Chapter 3573 Persuasion

"Wenli, I know you're doing it for me, but I've liked him for five years, from the freshman year, until now." Qu Jiajia's eyes were slightly red, and she persuaded herself to give up, but she couldn't let it go.

Bai Wenli knew that some things had to be figured out by herself and put down by herself, otherwise it would be useless no matter how much others said.

Her eldest sister Bai Wenjia is a living example, so she is not in a hurry.

"I know you like Li Ningde, I didn't stop you, I just wanted you to calm down and understand why the six-year relationship broke up when you were about to get married.

It's definitely no small thing. Li Ningde's girlfriend, you have seen it too, she looks good and has a good personality. You have a crush on someone, and when you look at that person, you always wear a filter, and you only see the good, but not the bad.

We have inquired about all the bad situations and listed them all. If you think you can accept the worst plan, then I will not stop you. But if you are confused, then I will tell you more. "

When Qu Jiajia heard the words of her good friend, she was very moved, "Wenli, thank you. In fact, sometimes I really envy you for being able to treat love so calmly."

Bai Wenli smiled, "I once had a crush on Shang Wenjun, I thought he was very talented, and for him, I went to work with him. If there was anything delicious, I wanted to bring him a copy.

When Shang Wenjun ate something, he should have felt my admiration for him, but he never expressed it, instead he accepted it with peace of mind. At that time, I thought that if you like someone, you just like them silently, without asking for anything in return.

But then my mother twisted my ears and slapped my ears. A normal man can feel the love of a girl. If he clearly felt it, he didn't express it, there were only two possibilities.

First, he doesn't like it enough, so he doesn't want to confess, but he enjoys the admiration and compliment of the opposite sex, which makes him very good and charming. Second, he regarded the other party as a spare tire and hung it. Valley

No matter what kind it is, it is not the responsibility and performance that an honest man should have. I still didn't understand at the time, but I listened to my mother's words and tried to think more, only to realize that I was stupid, and it was indeed the two situations my mother said.

In addition, you know a lot about my eldest sister's situation. She fell in love blindly and didn't listen to her parents' advice. Then it was miserable. From then on, I feel that parents tend to look at problems more calmly than women who are immersed in love.

They don't like people, always for very good reasons. Even if you can't accept it all, at least take your parent's advice seriously. "

Of course Qu Jiajia understood Bai Wenli's words. She knew that Bai Wenli had a crush on Shang Wenjun at the beginning.

Shang Wenjun worked during the summer vacation and talked and laughed with Bai Wenli. After school started, Shang Wenjun established a romantic relationship with another woman, and Bai Wenli stopped chasing Shang Wenjun.

At that time, Bai Wenli was also asked why, and Bai Wenli said that she was busy writing novels and had no time for a crush, so she fell in love.

It turned out that the real reason came from Bai Wenli's parents.

Qu Jiajia nodded, "Wenli, thank you, I think you're right."

Bai Wenli smiled, "No thanks, we are good sisters. I'll tell you everything you can think of. You must be calm yourself. Okay, let's eat quickly. After dinner, let's go shopping together. Buy some nice clothes. clothes."

"Okay, even if we don't make it into a female star, we have to dress up carefully." Qu Jiajia smiled, speeding up the speed of eating and gaining more time for shopping.