Chapter 438 Doumian, Bear Rice Feud

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"Master, I just let Grandpa leave it alone, right?"

Yang Zimei looked at Yuqing anxiously and asked, "Am I being unfilial?"

"Niuniu, Master, let me tell you a story about Doumian taking on rice-"

Yuqing sighed.

"Okay, Master, say it."

"In the past, there were two families who were neighbors, and they usually had a good relationship. Because one family was more capable, the family was much richer.

There was no grievance between the two families, but this year, God was angry and brought disaster, and Tanaka failed. The poor family had no harvest and had to lie down and wait to die. At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food. Thinking of everyone’s neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family to save the emergency.

This poor family is very grateful to the rich, and thinks that this is really a life-saving benefactor! After the hardest moments, the poor go to thank the rich. During the conversation, when talking about the seeds for next year, the rich family said generously: "Well, I still have a lot of grain here, you can take another bucket." The poor man went home with a bucket of rice thankfully.

After returning home, his brother said, what can this rice do? In addition to eating, there is simply not enough seeds in our fields next year. This rich man is too much. Since you are so rich, you should send us some more food and money. It is really bad to give us such a little.

When this word reached the rich man's ears, he was very angry and thought, I gave you so much food for nothing, and you not only do not thank me, but also hate me like an enemy, you are really not human. So, the two families who had a good relationship. Since then, they have become enemies, and they have never been in contact with each other. "

Yuqing finished the story, looked at Yang Zimei and asked, "Niuniu, do you understand the story?"

Yang Zimei nodded.

The point of the story is that if you give a little help in times of distress, people will appreciate you.

If you continue like this, and suddenly you don't help for some reason, the other party will hate you and will hate you for a lifetime!

Just like people who receive relief, after getting used to it, they often take relief as a matter of course, and naturally they don’t think about what to do, and rely on their own labor to get food.

If you find out later that he has regained his ability to work and does not help him, he will take revenge on you.

This is because the other party takes the things you love to support as a matter of course. This is Doumian, bear Mi Chou.

Refers to the help of others, making them dependent, from gratitude to a matter of course, and finally enmity.

Grandpa also had such a mentality. He remembered that when she gave him 300 yuan as pocket money for the first time, he was very happy, saying that she was sensible and knew how to be filial to him.

Now, giving him 2,000 yuan a month, he doesn't think it's enough, and wants a credit card with unlimited overdrafts. If he doesn't give it, he feels that he has treated him badly, and curses himself as an enemy.

Therefore, this time, she must really harden her heart until her grandfather wakes up.

Yang Bo was stubborn, relying on the thousand yuan, he stayed in the village for only a week, and he couldn't take it any longer.

Going to a restaurant to eat every day, in addition to spending a lot of money, it is not delicious. I don’t have a good meal prepared by my wife and daughter-in-law. I have to wash the clothes and sweep the floor. The most important thing is that I am laughed at by the villagers every day, so that he who loves face, His self-esteem was greatly affected, and he began to slowly recall Yang Zimei's goodness.

My family can live a good life because of my granddaughter. When I go to the city, I am not despised by those powerful old men, but are attracted by them. It is also because of my granddaughter.

On the other hand, because she is a girl, she has never given her a good face, and she will only make demands on her.

Moreover, his son also told him that Niuniu helped others to make money by divination and fortune telling.

And he actually scolded her that she would be struck by lightning, it was too much!

Thinking about it, his old face turned red, and he scolded himself for being stupid!

If something really happened to his granddaughter, he would be poor like the old men in the village, instead of at least a thousand dollars a month like now.

However, his self-esteem made him unable to admit his mistakes, so he wasted on it, and in the end he couldn't bear it any longer, and he drove back to the city in despair.

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[Grandpa understands, dear friends, do you understand? I understand, I am grateful to my parents and the kindness of the people around me, instead of taking it for granted. Hehe, Xixi preached again! 】