Chapter 2251 Being Held Back

Life will not become colorful just because you make a few more friends.

Friends, how can it be so easy to make friends?

In the dream, Qiao Nan had worked so hard. In addition to having a good relationship with her high school roommate, she had the best relationship with Shi Qing. Later, when she went to college, she had another senior. In the dream, Qiao Nan already felt that she was very lucky and happy at that time, and she could meet so many friends worth making friends with.

"Dad, Mom, why are you guys always talking about this topic? Is someone spreading something again?"

"..." Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang were a little speechless, because Qiao Nan was right, someone was saying something.

Qiao Nan didn't like to socialize with people. After living in the military and political compound in the capital for so long, Qiao Nan had almost no contact with neighbors, making him like a lone ranger. If it weren't for the Zhai family, Qiao Nan's style and manners would be no different from a lone wolf.

Gossip, how can it stop!

In the past, when everyone disliked Qiao Nan and thought that Qiao Nan was not worthy of being their neighbor, Qiao Nan rarely went out and did not come to make friends with their family. Everyone thought that Qiao Nan was a self-aware person. Knowing that she was incompatible with the people in this compound and was not of the same kind, she could only save her face by not coming out and being an eyesore.

Now it is very different. Many people wonder why the daughter-in-law of the Zhai family never shows up in their compound and communicates with others. Is it Qiao Nan herself who is unwilling to communicate, or do the people of the Zhai family have some purpose to restrain Qiao Nan from communicating with others?

Except when the child is one month old, Qiao Nan, who never shows up, almost gives people an illusion: she is a tool specially found by the Zhai family to give birth to children. Now, after the child is born, Qiao Nan has changed from a chance to give birth to a child to an aunt who takes care of the child.

In this regard, the people of the Zhai family are very helpless, especially Zhai Yaohui. After all, they used to have a little friendship. Under the premise of taking good care of their own little piece of land, there are so many national affairs, why not pay more attention to the development of the country? Is it because she is old that she has learned the gossips of women?

Zhai Yaohui asked Qiao Nan to make friends, not to clarify this misunderstanding, he simply felt that Qiao Nan had always been too quiet. In the past, because of the Qiao family, she had no extra time except for working. After marrying into their Zhai family, she got pregnant in the shortest time, and she had to study with a big belly. In the past year or so, Qiao Nan had almost no free time. He naturally hoped that Qiao Nan could have her own personal time and world.

After discussing with Miao Liang, the two decided that while the three treasures were still young, they would try to take care of them as much as possible, so that Qiao Nan could free up the world and expand her circle of friends.

It is not important for others to misunderstand that the Zhai family regards Qiao Nan as a tool for giving birth and raising children, but it also makes Qiao Nan have such an illusion, which is a big problem.

b "No, nothing, there is nothing to say." Miao Liang smiled awkwardly. She didn't expect Qiao Nan to guess it right. Being asked this question by Qiao Nan without any preparation, Miao Liang couldn't even smile naturally.

Well, seeing Miao Liang's reaction, Miao Liang said no, how could Qiao Nan believe it: "Dad, Mom, I think that life is a closed-door life. Whether you are good or not, others can't tell for sure, only you know it best in your heart. I think the way I am now is pretty good. It's definitely a bit busy to take care of three children at once. But if you really let me not get involved in the affairs of three children and give me time to make friends specifically. First, I will feel empty and panic. Second, I think the friends made under such circumstances are not reliable."

Friends are not made with a specific purpose. Making friends for the sake of making friends is not the kind of friends in the true sense.

After spending so much time and effort, the purpose has not been achieved. What's the point, and you are exhausted. Qiao Nan didn't have the heart to force friends at all. For such things, you can only let nature take its course.

Qiao Nan had already said so reasonably,

Zhai Yaohui put his mind at ease. His original meaning was that his own people were more important, and he did not have such an idea just for the sake of what others said. He always felt that Qiao Nan had a low level of education, but she was very insightful. The more he met her, the more Zhai Yaohui confirmed his idea.

After Qiao Nan went to school, seeing that Qiao Nan, who was in a state of semi-absenteeism, had come back with a third place in the exam last year, Zhai Yaohui said that Qiao Nan was not only a child with high emotional intelligence, but also obviously had a high IQ.

Such an excellent child was born in the Qiao family, and was wronged, and was dragged down by the Qiao family. As long as Qiao Nan was given a chance to develop, she would definitely be able to show her head and feet, instead of being called "the vassal of so-and-so" by outsiders.

If Qiao Nan did not grow up in a family like the Qiao family, if Zhai Sheng still married Qiao Nan in the end. Who knows, now when outsiders mention the couple, when they mention Qiao Nan, they don’t say "Oh, the woman Zhai Sheng married", but "Oh, the man Qiao Nan married".

Zhai Yaohui didn't know that his thoughts at this moment were real in Qiao Nan's dream, and he didn't think too much. When Qiao Nan appeared in front of others, people never described her as "Zhai Sheng's wife". When they met Zhai Sheng, some people would say "You are Qiao Nan's other half".

"You two are really..." Seeing that Zhai Yaohui "compromised" so quickly, Miao Liang was unhappy: "Nannan, you often go to school now, but you haven't met a girl you get along with?" Isn't it said that friends made in school are pure friends? Nannan is studying in school, isn't it a good time to make friends?

Taking advantage of this moment, Qiao Nan finally solved her lunch: "Mom, don't mention my worry. The school I am attending now is different from the school in your concept. The kind of school you are talking about is a school that students enter and come into contact with. My school is a place for learning and self-improvement in a pure sense."

Anyone who goes to adult college is either for a diploma or for a greater purpose. The former is to pay money to get a diploma, and the latter is to absorb knowledge or harvest results. Making friends is not very realistic.

Of course, Qiao Nan didn't say it too hard, nothing is absolute. It's just that she has never had any good luck since she was a child, except marrying Zhai Sheng and entering the Zhai family. So when it comes to making friends, Qiao Nan has no intention of forcing it at all.