Chapter 197: Wake Up
Jia Shu put down the phone, covered her face and lay on the table, sobbing.
Jiang Xiaoxiao doesn't know how to coax people, she can yell at them.
It's not good to coax people.
But this is Jia Shu.
She could understand that Jia Shu was disappointed and sad about her family. No one knew what happened after she went back in her previous life. But based on what she said now, it can be guessed that Jia Shu not only lent money to her family, but she might also have received some kind of reward after she returned. A bigger hit.
This time, Jia Shu, under his influence, at least now knows how to criticize others.
This is the first step to be brave.
"Don't cry. I know you feel uncomfortable, but you are already so old. You should know what you can and cannot do. Your family can't just give in and accommodate them. Get used to them, slowly. If you develop these problems, you will take your efforts for granted.
That's not good for the family. You are a family member and you can always give in and accommodate yourself, but how could an outsider do this to them? Once they meet a powerful person, they themselves will not only be angry and wronged, but they will also cause trouble by offending others.
The same goes for your mother. To put it bluntly, she just sees you as weak and tries to pick on those who are weak. Taking care of your family is one thing, but you must have a certain idea of how far you can go. Just like sending money.
You sent back fifteen yuan right away. Your mother thought you could get fifteen yuan every month, so she took it for granted. Didn't you see how other people send money? He Aiguo and the others only sent two or three yuan when they sent them back, and the most they sent was only five yuan.
In this way, the family will not force them to send money, and they also know that it is not easy for them to live here, and it is even more difficult to make money.
It would be better if you send all the money back at once. Of course, your mother will think that you are living a comfortable life here. With so much money, you earn more than a worker, and she will think that you are enjoying happiness here.
Now the lion is opening his mouth. You have been wronged, but you are also responsible. "
Jiang Xiaoxiao was just blaming someone without discussing it, and Jia Shu was indeed at fault.
She gave in to her family step by step without saying anything, and she gave her family an opportunity. To put it bluntly, the reason why her mother can be so big-hearted is because Jia Shu also has problems with her own way of doing things.
Being smart or not is one thing, but even people who are not smart know how to watch others do things.
There are so many educated youths here who can’t learn other things from others. Is it possible that they can’t even learn how to send money home?
This is not to say that she should hide her selfish motives, but she should also be somewhat measured in her treatment of her family.
You can't just send all your money back.
Jia Shu couldn't stop crying, so why should she cry? Jiang Xiaoxiao had already said this, so it would be a bit pretentious to cry again.
"I also know that I have problems, but I just think about how difficult it is for my parents to be at home, and there are so many younger brothers and sisters at home. If I don't help them a little, life will be even harder for them at home, and I won't be able to have enough food at home. When I was young, I thought that I would find a way to keep my brothers and sisters fed.
But I never thought that if I sent this money back, they would come up with such a trick to force me to borrow money. It was my own brother who wrote this letter to me, and it was my own mother and father who came up with this idea.
When I think about this, I feel that I might as well not live. "
Jia Shu shed tears, she was really heartbroken.
Jiang Xiaoxiao handed her a handkerchief.
"I know you were hurt by your family, but you have to think more about yourself in the future. You want your family to be well and live a better life, but you can't do things in such a one-and-done way.
If you reveal all the secrets, your parents will naturally be overconfident. You have done so much field work yourself, but you don’t know how easy it is for us to earn such a small amount of work? I'm afraid your father and mother have never planned for you.
From now on, you will be normal and send back an average amount according to how much money the educated youths send back. Neither the highest nor the lowest, not eye-catching. Also let your parents plan carefully.
Especially your second brother, you don’t know what the conditions at home are like? It's surprising that the married woman's family can ask for these three items. Is this something an average family can afford? It's not just your dad, your mom thinks you can rely on her here.
It's you who gave them this idea, so they should think more about it in the future. "
In her previous life, Jia Shu did not dare to see people because of the scars on her face, and she was ridiculed and disliked.
She gradually became introverted and withdrawn, and her family did not want to see her. She never went back after she returned home.
Apart from sending money home, it seemed like she didn't exist at all.
Other than asking for money, no one from her family seemed to contact her.
In this life, Jiang Xiaoxiao hopes that Jia Shu can get rid of the vampire-like entanglement of her family members.
In her previous life, Jia Shu never got married and ended up miserable.
At least Jia Shu will be different in this life from her previous life! It's good to meet someone who loves her.
Jiang Xiaoxiao must wake up his friend.
Jia Shu looked at Jiang Xiaoxiao blankly. Thinking back to Jiang Xiaoxiao's words, something felt wrong about her.
Jiang Xiaoxiao sighed. As long as he thought about it, it would take time. A few words could make people wake up from a dream. That was not realistic.
I hope Jia Shu can wake up this time.
Don't place your hope in the warmth of family affection.
Asking for something and not getting it can end up hurting people.
The two men went back to work one after the other.
The work in the fields cannot stop.
This year's harvest depends on their hands.
Jia Shu was absent-minded when she returned to the dormitory. She sat on the kang and was almost speechless.
Jiang Xiaoxiao couldn't bear to see her like that, so she had to go cook by herself.
Song Moting followed her in, and he also found that Jia Shu was not quite right.
"What's wrong? What happened?"
The thirteen of them had a good relationship, and they could work together to find a solution when they encountered a problem.
Jiang Xiaoxiao shook her head. It was not appropriate to tell others about this matter.
Song Moting was so close to them, it was not appropriate either.
"She had something going on at home, and she was not in a good mood. She should just take a rest. Don't worry."
Song Moting stopped asking and started washing the vegetables.
Jiang Xiaoxiao stewed rice and fried a big stew, which was perfect.
There was no fresh vegetable in the early spring.
"Or we can grow some vegetables in the field outside the courtyard wall. I saw that the land was not small, at least seven or eight mu, and there was also wasteland on both sides of the road down the mountain, but if we cleaned it up, we should be able to grow a lot of vegetables."
Song Moting felt that the monotonous food was really distressing.
After all, everyone has to live for a few years, who knows what can be left.
Before leaving, you still have to plan for the future.
He had long seen that Jiang Xiaoxiao liked to eat those fresh vegetables. Didn’t he see that the farm manager gave them some mung beans a few days ago, and Jiang Xiaoxiao thought of ways to grow bean sprouts.
Not to mention, bean sprouts fried with meat are really delicious.
I haven’t seen fresh vegetables for a whole winter, and now I see that the mung bean sprouts are like wolves.
And the Chinese toon fried eggs that Jiang Xiaoxiao asked them to pick from the tree a few days ago are also a must.
He saw that Jiang Xiaoxiao still had requirements for food.
So he created conditions in various ways.