Chapter 309
Chen Ailan felt very strange: "Didn't Dawei just get married two years ago? He has been married twice, why is he getting married again?"
Chen Ailan was unhappy when she talked about it, and she was too ashamed to say it.
After she married Yu Jiefang, she had a good life and never treated her children badly.
Since her parents were the old-fashioned son-loving parents, Chen Ailan had a shadow. After she had her children, she tried to treat them equally. The daughter was younger, so she would take care of her more carefully, but there was no serious favoritism.
She repeatedly told the two brothers to love their younger sister more.
After she had a daughter-in-law, she repeatedly taught her son to love his daughter-in-law.
But people of her generation would still give some money to their parents' home.
Chen Ailan was very restrained in this regard, but Yu Jiefang couldn't bear to make things difficult for her, so the couple didn't give money to the Chen family.
Let's say that Chen Dawei got married twice, and each time he borrowed the money for the betrothal gift from Chen Ailan.
If you don't give it to him, he will sit there and not leave, calling you "Auntie" all the time, and even kneeling down!
Yu Li's grandmother also cried and begged Chen Ailan to take care of her nephew more.
"After all, your nephew and you both have the surname Chen. If you don't help your family, will you help someone else? When you die, your nephew will still help you! If your son and daughter are not filial in the future, won't you still have to rely on your nephew?"
Chen Ailan didn't believe in this, but how could one person resist the secular world? No matter how reluctant she was, she still paid a lot of money.
The key is that if the other party lives a good life after paying the money, it's fine.
Did the Chen family educate their son in a mess? Thinking of this, Chen Ailan had a heart attack!
Chen's eldest sister-in-law was full of pride: "Ailan, your nephew is getting married again because he is capable! It's hard for others to find a wife. His wife is disobedient, so he divorces her and gets a new one. Wouldn't you be proud if you tell others about it?"
Chen Ailan wanted to curse, but she was too lazy to start a conflict: "We'll talk about it later. I may not go back for the New Year. When your son gets married, I can give the gift money, but it's not my turn to pay the betrothal gift. If you have the ability to get married again and again, you can find a way to pay the betrothal gift yourself."
After that, she asked Chen's eldest sister-in-law to give the phone to Wang Xinghua.
Mrs. Chen was still unwilling: "Ailan, look at what you are saying! Dawei is your nephew, what's the difference between him and your own son? Even Dawei has the same surname as you!
You can't forget your family even if you get rich. My mother cried yesterday and said she hadn't seen you for a long time. You can't have raised your daughter in vain..."
Chen Ailan was furious: "You don't care about your son, and you want me, an aunt, to pay for it? Did he pay me back for the money he borrowed from me for the first two marriages? If you have money to get married, you might as well pay me back first!
You are so old, but you don't do serious things, you just know how to get married! Get married once and have two children! Now you have four children! Think about how to raise the children first! Hurry up and give the phone to my daughter-in-law, otherwise, let alone the money, I won't even see you in person!
Don't use my mother as an excuse, it's useless!"
Mrs. Chen was scolded so much that her face turned red. She still hoped to get some benefits from the Yu family in the future, so she could only give the phone to Wang Xinghua.
Chen Ailan talked to Wang Xinghua about the children and then hung up the phone.
Then she couldn't help but complain to Yu Li about her mother's family.
"Your grandmother has been partial to me since I was a child. She gave all the good things in the house to your uncle. I remember that she was reluctant to give me the rotten tomatoes in the summer, and had to let your uncle eat them. She said behind my back that my daughter's life was cheap and it would be a waste to eat them.
Why do you think of your daughter now?"
She has been filial to her mother's family for many years.
She sent the money that Yu Li gave her to Wang Xinghua. She was not at home this year, but Wang Xinghua would go to Chen's house to give gifts during the holidays.
The wine and meat she brought back were naturally more than other families, not less than other families.
But people are just unsatisfied.
Chen Ailan was indignant: "Your cousin Dawei, after having a child, abused his wife, beat her away and didn't allow her to look after the child, and he was not good to the child himself. Two of his wives were beaten away. If I didn't feel sorry for those children, I wouldn't give them anything."
Yu Li felt distressed when she heard Chen Ailan's words.
Many women who grow up in such an environment will become people who favor boys over girls and make things difficult for women.
But her mother felt more sorry for girls because she had suffered.
The reason why a tomato was mentioned repeatedly that year was because the trauma in her heart had not been healed.
Yu Li cut a big red apple with her own hands: "Mom, don't think too much. Even if we go back for the New Year, we can only give a share of money. In the future, you will be responsible for part of grandma's retirement according to your mood, and the rest that uncle should be responsible for will not escape."
Chen Ailan felt better after eating the apple given by her daughter, and couldn't help but mention Chen Dawei's ex-wife.
"In fact, Dawei's ex-wife is a good person. Your aunt is a jerk who bullied her away."
Yu Li's mind gradually emerged with Chen Dawei's appearance.
Suddenly, her heart skipped a beat.
Some things from her childhood that she had subconsciously forgotten came to her mind again.
She pondered for a while and said to Chen Ailan: "Mom, in fact, there is one thing I haven't told you. When I was five or six years old, I went to my grandmother's house with you to pay New Year's greetings, and my cousin Dawei..."
Yu Li couldn't even say it.
Chen Ailan was stunned: "What did this beast do?"
Yu Li decided to tell the truth: "He was twelve or thirteen years old at that time. He lied to me that there was candy in the west room. After I went in, he asked me to cover my eyes and wanted to play the game of touching sticks with me. But before it started, my eldest brother came in and had a fight with him."
Chen Ailan stood up: "Is it because of this?!"
She still remembered this incident.
When the children fought, she was afraid of scaring Yu Li, so she didn't deal with the matter in front of her daughter, and thought it had nothing to do with Yu Li.
She taught Yu Tuanjie a lesson in private, but Yu Tuanjie was stubborn and refused to tell her why they fought no matter how she asked.
Chen Dawei had a scar on his face, and the Chen family took the opportunity to scold Yu Tuanjie severely. Chen Dasao used this as an excuse to take away a lot of good things from Chen Ailan.
Even when Chen Ailan was asked to pay the betrothal gift every time she got married, she used the excuse that Yu Tuanjie had caused Chen Dawei to be disfigured and it was difficult to find a wife.
It turned out to be because of this!
Chen Ailan was almost mad, but then she thought of another thing.
"Your cousin's daughter cries as soon as she arrives at Chenjia Village. She won't tell me what she's afraid of. Even though she's married and has children now, she still doesn't like to go back to her parents' home. It's impossible..."
The more Chen Ailan thought about it, the more she felt that Chen Dawei was even worse than she thought!
When Yu Tuanjie came over after finishing his business, Chen Ailan asked hurriedly: "Do you know all the things Chen Dawei did?"
Yu Tuanjie's face turned pale: "Mom, why are you talking about this?"
Chen Ailan said solemnly: "Of course I have to mention it! It should have been mentioned a long time ago! I ask you, do you know everything?!"
Yu Tuanjie was silent for a while, and said: "I saw it several times. The time he wanted to bully Li Zi, I beat him up severely, and he didn't dare to do it since then. But I heard that he harassed more than one person... I told my aunt, and my aunt said that Dawei was joking with the little girl, and said that if I dared to tell others, she would tell others that I was that kind of person.
If this kind of thing gets out, the girl's reputation will be ruined. I was young at that time and didn't dare to intervene... Later, my second brother and I didn't have any contact with Chen Dawei, so we didn't know about his affairs."
Speaking of this, Yu Tuanjie was very ashamed. He only protected his sister at the beginning.
But he really had no choice.
Because this kind of sexual harassment is so common, many girls have experienced it when they were young. There is no actual bullying, but they just want to take advantage of you in various ways.
That kind of naked eyes, teasing words, and borderline actions...
Don’t say that he is just an unrelated person, even the girl’s parents will often let it go for the sake of face.