Have a Love Story

The story comes from a reader.

This reader wrote his emotional experience in a book review section.

I won't repeat the specific content, the big characters are too troublesome, the general meaning is:

He had been in a relationship with a girl for two years, and the boy was ready to take the girl to meet her parents, and also considered the stage of marriage. Everything was ready, but the girl finally broke up. Boys are recalling a lot, keeping many gifts from girls, very affectionate.

Laozhu, I uphold the principle of wishing all lovers in the world to get married. I think it would be quite meaningful if I write hundreds of them if I can restore a sincere relationship.

In addition, the fact that a girl broke up does not mean that the girl is determined or not a good girl, but that she is gradually recognizing the reality of the problem. Measured and considered in love and reality. This is a microcosm of women's growth in modern society, and its essence is social reasons.

Let me analyze it:

Although the boy did not make it clear in the message, the reason for the breakup is obviously a practical issue.

What practical problems, I guess, should be distance and economic strength, only these two points.

Let’s talk about distance first: Long-distance relationships are common. Distance can produce beauty because the other party is not used to being by your side. Once you get used to this unaccustomed, distance will create distance, and it will be difficult to maintain the relationship. Therefore, being together has become the best way to warm up and maintain the relationship.

The problem lies in the word "together". The woman's family does not agree with the daughter's marriage, she does not want to come, you do not want to go, there must be both. If you feel you must have her, give it a go. To tell the truth, get married first, and where will be in the future, God knows, what is said now does not count. If you have to think so much rationally, you are actually just looking for reasons for yourself.

Let's talk about the economic conditions: It depends on whether you have the courage to share the adversity. Everyone's life is getting better and better. Her family objected, if you don't try it, how do you know it won't work? Men, when they are young, are prone to impulsiveness. When their thinking is particularly mature, impulsive behavior is extremely difficult to produce, and they will be extremely rational.

To put it bluntly, money can be earned, one is to give up now, and the other is to give up in the next 50 years, which one do you want?

If you can put it down casually, then forget it. If you are really emotional, then be impulsive. If you lose, you have nothing to lose, and if you win, you will be comfortable for a lifetime. Don't fight, you don't know that you can be a madman.

As an old pig, I have traveled all over the world, and the one problem I have the deepest understanding of is: the problem is there, and there are ten thousand ways to solve it.

Finally, let me sigh: Love in modern society is always defeated by these things. When people grow up, they will recognize more and more realities. In fact, they just lack the courage to gamble on the future. In fact, the bet is really not a big problem. Whether it's the boy or the girl, it's the same problem.

Someone is accompanied by youth, who amazes whose time, who gentles whose time. how wonderful.

The premise is: you guys are really in love, otherwise, just pretend I didn't say it.

The writing is average, but I hope you can recognize the facts and not be destroyed by the poisonous chicken soup that is full of modern society.

Also, this boy, if there is a result, remember to say it. At the same time, ask the readers for a monthly ticket...