Chapter 786 Psychological Gap
"From your description, Madam Ling does have certain postpartum depression symptoms. But it should be in a relatively mild state. You can find out so early, which means that you and Madam should have a good relationship. This is also a good thing, early detection Only by treatment can it be controlled early, if it is really delayed for a long time, it may become more serious, and it is not easy to treat."
Huo Chenhuan was not comforted at all when he heard his words, she frowned and said: "She has been a little emotionally up and down recently, is it also because of this?"
"Yes, many people only know that pregnant women have big mood swings during pregnancy and are out of control. In fact, the period after giving birth is the most difficult period for pregnant women. During this period, their psychological pressure is very high, and emotional anxiety is not easy. Control, all aspects are relatively sensitive, and it is extremely easy to be affected by foreign objects.”
Huo Chenhuan was silent for a moment, then asked in a deep voice: "Foreign object? What specifically caused this situation?"
"There are many factors that lead to postpartum depression in pregnant women. The more common ones are disharmony between husband and wife and even mother-in-law and daughter-in-law."
The relationship between their husband and wife has always been very good, and there is no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. This reason is obviously not valid.
"It could also be that raising a child is too stressful, the child is noisy or doesn't know how to feed and take care of the child."
There are servants and Yuanyuan to help take care of the child, and he will also help to look after it in his spare time. She rarely makes her tired because of this, and it shouldn't be for this reason.
"Furthermore, after pregnancy, the body of many pregnant women will change. The growth of the fetus will make their body out of shape. Even if the child is born, the changed body cannot be restored to its original shape immediately, which will also give them a certain amount of pressure. .”
Huo Chenhuan was stunned, suddenly recalling that on the first night they went home, Su Yayan seemed to pinch her still fleshy belly and asked him if it was ugly?
"It's also possible that you can't fully adapt to the change in identity."
"A change in identity?"
"Yes. Ma'am is not very old, and she is in the most youthful and beautiful period of girls. Even if you marry someone and become your wife, you must still feel the same as before. But now that you have a child, it means that you have become your wife. Became the mother of the child. From this moment on, she can no longer be the master of everything, and she can do whatever she wants."
"To give a simple example, before you get married, you and your wife can go out anytime and anywhere, go shopping, watch movies, or even travel. But after having a child, no matter what the wife does, she will subconsciously think of the child. Even if it is going out shopping or watching movies , I will always think about how the children at home are doing now? Did they eat well and sleep well, did they cry? Not to mention traveling, it is almost impossible in a short time."
"Such a sudden change of identity will bring a certain psychological gap to Madam, and it will also have a certain impact on her psychology."
If it wasn't for the doctor's analysis, Huo Chenhuan would never have thought that behind Su Yayan's intense reaction to Ling Xiaoqi's casual words, there were so many twists and turns, unspeakable thoughts.
"If it is the latter two cases, how to treat it?"
"Judging from Madam's current situation, such emotions are not particularly serious. You can skip the medicine for now. The key point is on you. During this time, you should spend as much time with Madam as possible to reduce her pressure, and find some things to divert her appropriately. Attention, don't let her think about it..."