Chapter 749 Raising a Child Is Not an Easy Task
Jiang Xin was helpless. She was not a fool and could not see what Qin Dazhuang was thinking.
Not to mention, Qin Dazhuang has been completely different from before in recent years.
Although Qin Dazhuang did not gamble in the past, he was not a responsible man. He was the kind of person who took things easy and lived a stable life. At best, he was honest and down-to-earth, but at worst, he was unmotivated.
But Jiang Xin is different. After starting business, her vision and mind are different. What she sees will make people have different requirements for their future life.
If it was still the same Qin Dazhuang, he would never fall into Jiang Xin's eyes, but he didn't expect that Qin Dazhuang would also make rapid progress.
Qin Dazhuang's current change is indeed surprising.
"Not today! My mother asked me to take the children back for dinner. My uncle is back, so we can all get together. Next week."
Jiang Xin knew that Qin Dazhuang looked forward to the day when he could take his daughters out every week, and she did not want Qin Dazhuang to be disappointed. After all, he was the father of the children, and she had never thought of letting the children hate this father.
She couldn't help but feel complicated. Qin Dazhuang's changes were really confusing.
The divorce was inevitable at first, but now Qin Dazhuang is also very surprising.
Now not only does he stop gambling and hitting others, he has returned to the Qin Dazhuang he was before, and he is even better than before.
Patient, gentle, tolerant, and responsible.
The same is the ability to do many things.
Jiang Xin didn't know what she wanted.
"Uncle is back. Okay, then you take the children back to get together with your family. It's okay. I'll pick them up next week. You wait first while I get the things in the car and buy them for the children. Some stationery and clothes.
I also bought some nutritional supplements for my mother...aunts and uncles. I originally said that I would bring them back after they left. Since they won't go over, I'll hand it over to you directly. "
Qin Dazhuang ran out in a hurry. After a while, big and small bags came over carrying two big bags of things. One bag was for stationery, snacks and clothes for the children.
The other package is full of nutritional supplements.
Jiang Xin complained, "Why do you buy these things for them again? You buy these two children clothes every week and they can't wear them at all. It's the time when they are growing up. They grow taller in a few months. You bought so much There are so many clothes, so many new ones are put away without even having time to wear them.”
Qin Dazhuang quickly spoiled his two daughters.
"It's just because the children grow up so fast that I have to buy them more clothes. I know that I will definitely not spend money like this next time."
Qin Dazhuang also knew that he doted on his two daughters to the heavens.
But he couldn't help it. When he saw those clothes and beautiful stationery, he couldn't help but think of his two daughters, and he couldn't help but buy them for them.
Every time it was shopping, others were mothers buying clothes for their daughters, and this was the only thing he, the father, could do for his children.
"The children are getting older now. You have to pay attention to your methods and buy so many things. The two children were spoiled. Many things began to be less and less cherished. When they went to school, they showed off their stationery to teachers and classmates. Well, how nice are their clothes.
Instead of taking studies seriously, you always compete with others for food and clothing. If this continues, the two children will really be taught something wrong. I am also doing it for their own good. You have to think more about how to teach them.
You can't blindly just want to pamper them. If you spoil them like this when they grow up, they will develop the habit of being high-minded and low-handed. In the future, you will have big problems getting along with others when you go out.
Besides, we are just ordinary people, and you have to teach your children to be frugal. You forgot that when my grandpa and grandma got into trouble, it was because of my uncle's lavish spending. It’s the trouble caused by the family’s wealth. If you think about it, if it’s really for their own good, you should teach them to be low-key. "
Jiang Xin didn't say these words, feeling unhappy, mainly because her two daughters had changed too much now.
The teacher has communicated with him that in terms of study, the two children are not as hardworking as before, and they often compete with their classmates for food and clothing. If this continues, the two children will really make detours.
Qin Dazhuang was filled with regret. After hearing this, he sincerely admitted his mistake.
"It's my fault. I didn't understand how to do this. I just thought that the children were not here with me, so I should love them more. But I didn't think about anything else. Don't worry, I know what to do in the future."
Seeing that Qin Dazhuang could listen, Jiang Xin softened her tone a lot.
"Okay, go back quickly. I'll pick them up from school in a while and head over there directly."
Jiang Xin took the key and got into the car.
Last year she bought a Xiali.
Sometimes it is more convenient to deliver goods to customers' doors. This car is more convenient.
Qin Dazhuang watched Jiang Xin leave and sighed as he stood at the car door. He didn't think about anything carefully. It seemed like he even messed up educating his children.
If they continue to toss like this, these two children will probably grow up to be arrogant young ladies. The question is what kind of family they are. Although the couple is rich now, no matter how rich they are, they are still ordinary people and cannot raise their children. Be like that.
They are still young now, so of course it doesn't matter to them, but when they grow up in the future, whether they get along with others or get married, they will marry into their mother-in-law's family.
Is it possible for the whole family to pamper you like a rich lady? That is definitely impossible.
The relationship between people cannot be measured by money alone.
Qin Dazhuang has experienced many things and has long been able to see things clearly.
The most important thing about a person is his character, which cannot be measured by money.
If the future son-in-law is interested in the money of his daughters and their families, then his character is probably not very good.
If people do not value money, but value character and personality, then the two daughters should be taught well.
No matter from which point of view, character should be the most important in a daughter's family.
He drove back to the hot pot restaurant.
Dinner was not collected yet. He originally thought that when his daughters came back, they could have dinner here, and then he would take the children home, help them with their homework, and chat with them.
Tomorrow he was going to take the children to the playground, so he told the manager of the store not to come for the past two days.
But he had nowhere to go for a while, so of course he went back to the store.
As soon as he entered the store, he saw the manager running over in a panic.
"Xiao Zhang, why are you so nervous? Did something happen in the store?"
From Xiao Zhang's appearance, something must have happened.
Xiao Zhang whispered, "Boss, an old lady and a woman just came and insisted that they were your mother and your elder sister. They were making a scene at the door and insisted on seeing you. I just sent someone to your house to look for you, but you were not at home and I didn't know what to do.
Because the old lady insisted that I take two hundred yuan from the counter, saying that they hired a car to come. It's not that I disagree, the two of them are making a scene there."
Qin Dazhuang's heart skipped a beat.