Chapter 2439 What’s Wrong with Me as a Mom?
Who knew that raising a child now is so expensive, much more difficult than when their family supported a college student.
Not to mention, their family only supported one college student, but Qiao Nan had to raise three children at once.
If the money is doubled, it will be so much that it is scary.
In this way, Ding Jiayi couldn't help but feel lucky that she was born at a good time and didn't choose such a perverted time to become a mother.
If she really wanted to raise children like Qiao Nan, let alone two, even if there was only one Qiao Zijin, with her and Qiao Dongliang's ability to make money, they would never be able to train Qiao Zijin, it would be too expensive.
However, thinking of Qiao Nan as the daughter-in-law of the Zhai family, the Zhai family would not be unable to take out the money to raise children and need to rely on Qiao Nan. In addition, didn't Qiao Nan get a large inheritance more than a year ago?
With this inheritance, what she couldn't do, Qiao Nan should be able to do easily.
Yes, if it wasn't for this situation, how could Qiao Nan have the confidence to raise three children at the same time, and act like a rich man who was particularly willing to spend money on children.
"I went to school, and I just played along."
Qiao Nan's answers were all very simple, and it was obvious that she didn't want to talk too deeply with Ding Jiayi.
Ding Jiayi smiled: "It's good to go to school early. The foundation is better than other children, so it will be easier to go to school in the future. Isn't it a popular saying now that you can't let your children lose at the starting line? Your father likes the three children you gave birth to very much, so you should spend more time to cultivate these three children, don't let your father down."
If the three children are very outstanding, Old Qiao will be very happy to know.
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Qiao Nan was speechless for a while. She is the biological mother of the three children. She is not a mother like Ding Jiayi who can't figure things out. She gave birth to all three children. She loves them all and will never show favoritism, or give one to the other and let the three children suffer unfair treatment.
Whether it is for money or love, Qiao Nan will not treat her children harshly.
On the contrary, because she gave birth to triplets, Qiao Nan had to devote all her efforts to let the three children feel the love and happiness from the family and grow up healthily.
She would not even lose the three children emotionally, so how could she let one or two of the three children suffer this loss in terms of material?
With Zhu Chengqi as her godfather, Qiao Nan now has everything she needs, and the last thing she needs is naturally money.
Ding Jiayi's words sounded like she was really concerned about the three children, but Qiao Nan couldn't help but feel a little ironic.
As a mother with two daughters who didn't educate them well, what qualifications did Ding Jiayi have to remind herself?
Forget it, it's easy to talk without any pain in the waist, as if everyone knows it.
Ding Jiayi couldn't do it herself, but she made high demands on others and wanted them to do it.
Compared with Ding Jiayi's other problems, this is not a problem: "Don't worry, my parents-in-law love the three children very much, and they love their grandchildren like nothing. Sons and daughters are not as valuable as grandchildren. What I do is not important, what is important is that my parents-in-law are the kind of people who will never let the three children suffer."
Sincerely, with Zhai Guanghui and Miao Liang's attention to the three treasures, even if Qiao Nan is really the second Ding Jiayi, she has no chance to treat the three children badly, and she would have been slapped aside by Zhai Guanghui and Miao Liang.
Fortunately, Qiao Nan is a good mother who loves children very much.
Since Qiao Nan gave birth to the three treasures, the atmosphere in the Zhai family has been getting better and better. The three treasures grew up in such a happy family, and their happiness is about to break the table.
Ding Jiayi's words seem to be a little insincere. It's just a conversation, and it's meaningless.
"Didn't the three children go back to Pingcheng with you? I am their grandmother after all. Can I see them?"
Having seen the three children, she can also talk about the three children when she has a chance to meet Old Qiao in the future, and find some common topics with Old Qiao.
Qiao Dongliang has moved away for more than a year. No matter how dumb Ding Jiayi is, she knows what to say and what not to say in front of Qiao Dongliang, what to say to make Qiao Dongliang happy, and whose name to mention, Qiao Dongliang will immediately turn against her.
The latter is undoubtedly Qiao Zijin, Ding Jiayi's favorite daughter, and as for the former, it is Qiao Nan and her son.
People's preferences are difficult to change for a while, not to mention that Ding Jiayi hates Qiao Nan to the extent of being possessed.
She can't talk about Qiao Zijin to Qiao Dongliang, lest Qiao Dongliang gets angrier and angrier, but if she talks about Qiao Nan, Ding Jiayi will get mad herself.
After summarizing, Ding Jiayi found that only the three little grandchildren, Sanbao, were the only safe topics between her and Qiao Dongliang, and the others were minefields. Either she stepped on Qiao Dongliang's minefield, or Qiao Dongliang stepped on her minefield.
In order to avoid mutual harm, she also hoped to use topics to enhance the relationship between husband and wife, so starting with the three children naturally became Ding Jiayi's best choice.
Speaking of the three children, Ding Jiayi didn't know the names of the three children, let alone what the three children looked like and what their tempers were.
The only thing she knew was that Qiao Nan was really more capable than her. Not only did she give birth to triplets at once, but it was also a combination of two sons and one daughter.
Sons, the precious golden nuggets that she had been waiting for all her life but never gave birth to, Qiao Nan gave birth to two in her life.
No longer thinking about the issue of sons, Ding Jiayi pulled her thoughts back.
Only if she knew more about the three children, she and Qiao Dongliang would have more topics to talk about.
Otherwise, she would only be qualified to listen, and would not even have the chance to interrupt.
"You want to see the three treasures?" Qiao Nan looked at Ding Jiayi warily: "What's the reason?"
Don't tell her that Ding Jiayi misses the three children, she won't believe a word.
If Ding Jiayi really likes her own children and is a normal grandmother, would it happen that the three children are already two years old, but have never seen their real grandmother?
Even though the three children are two years old, they can call everything except grandma.
"Your dad likes the three children very much."
Qiao Nan's attitude was too obvious, and she suppressed Ding Jiayi's excuse of "liking the three children and missing the three children" and didn't say it out.
She was afraid that if she really said it out, Qiao Nan would be unhappy, and Qiao Nan would be even more unwilling to let the three children see her.
Because she was scared, Ding Jiayi could only answer honestly, explaining that she was curious about the three children and that it was completely influenced by Qiao Dongliang.