's family attached to his fiancée, but now it's changed, and it's become a mutual comparison. But Zhuo Li, and you, I can see the importance attached to Man Man .I still think gift money is not important.”
Besides, it is difficult to calculate.
For a big family like the Han family, if there are many aspects involved in the marriage of the family, the gift money is easy to calculate.
But now, if the Han family gave too much, she really couldn't accept it. What would she do if she had nothing to do with a gift of tens of millions?
But if it is less, the Han family can't afford it, not to mention that there are other children in the Han family who will also get married. When giving gifts to them in the future, how much is appropriate?
If you give too much, you are afraid that she and Lu Mann will have ideas, if you give too little, you are afraid that the other party will not like it.
The Han family is really in a dilemma in this regard.
Xia Qingwei thought of all of this.
Although he didn't say it directly, who would not hear it?
Everyone understood what Xia Qingwei meant.
The second elder is more and more happy, the in-laws are right!
So, the question of gift money was left alone.