Chapter 709: Treat Others Sincerely
Since then, Lao Fan has asked people to pay attention to Xie Tao's performance. As long as she goes on stage, Lao Fan will go and let go of everything.
After the performance, he invited him to dinner and gave him gifts, but Xie Tao was also busy. After taking the time to have dinner with him once, he declined again and again.
Xie Tao has been traveling all over the country for many years, how can she not know what Lao Fan is thinking, but she has no idea about finding another one. Her true love is Jin Opera, and her main focus is to train students. What's more, Lao Fan is a coal boss with no education. She really wants to be deeply involved. We can't even talk about it.
As for Lao Fan, he became more and more interested in her, and socialized less and less. Until now, he has never found a woman again, and has collected all the videos and recordings of Xie Tao's performances. Needless to say, after watching it many times, I gradually fell in love with Jin Opera.
However, after the second dinner, all the appointments and appointments were rejected. The last time they saw him at the theater troupe the day before yesterday, Xie Tao became a little impatient, and Lao Fan also restrained himself.
At first he didn't want to tell anyone, after all, he was forty-seven years old, how embarrassing it was, and only his younger brother knew something about it, but after thinking about it, he really liked it.
I wanted to ask Yang Lingyue for help, but Yu Li said that he was very busy recently and Lao Fan was obedient, so he didn't take the initiative to contact him.
I was overjoyed when I received a call yesterday. When it comes to chasing women, who can compare with this big brother?
After listening to Lao Fan telling the story of unrequited love, Yang Lingyue waited for a while before saying, "Brother Fan, it's not that big of a deal. Where did your ability to walk among hundreds of flowers without a single leaf touch you go?"
Lao Fan waved his hand: "Brother, stop teasing me, what's that called? Brother, I'm really interested in you, what did you say? Yes, I don't think about food anymore than tea. Help me, give me some ideas, what should I do?" this."
Yang Ling thought about it more and asked seriously: "Seriously?"
"Seriously, absolutely serious, we can get married right away."
"Listening to what you said, Teacher Xie Tao is a person who has escaped from low-level tastes. You are really awesome for choosing such a most difficult person. One thing you did better is to understand her profession and Interested."
Before Lao Fan could be happy, Yang Lingyue continued:
"But there's one thing you did very badly. Don't always treat her, give her gifts, and pester her.
If people don't talk about it, they will think that you are not serious and they won't fight you out. It's really because of the 1 million that you keep your word. Career-oriented women appreciate career-oriented men, especially those who can complementary. "
Lao Fan touched his chin with a regretful look on his face. He should have asked for advice a long time ago.
"How do you think we can remedy this?"
Yang Lingyue said slowly: "Before New Year's Day, you should go to the Jin Opera students to visit those students and give them some nutritional supplements or something..."
"Oh, brother, let's talk about it later, let's talk about it later."
"If you are too anxious and don't reflect on your mistakes, how can you talk about the future?"
"Yes, yes, brother is right."
Lao Fan had a sneer on his face, and gave himself a gentle slap as he spoke, and then quickly filled Yang Lingyue with a cup of tea. This was called flattery, and he didn't do this when he was doing business with him. It showed that he was really tempted. .
"It's not too late to make up for it. Use your advantage, well... it's money, set up a scholarship, bursary, etc. at the Jin Opera Academy, and finalize this matter before the students go on winter vacation."
Lao Fan nodded repeatedly: "I understand, we will do it right away."
Yang Lingyue extended his second finger: "Invite a few performances of the Jin Opera Troupe, and in the name of year-end condolences, invite the parents of local employees to watch and have dinner, and send some rice, flour, grains and oils."
Lao Fan suddenly realized: "Brother, what you mean is not to go to her directly, but care about the things she cares about and attract her attention."
"This just proves your heart and your willingness to take practical actions. Never tell her directly, it's just business to business."
Yang Lingyue nodded and raised his third finger and continued: "During the condolences performance, you should tell the parents of the employees about Jintou Group and what you will do after changing careers. Even if Teacher Xie Tao is not present, do you think she will eventually Don’t know?”
After saying this, Lao Fan stood up, paced back and forth, and smiled.
Looking at it, Yang Lingyue couldn't help but sigh: A man will be a boy until he dies.
"Don't get excited, these are just changes to your previous self-image. This kind of woman must persevere.
After doing the above things, has her attitude towards you changed? You have to find someone to understand and master it.
You have done so many things, it is not difficult to develop a few agents, right? Remember to treat others with sincerity and not let others feel that you are trying to play tricks on their teachers or leaders. "
After saying this, Lao Fan became even more excited, as if he had already succeeded. He laughed loudly and looked at Yang Lingyue with a scary look in his eyes.
"Brother, do you have practical experience?"
Yang Lingyue pointed to his face: "Why should I waste all this time?"
Lao Fan froze instantly.
Yang Lingyue instantly became happy and laughed for a while.
"Okay, let's continue. Generally speaking, her impression of you must have changed. Then you can go to her, but you can't continue the previous method. You have to work hard. If you have time to watch the show, show your concern in person. If you don’t have time, send a text message to say hello. You have to control this.”
"What if it doesn't change?"
"Then continue to do your thing and spend money on her Jin opera career, student training, and Jin opera promotion. Wouldn't it be a waste if you don't use your advantage?"
"Understood, when will you confess your love?"
"When she takes the initiative to ask about your career and has talked about it more than three times, especially when it comes to family and children, there is only one layer of window paper left, and it will be a matter of course.
Speaking of this, Brother Fan, you have to do your work seriously, which is what you said during the condolences performance. This is very important.
Even if you don't do it in person, you still need to understand it in detail, talk to others, and be able to explain clearly the ins and outs and the progress.
You know, men are very charming when they talk about their career. "
Lao Fan smiled again, but then asked worriedly: "What if she refuses?"
"Then decisively avoid people and disappear..."
"Ah? Wouldn't that be..."
"I haven't finished saying it yet. If you disappear for about three days, don't send any more text messages or make phone calls.
Don't do it for too long, as she will inevitably have a withdrawal reaction, that is, she won't be able to adapt to it because she no longer cares about you.
As long as someone tells you that she is distracted, you can show up and propose directly. "
Lao Fan's eyes widened. This brother has a handle on people's hearts. Well, he can really play with women's thoughts...
He couldn't help but clapped his hands: "Awesome, we'll do it right away."
After Yang Lingyue breathed a long sigh of relief, he said seriously: "Brother Fan, the means and methods are actually secondary. What is important is your heart. This heart must not be fake. People like Teacher Xie Tao, if you succeed soon, you will If you give up, then I, the person who came up with the idea, will be guilty.”