Chapter 2618 Inferiority or Self-Esteem? (Superior)

In fact, Li Yueqin also likes Ji Feng very much. Although Ji Feng is a son-in-law, he is polite and simple. After many contacts with Li Yueqin, he can also see that Ji Feng is not the kind of scheming person. He was very sincere when treating Li Yantong, and Li Yueqin accepted Ji Feng from the bottom of her heart.

However, Ji Feng saw that his sister Li Yantong's complexion was not very good, she seemed a little depressed...

"Sister, I think you seem to be in a bad mood?"

Ji Feng asked.

Li Yantong's expression darkened, she just shook her head and didn't say anything.

Seeing this, Ji Feng couldn't help asking: "Sister, did something happen? You didn't even tell me?"

"Don't ask!" Li Yantong couldn't help but shook her head, "This matter...you can't solve it either."

"You haven't said anything yet, how do you know that I can't solve it?" Ji Feng smiled, "It may be a problem for you, but it might be easy for me to solve it? Right?"

"well……"

Li Yantong still didn't say anything, just glanced at her mother.

Ji Feng was a little surprised. Looking at his sister's appearance, this matter seems to be related to Aunt Li?

He suddenly remembered that it might have something to do with his sister's relationship problems, because the last time he came, the mother and daughter had some troubles because of Li Yantong's relationship problems.

"Xiaofeng, don't ask her any more, I'll tell you."

Sure enough, Li Yueqin couldn't help it anymore and said, "Your sister is in a bad mood because she did something wrong and was criticized by me."

Li Yantong said angrily, "Mom!"

Li Yueqin ignored her daughter's signal, but said: "The thing is like this, last time I told you that your sister had already broken up with that person named Liu Sa, but she actually lied to me. Only then did I find out that she and that Liu Sa were still dating in secret!"

Hearing this, Ji Feng couldn't help but look at his sister Li Yantong, but he wasn't too surprised, because Li Yantong had already told him that she still had contact with Liu Sa when he came last time. And the last time Ji Feng came, it happened that Liu Sa was begging Li Yueqin to promise him and his sister.

But now it seems that Li Yueqin should have discovered this matter.

"Then... what do you think?!" Ji Feng asked.

"My thoughts are still the same as before. That young man named Liu Sa is not bad, but he is not suitable for your sister." Li Yueqin said: "So, I let them divide."

"mom!"

Li Yantong said angrily, "Do you know Liu Sa?"

Li Yueqin said: "I don't need to know him, Xiaotong. Although my mother has no knowledge, she has lived half her life anyway. She has seen all kinds of people. I don't dislike that young man named Liu Sa. He has no money. My family is poor, and I don't dislike anything else about him, but his character makes me very disliked!"

"Can……"

Li Yantong was interrupted by Li Yueqin just as she was about to speak.

I just heard Li Yueqin say: "Xiaotong, it doesn't matter if I like it or not, because the most important thing is to find someone you like. Of course, Mom understands this, but this Liu Sa is really not suitable for you."

"why?!"

Li Yantong said: "Could it be that, as you said, it's just because of his personality that you think the two of us are not suitable?"

Li Yueqin said: "That's right."

"Then you are unreasonable!" Li Yantong said angrily, "Mom, Liu Sa has a very strong personality and is very motivated. I really don't know what you are dissatisfied with him!"

Li Yueqin sighed softly, and said, "Xiaotong, don't you understand what I told you? That young man Liu Sa is good in everything, but he has too low self-esteem! People with low self-esteem are always very empty in their hearts, low self-esteem It also brings selfishness, if you live with such a person, you will definitely not be happy in the future!"

"Think about it, what does a person with low self-esteem look like in life?"

Li Yueqin said: "On the surface, it may seem that such a person has a strong sense of self-esteem, but are you sure that he can clearly distinguish between self-esteem and inferiority complex? A person with low self-esteem may say something unintentionally in your life, or Any trivial matter may touch his very sensitive nerves, and the result will be either a quarrel or a cold war!"

"Once or twice is fine, what if there are more times?" Li Yueqin asked, "After a long time and more times, the relationship between you will fade away, so what will be the final result?!"

Li Yantong listened silently.

But looking at her expression, there was some disbelief.

Looking at it, Ji Feng couldn't help but sigh in his heart. On this point, he felt that what Li Yueqin said was right.

Of course, up to now, he has only met that person named Liu Sa, and the two of them have not even said a word directly, so it is hard for Ji Feng to say what is going on with this person named Liu Sa, and whether he has low self-esteem.

But if Li Yueqin saw it correctly and said that Liu Sa was indeed a person with low self-esteem, then Li Yueqin was right to prevent her sister from being with him!

A person with a strong inferiority complex in his heart may often show strong self-esteem on the outside, but when such a person communicates with others, perhaps just a word from others will touch his sensitive nerves.

Some people with particularly low self-esteem even do very extreme things at certain times, and such cases often happen.

So on this point, Ji Feng is more inclined to Li Yueqin's approach.

"Sister, do you really know Liu Sa?"

Finally, Ji Feng spoke, and he said: "I don't know how this person is, but there is one thing, I think you are the only daughter of my aunt no matter what, she will not harm you, right?"

Li Yantong said: "Little brother, I didn't mean that, but... my mother really doesn't understand Liu Sa, he is not as inferior as she said!"

"Then what if it is?" Ji Feng asked.

"if……"

Li Yantong shook her head and said: "This kind of thing is yes, no it is no, what if?!"

Li Yueqin wanted to speak immediately when she heard the words, Ji Feng quickly gave her a wink, motioned her not to speak, and then said: "Sister, let's take a step back, if this person named Liu Sa is not very inferior , Then think about it carefully, is he a very confident person in his usual behavior, speech and manners and other aspects?"

Li Yantong couldn't help being startled when she heard the words, Ji Feng's words surprised her, because she had never really considered it from this aspect.

Li Yueqin couldn't help being slightly surprised, she didn't expect Ji Feng to speak from this angle, but soon she understood what Ji Feng meant, and couldn't help but nodded secretly, Ji Feng's method might really be effective .

Seeing that his sister was in a daze, Ji Feng smiled and said: "Sister, let's think about it from another angle. Is what Auntie said right? A person with a strong sense of inferiority usually shows strong self-esteem. This is relative, because a truly confident person will not care about a little bit of verbal slander or suspicion from others."

Seeing Li Yantong's pensive look, Ji Feng continued: "Sister, think about it carefully. When you were dating Liu Sa, was he sensitive in some aspects, such as when you talked about money?" When, or when it comes to the future and many other aspects, does he behave differently in some respects when you talk about that issue?"

"he……"

Li Yantong opened her mouth, but she didn't know how to answer. But seeing the slight change in the look on her face, she was obviously moved by Ji Feng's persuasion.

Li Yueqin was secretly happy when she saw it, she really didn't expect Ji Feng to persuade Li Yantong.

Naturally, she knows her own daughter best. Although Li Yantong is usually weak, she is also very stubborn sometimes. Liu Sa's people come and go, but who knows that her daughter is still secretly in touch with Liu Sa.

But now, under Ji Feng's enlightenment, Li Yantong seems to be showing signs of loosening up!

"Sister, think again, is Auntie doing this for your own good?" Ji Feng asked.

"I also know, but what she did was a bit wrong on this point. She objected before she knew anything. It's too domineering!" Li Yantong said helplessly.

"Then why did Auntie object?" Ji Feng asked.

"Isn't it the reason just mentioned, she said Liu Sa is inferior!" Li Yantong said.

But Ji Feng shook his head and said with a smile: "This is not the fundamental reason! Actually, the reason why Auntie objected is because she loves you and is afraid that you will be hurt! In fact, Auntie can do it all according to your wishes, you agree That's good, she will say yes to whoever you choose, so that she will neither make you feel disgusted nor make Liu Sa hold grudges, but why does she still want to stop?...Am I right?"

Li Yantong was silent.

She glanced at her mother and saw the wrinkles on her mother's face. She couldn't help but think of when she was in Yunshan, mother and daughter depended on each other, how much her mother loved her, and her eyes turned red.

"Sister, you insist on your choice and want to fight for your love, that's right." Ji Feng continued: "It's also right that Auntie stopped you and wanted to check it out for you, but why did things still happen? This level? Who is wrong? "

"..."

Li Yantong couldn't help being slightly taken aback, yes, who was wrong?

She said, "Yes... Liu Sa was wrong?"

Ji Feng shook his head and said, "No, it's the way you deal with the problem that's wrong!"

Li Yantong was taken aback again, she didn't understand what Ji Feng's words meant.

Ji Feng said: "Let's put it this way, Auntie thinks that Liu Sa is inferior, so she has her reasons, because Auntie has a very rich experience in life, she must be more accurate than you in judging people, please admit it, sister." ?”