Chapter 2237?? A Mother-in-Law Like a White Lotus
Tang Xiaonan almost said the three words 'old white lotus', and quickly swallowed it. The term "white lotus flower" is not popular at this time, and no one understands it. It sounds like Xiaotian's mother-in-law is really annoying.
"Actually, the best way to deal with your mother-in-law is to pretend to be more pitiful than her. You cry when she cries, and you pretend to be sick when she is sicker than her. Let your husband worry about it."
Tang Xiaonan advises Xiaotian's mother, which is to take Bailian's way, leaving Bailian with nowhere to go.
"Mrs. Huo is right. It's useless to fight hard with your mother-in-law. It will only affect the relationship between your husband and wife. If you push your husband to your mother-in-law, you have to fight for your husband. If you don't want a divorce, you can only fight for it. Let your husband deal with your mother-in-law." Qiqi's mother said.
"But I can't cry, I'm such a strong woman, I haven't cried for many years." Xiaotian's mother resisted.
She only had tears when she was in elementary school, and she stopped crying after entering junior high school, because she knew that crying could not solve the problem, and she could only become stronger so that she would not be bullied.
"You silly, onion, ginger, whatever works, just because you don't usually cry, suddenly crying is even more rare and touching people's hearts, your husband will think, what a hateful old lady he is, who actually made the Iron Girl superhero The daughter-in-law is forced to become sister Lin." Tang Xiaonan said with a smile.
Everyone roared with laughter, the atmosphere was still a bit heavy, but suddenly relaxed, Xiaotian's mother was also amused, and her face was thoughtful.
Maybe she should really change her method. During this period of time, she also noticed that there was a problem between the husband and wife, and the reason was the old woman. Talk to her.
"Does this really work?" Xiaotian's mother said uncertainly.
"It will definitely work. If you still want to restore the relationship between husband and wife, you have to use this method. People like your mother-in-law can only use soft knives. Head-to-head is not enough. It will only push your husband further and further away. Over time , your husband and wife are really going to have problems." Tang Xiaonan said with confidence.
Getting along between husband and wife is also learning. Only affection and sincerity are not enough, wisdom and tolerance are also required.
Xiaotian's mother is too stubborn and has a personality that would rather bend than bend, which easily arouses conflicts. She has seen Xiaotian's father, who is also a temper that would rather bend than bend. They collided with each other, and the result was Mars hitting Venus, and the universe exploded.
There must be one side that softens first, Xiaotian's father has been provoked by his mother, and he will definitely not be softened, so Xiaotian's mother can only soften first, and then do a little trick, and the problem will be solved.
Tang Xiaonan became interested in what she said, and taught on the spot, "You have to learn to be weak. Your husband has a strong temper, like steel. If you are like steel, if you hit each other with a bang, you will die or he will die. You have to surround him like water." Hold him, let him go nowhere, obediently listen to you."
Xiaotian's mother was fascinated by what she heard, and she was a little shy, "I...what should I do?"
"Being coquettish, pretending to be weak, you have to learn these two things."
Seeing Xiaotian's mother disdainful, Tang Xiaonan said: "Do you think that weak women are worthless? Women who act like a baby are incompetent? Let me give you the most representative example. Wu Zetian always knows, right? Is she the most successful strong woman?"
Xiaotian's mother nodded, indeed, there has never been anyone before, and there will be no one since.