Chapter 2032 Cannot Be Erased
In this way, raising a daughter is really a disadvantage. In this situation, the daughter is completely like raising someone else's son.
Anyway, she wouldn't do this. If she was rich and could make money, she would definitely find a way to spend all the money on her family, especially her parents. After all, these people are my closest relatives. They have lived together since childhood, and their relationship is not comparable to that of ordinary people.
Instead of wasting a lot of money on an outsider called "husband", so what, it is better to spend it on your own parents, brothers and sisters.
When Ding Jiayi heard this, she realized that this made perfect sense. She gave birth to Qiao Nan and raised Qiao Nan. Qiao Nan finally made money, but she had to use the money to support outsiders and be filial to other people's elders. She and Qiao Dongliang had to take a back seat. Why?
Rather than letting others enjoy the fruits of her labor in vain, it is better for her to firmly hold the fruits of her labor in her own hands. At least, all the money Qiao Nan earned before she got married must be kept in her own pocket.
Qiao Nan is so good at making money. After one year, she will earn two to three hundred thousand. After five years of earning, Qiao Nan will almost become a millionaire. Why should Qiao Nan marry into someone else's family with one million dollars, and then use the million dollars to give flowers to her husband, or to give money to her father-in-law and mother-in-law? Only she and Lao Qiao would not enjoy any happiness at all.
Under Qiao Zijin's influence, Ding Jiayi became more and more domineering, and her demands on Qiao Nan became higher and higher. Ding Jiayi never felt that there was anything wrong with what she did. It was an excessive behavior toward Qiao Nan.
All unreasonable behaviors were rationalized by Qiao Zijin's distorted explanations. Ding Jiayi simply regards this set of ideas as a guide to life, and must refer to it for everything.
There was Qiao Nan in the past, how could Ding Jiayi have her mind set on Qiao Zijin. Now that Qiao Nan is no longer a shield, and Ding Jiayi's thoughts have not changed at all, what's the problem with applying the set of reasonable guidelines she applied to Qiao Nan to Qiao Zijin?
Ding Jiayi didn't agree with being criticized and criticized by Qiao Zijin today, and she even felt that she was wronged: "Why am I not good to Qiao Nan? You didn't tell me, instead of letting Qiao Nan earn all the money from her , it’s better to be filial to me and your dad if you spend it on outsiders. You have a lot of money now, shouldn’t you be filial to me and your dad?”
Isn't it just a matter of paying a mobile phone bill, which costs a hundred yuan at most. If it was a big deal, Zijin would argue with her because he disliked her as a mother who was too harsh. If this is considered harsh, then what has she asked Qiao Nan to do over the years?
Ding Jiayi knew very well that compared with her previous demands for Qiao Nan, what she said to Qiao Zijin was not much of a request. Even here, I was scolded by Qiao Zijin.
Who is the mother and who is the daughter?
Of course, Qiao Zijin didn't remember much about what he had taught Ding Jiayi. After Ding Jiayi's reminder, Qiao Zijin was somewhat impressed: "Mom, this society is changing every day. You can't always be so old-fashioned and complacent, with no progress at all. When your daughter grows up and gets married, she will eat from her husband's family. What's wrong with drinking from your husband's family and paying a little for your husband's family? Also, when your daughter grows up and has her own life, you have to let us be independent. This independence maintains independent personality, independent life and financial independence."
She has done a very good job, right? In today's society, there are many people who prey on the old. She had money in her pocket, and she didn't think about spending her parents' money. She spent her own money everywhere. Compared with those nibbling old people, she is considered a filial daughter. She didn't even have so many demands on her mother, so why should her mother have so many demands on her?
Qiao Zijin's biological mother, what does Qiao Zijin mean by financial independence? Others don't understand it, but Ding Jiayi understands it. The so-called economic independence means that all the money in Qiao Zijin's pocket belongs to Qiao Zijin. He should not interfere, let alone take Qiao Zijin's money. This is what Qiao Zijin calls economic independence. .
For money, the mother and daughter, who had always been very united, started quarreling in the police station. The people in the police station were dumbfounded and speechless at this strange mother and daughter. All he talked about was money, and he started arguing in front of outsiders in the bureau. No wonder the aunt's lover sounded so cold when he received their call. Not only was he not nervous, but he also said he would pick them up in an hour.
The content of the conversation between the two was too simple and without any connotation. Anyone with ears and brains would understand what the mother and daughter were arguing about. The mother asked her daughter to pay the phone bill, but the daughter felt that the mother was not financially independent enough, so she kept grabbing her daughter to suck her blood, and found various excuses to spend her daughter's money.
Based on this conversation, people in the bureau said: Neither mother and daughter are good birds, so no wonder they are in that kind of news. It seems that those reports in the later period of the news are all true. After arguing for a long time, the mother and daughter never left the word "money" in their words. Not to mention that money was more important than family ties, they almost regarded money as more important than life.
Of course Qiao Dongliang didn't know about the quarrel between Ding Jiayi and Qiao Zijin in the police station. The Zhai family held a luncheon, not a dinner party. So, around two o'clock in the afternoon, the show ended. The important guests were sent off by Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang, and the younger ones were naturally arranged by Zhai Hua.
Seeing that most people had left, Qiao Dongliang stood up: "Nannan, you have a child who will be blessed in the future. What happened in the past was wrong, it was wrong, you can't go back, and you can't change anything. You are...very good now, just keep it like this. What if one day, I am gone, I will not be able to manage them. You should do things according to your conscience, don't push away what you should manage, and don't take on what you shouldn't manage. Since ancient times, only parents raise children, and children feed their parents. Your sister is so old, and she is still a mother. It doesn't make sense for you to take care of her and support her for a lifetime. Your sister is not decent, don't pay attention to her in the future."
Qiao Nan nodded and called "Dad" very calmly. These instructions came too late for Qiao Nan. The past years are indeed irreversible, and it is useless to continue to entangle. But this does not mean that Qiao Nan can completely forget the hurt he suffered in the Qiao family in the past.
Everything she had gone through could not be easily erased by her father's few words of comfort, which were neither light nor sincere. After the comfort, could she pretend that the incident had never happened, or could she say that the suffering she had endured could really become a thing of the past?